Anonymous Venting for Mental Health and Emotional Support
IIWIARS is an anonymous venting site. Write about what's weighing on you under an automatically generated pseudonym, read other people's stories, and get points of view on your situation.
It's a place to share and discuss, not a therapy service. The name stands for “If I Was In A Reality Show”: here's why.
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Sometimes i just wonder, like, how do people manage to not care about every little thing like I do? It's as if i'm constantly on the edge, worried about things that most folks seem to shrug off without a second thought. Like yesterday, my friend was talking about some minor issue at their job and it really hit me how…
Title: Am I genuinely hurt, or am I playing the victim in a misunderstanding with my best friend?
I need honest opinions on a situation with my best friend. Please don't automatically take my side just because I'm the one telling the story. I genuinely want to understand both perspectives and know if I'm failing to…
so I went to this family gathering recently, thinking it was just going to be a chill Sunday with some food and casual chats. you know, the usual vibe. but nope! instead, I ended up smack in the middle of a family drama storm that shook the whole place. one moment, we’re all munching on grandma's famous casserole, and…
have you ever found yourself pulling away from social situations even when you know they could actually be enjoyable? I started noticing this weird pattern creeping in over the last year, but a recent family gathering really pushed me to think about it. Like, why do I keep building these emotional walls around myself?…
I want to be good but i feel pathetic all the time because nothing happens in my life and im not really interested in a lot of things unfortunately so i dont really go to any clubs and plus i know i grow to despise it because i hate being forced to do stuff i feel like in school that im just on autopilot and nothing…
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I've come to the harsh realization that perhaps, I'm not the nicest person around. In my mid-thirties, I find myself surrounded only by a single friend and a girlfriend, yet I can't shake the feeling that I'm somehow superior to others. My lifestyle is quite reclusive; I shy away from any social gatherings related to…
Hey everyone, I’m not usually one to air my personal stuff, but I really need some advice here. For the past few months, I’ve had this gut feeling that my wife might be cheating on me, and it's eating me alive. I don’t want to jump to conclusions, but the signs are starting to pile up, and I’m just not sure what to…
For the longest time, I’ve been stuck in this cycle of excuses. I’d wake up every morning telling myself I’d make changes, that today would be different, but by the time the day ended, I was back to square one. Whether it’s eating healthier, exercising, or even just cleaning my space, I keep putting it off. I’d tell…
How can I remember someone that I used to love with happiness and not pain?
There’s someone that I truly loved with my whole heart and he was for a while my best friend.
We met at a volunteer and then we became really like really close. He became my best friend. He truly understood me and knew about the mazes…
Dear Stranger,
I hope you are doing good. I’ve been carrying something heavy for months and it’s time to toss it into the ocean. In March, my ex-boyfriend broke up over text a few days after our one-month anniversary. We fought because I brought up my issues, and he suddenly ended it, refusing to sort things out. He…
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