Life Stories and Everyday Drama

i'm 21, a woman who's just stepped into what should be an exhilarating time in life. i've begun dating someone wonderful, genuinely a nice guy who seems to have all the attributes one could wish for. everything around me suggests happiness but i'm puzzled by this inexplicable inclination towards sadness. it's as if there's a magnetic force within me that draws me towards melancholy even without any apparent reason. my days are filled with moments that should spark joy yet i find myself yearning for something sorrowful.

there's this paradox of feeling content on the surface yet emotionally unsettled deep inside. it could be my upbringing or perhaps there's an inherent trait within me that's wired to seek out drama or emotional complexity where there's none. sometimes i catch myself almost wishing for adversities just so i can feel their weight and purpose... sounds absurd right? i know there are plenty of reasons to be happy but why does my heart crave the rain when surrounded by sunshine? ☔️

I can no longer calmly pick up my phone to reconnect it, because then it starts to drain quickly. I feel like going out is a problem because then they might put me in the water, and I won't be there, and consequently, I'll find that no more water will come in for the rest of the week. I can't even express my problems with complete transparency because there's always the risk that something will happen, that something will shift, and then I won't be able to get it back. I can't even go outside calmly, because even the spaces aren't safe; there's no stable internet connection whatsoever, and I can't do anything about it. Recently, there was no stability at all; everything put me at risk of losing the activity, of having to turn back. Going outside is becoming risky because there's nothing that guarantees me an effect beyond the plausible, nothing that allows me to go further and feel comfortable there. I'm always at the mercy of my nerves. Of course, I feel like I'm exaggerating, more like I'm just recording my thoughts because I'm feeling well and I've been observing how my phone behaves for a while now. I'm fine, but it's difficult because there have been so many recent changes, and well, I think it's time to pay attention to those small things, precisely to observe how I feel about the stability of my life.

My boss is losing ground, absolutely at the office. The other key players are doing everything they can to sabotage his peace, to win over those who truly act as bosses. I also feel like I can't write calmly; these moments feel tense for me, and although it's over things that seem small, the point is that when navigating life, you always have to start with the small details to make effective moves. I always encounter surprises, and the idea is to start with those small elements, make them big, make them move forward. Things on the street are expensive lately, in fact, I feel like time throughout the day is getting shorter. As for writing, I feel like I'm not recording enough, I feel like I lack time because I feel like the world is consuming me, I'm scared of the world, I want to take refuge, but that makes me want to go out, and thanks to this instability, I feel like taking refuge again. I find myself between one thing and the other, I also feel like I'm becoming a habitual writer. I'm so sorry to hear about my friend. I don't know how she is. I recently sent her an emoticon after a birthday greeting in the office group chat. I left it there hoping it would stay, hoping there wouldn't be any changes in the group and that she'd always remember it, so she'd feel my support, a connection to the group. But with the bosses' infighting, that's all gone. Well, the group belongs to everyone, and being at the mercy of fate and having to ask for dedicated channels doesn't feel right. I feel like I have to live with this uncertainty, with this feeling of making the effort to do something and then not knowing what will happen. That's been my whole life so far. I don't even know what I'm going to do with my life, and I'm even afraid of ending up on the street, definitely, because I'm not doing anything to get ahead, just writing. But this makes me feel more, delve deeper, but at the same time, it acts as a kind of prison, a restraint, preventing me from doing things with my life.

I'm uselessly checking the time, because I can spend all the time I have left outside. I confess I feel a bit desperate, because everyone else is making an effort to fix things, to do something to keep things going, and I'm doing nothing, just the bare minimum. It turns out that when I was a child, my life was the opposite; I lived at the mercy of always doing something to please others in order to support myself, and that was it, without inhabiting a specific future, other than the one others dictated. But it wasn't pleasant, because I didn't know about it; I was only confined to it, only alienated by it. I don't know how to put it. I had never reached such depths of feeling. I remember feeling that my well-being wasn't important, but rather that no one could say anything. Others focused on giving me what I needed so I could do what they assumed I should do with what they gave me, always basing their decisions on their own minds and never on what I actually said. It was in that kind of environment that I was with my boss. I can't even count on a steady supply of drinking water. I have to wait for it to heat up, then wait for it to cool down, and then I have to get water outside. Buying water is expensive; it can eat up my income. I have no savings. My boss was completely negligent with his employees, obsessed with keeping them where he wanted them. If they strayed from his plan, he couldn't control them and, seeing an opportunity, fired them—abusing the system.

My boss had some very strange ways about him. His relationship with the employees was about manipulating them against each other, exploiting their feelings, always taking advantage of institutional guilt, playing on prejudices, losing control, and acting out a reality that wasn't the one we shared, all to gain power, always under the constant threat of escape. With my boss, I never felt safe, because he didn't operate based on concrete actions, but rather on things that were already in place, leaving me to figure out what to do with them, without even considering me personally. That's why I stood up for myself and looked for a way to get out of his clutches, by any means necessary, so that he wouldn't be left looking bad and then he couldn't say anything to me. I wanted to get rid of that guy for good. I didn't like him at all; he was a monster, and to this day, I don't have the energy to understand him. In fact, the guy is completely out of control, out of the office even though he's still on the payroll. He was just trying to escape, and I knew all his tricks from my experience with my father. And indeed, he didn't manage to get out, and now the office is his own tomb. The guy tried to call my father, but my father felt exactly where he was headed, unable to maintain his control, his tyranny, his narcissism. But he failed miserably in this attempt. My father wanted him to go down that same hole, precisely to make him feel the same way he did. Like all narcissism, my boss looked for salvation from the hole everywhere, but he didn't find it; instead, everyone turned against him. Another thing that also happens to me with water is that sometimes I find insects in it, and I don't like it. I feel like somehow my anticipation of the water being ready to drink is wasted. I like getting down to these tiny details and then expanding on them, expressing them; it's about starting with those small details and making a difference from there.

