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IIWIARS is an anonymous venting site. Write about what's weighing on you under an automatically generated pseudonym, read other people's stories, and get points of view on your situation.

It's a place to share and discuss, not a therapy service. The name stands for “If I Was In A Reality Show”: here's why.

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Family fighting
Family Drama Stories

so like i was sittin there chillin after dinner, just minding my own business, when boom! 😲 suddenly i hear my parents goin at it about money... again!!!! seriously, can we not have a single meal without this drama??? it's like they wait until the plates are cleared to start their financial boxing match!! and lemme…

spreading rumors
Workplace Drama

dudes, i recently found out that somebody in my office has been spreading rumors about me. it's really starting to tick me off. you know when someone just twists up a perfectly fine day? yeah, that’s how i'm feeling lately. there's no evidence right now, so i'm like lowkey blindfolded trying to navigate this nonsense.…

I’ve found out at therapy that sometimes whenever I’m going trough a good phase, like finally taking care of my body and mind and being more responsable in many aspects in my life, like to finally save money, help a lot at home, cook my own food, do the laundry and those kind of stuff. I’m surrounded by great friends…

your feelings are valid
Workplace Drama

I recently had an experience that's been on my mind, and I just need to vent about it. During a meeting at work, I decided to share some ideas that I thought could really help our team move forward. Given the nature of our project, it's kind of essential for everyone to pitch in with their thoughts. But after I spoke…

my knee if getting worse I'm now finding it hard to walk and put weight through it.

I'm still waiting on physio but I'm not see6them till February next year and any physio I have done has seemed to make the pain in my knee worse or the exosises I've been doing doesn't work or I can't do .

even walk has become…

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I hate myself
Friendship Stories

I've come to the harsh realization that perhaps, I'm not the nicest person around. In my mid-thirties, I find myself surrounded only by a single friend and a girlfriend, yet I can't shake the feeling that I'm somehow superior to others. My lifestyle is quite reclusive; I shy away from any social gatherings related to…

Hey everyone, I’m not usually one to air my personal stuff, but I really need some advice here. For the past few months, I’ve had this gut feeling that my wife might be cheating on me, and it's eating me alive. I don’t want to jump to conclusions, but the signs are starting to pile up, and I’m just not sure what to…

It’s Time to Stop Making Excuses
Health and Wellbeing Stories

For the longest time, I’ve been stuck in this cycle of excuses. I’d wake up every morning telling myself I’d make changes, that today would be different, but by the time the day ended, I was back to square one. Whether it’s eating healthier, exercising, or even just cleaning my space, I keep putting it off. I’d tell…

Got lots
Love Stories

Got lots of love to give but no one wants to have it. They want the toxic ones.

Content review
Love Stories

Hi so my love life has been shit and so I've written some piece. I have no prior experience in writing or anything. I just wrote whatever I wanted to and this is what i've written

BLASPHEMY

Author’s Note: This piece is my own personal story which is inspired to me by the song I love and relate, Kalapastangan by…

How anonymous venting works on IIWIARS

  1. Sign in with an account you already have (Google, Apple, Facebook, Microsoft and others). IIWIARS does not save your name or email address: it keeps a pseudonym generated from your account identifier, and that pseudonym is what other people see.
  2. Share your story in the category that fits, with an optional poll. Stories are reviewed before they are published.
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