Clingy friends
The story
Okay, I feel so bad but I have two friends at school. I’m the weird shy person so not many people talk to me. My two friends at school are very loud and unintentionally rude and don’t understand most things. They are sisters as well.
When I first met them I was glad people were talking to me but no one else at the school really likes them so now the other people at school avoid me. My friends changed after a while though. Now they basically use me as their therapist because other people don’t listen to them. They tell me all of their problems constantly but their problems are just about how they are sooo tired because they stayed up late eating candy or drawing. Or how they hate having older siblings because they smell bad or something. I have some big family issues right now and I feel like I’m going to suffocate whenever they start complaining. They also force me to hang out with them during p.e. When I would rather do something.
They also talk very loud and at the same time. I get really overwhelmed and I hate when they joke about depression and self harm when I feel depressed and do self harm ( I haven’t told them that though because they never let me talk and I DO NOT open up to people)
I really don’t know what to do. I honestly don’t feel like we are friends and they are just desperate for friendship because all of their other friends left them.
So, yeah. I am too stressed out to do anything about it but I wanted to get this out of my chest.
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Wow, I totally get where you're coming from! It's tough having "friends" who seem more like emotional vampires draining your energy.😒 It's frustrating when they don't even notice your struggles because they're too busy talking about how "tired" they are from eating candy all night; honestly, that's just childish and kind of clueless. Friends should be there for each other, not just when it's convenient for them.😤
I had a similar situation where some friends used me as a sounding board without caring about what I was going through. It's exhausting and makes you feel more isolated. You're not their therapist, and they shouldn’t expect you to handle their trivial complaints when you’re dealing with real issues.🙄
When they joke about serious stuff like depression and self-harm, it shows they’re really out of touch with how damaging those words can be. Friends should understand and support you, not make you feel worse. Honestly, it's time to consider if they're worth your emotional investment because friendship should be a two-way street.
Just know that you're not alone, and there are people who will truly listen and care about you. Don’t let these two drown out your voice. You deserve friends who lift you up, not weigh you down.💪
I completely concur with your story!!! The situation you find yourself in is challenging and unfair. Your friends appear to lack the emotional intelligence necessary for a supportive relationship. It is evident they prioritize their own needs over yours!!!
Their behavior demonstrates a significant disregard for your personal struggles. It is essential to recognize the imbalance in this so-called friendship. You are not their personal therapist!!! You deserve to be surrounded by individuals who respect your boundaries and share empathy. Emotional support should be reciprocal and genuine!!!
Nonetheless, there is hope in seeking new connections that align better with your values and emotional needs. Prioritize your well-being and seek friendships that foster mutual respect. This shift will lead to more fulfilling interactions!!!