My boss's mind was completely shattered, completely broken, because he doesn't know where the shots came from. It all started with me being nice to him, being kind, even going along with his plan to distance myself from a friend when she had a problem. But everything changed suddenly. He became trapped, first in my hands, then in the hands of the other department, then in the hands of the office itself, and finally in the hands of the authorities. Then his job became out of his reach. The man was stripped of everything over a problem he thought would have a quick solution, a simple matter of letting it go. But he took it too easily, clinging to the idea that everything was fine, to everything that made it seem like everything was alright. But when he was in my hands, his attempt to get out of that situation, to show his feelings, thinking I was on his side, that I would accept him, didn't turn out that way. Instead, he saw himself falling into his own abyss. He didn't expect me to turn against him so suddenly, to still be concerned about my friend, and then to get involved in a mess within the medical profession. He simply didn't. I realized that things would be so intense that I wasn't up to the task of navigating the institutional landscape in favor of feelings.

Man, I'm so stressed about this whole potential layoff situation at work. It's like my job's hanging by a thread, and that giant corporate ax is just ready to drop. I've been in this industry long enough to know the signs, but honestly? This feels different. Seriously, my throat feels tight all the time... like I can't even swallow without overthinking it. My doctor mentioned something called globus sensation (a fancy way of saying your throat’s too tense from stress), but that doesn't help when you feel like you're gonna choke on air. 😩 Like come on, what kind of nonsense is that? Doesn't matter how many times I tell myself it's just anxiety playing tricks; my body isn't buying it.

It's wild how the brain can hijack your body over stressors that may not even happen! Sure, quarterly reports look a bit iffy and the boss has been dropping hints here and there about 'operational efficiencies' but really? Get outta here with that corporate B.S.! Anyway, decided to pour myself into online courses because why waste good panic energy when I can upskill instead? Focusing on staying competitive in today's market is critical while reminding myself: 'This too shall pass.' Alexa might have better control over her voice than I do right now when I'm anxious, but it's getting better. The struggle is real yet keeping faith helps keep me afloat – found a quote recently: 'Life has no smooth road for any of us as we advance.' It's all about the forward momentum...

So, I've been sittin' here for a while try'na wrap my head around this whole mess. Like most guys, I thought I had it all figured out, you know? I'm 43, got a decent job and yeah, married to someone I thought was my partner in crime. But two months back... man, found out she'd been cheatin' on me for THREE freakin' years! 😳 Gutted is an understatement but here's the kicker: we got three kids together and that's the part that makes this so complicated; Can't just pack up and leave when there are little ones involved, right? So staying seemed like the right thing to do.

Now, it's not just about trying to move past it....it's more like trying to figure out how to coexist with the reality of what happened. Working through those feelings every damn day. Some days are better than others though if I'm honest most are pretty rough. Keeping myself busy with work helps a bit but then there's always that nagging question at the back of my mind about whether I'll get over it and if things will truly go back to normal again.....whatever "normal" means now.

People say time heals everything but what they don't tell you is how long it's gonna take or how hard it'll hit you from time to time. There's no magic fix or roadmap for dealing with something like this especially when you got other lives depending on you being strong. Every now and then she tries apologizin', tellin' me it's all in the past. But heck who've they fooled? The trust's been shaken real good...I feel like I'm floundering without an anchor sometimes.

Yet, weirdly enough there's this hope lingering somewhere inside me too: like maybe one day we'll find ourselves lookin' back at this chapter as a phase that made us stronger somehow (sounds cliched even as I type it). Maybe someday I'll let go completely and truly forgive her (and myself) for whatever parts we played....but for now figuring out each day as it comes seems like enough.

To give some context, I think this feeling has been stuck with me for a long time. Three years ago, I ended a relationship that was very important to me, and since then, I’ve noticed that I compare almost everyone I meet to my ex. I know this is something I need to work on because I don’t want to see every new person through the lens of my past. But whenever someone starts treating me differently or becomes more distant, even after saying that things wouldn’t change, I immediately think: “my ex never treated me like this.” You might think, “but he treated you that way because he was your boyfriend, right?” The truth is that he was always kind and consistent with me, even before we started a relationship. He seemed sure about what he wanted, and that gave me a sense of security that I still remember.

Nowadays, I feel like many people struggle with emotional responsibility, and because I’m a sensitive person, I want to learn how to deal with these situations in a healthier and more mature way. I’m not that teenager anymore who felt everything so intensely and acted only based on emotions. I want to understand my own feelings better.

Recently, I started getting closer to someone. Before anything else, we were friends. At first, it was just a friendship where we would watch esports together and then go on with our lives. But after a few months, we became closer and things started to change. We ended up having an intimate night together, and after that, I felt like something changed between us. He said that nothing would change, but it feels like our conversations are not the same anymore. It feels like he doesn’t really want to talk to me anymore, he just replies, and that has started to frustrate me. Part of me wants to disappear before he has the chance to leave first, because I’m afraid of getting attached and ending up hurt. At the same time, I really don’t want to lose this person. I still want to get to know him better and understand who he really is. Something that made me feel insecure was seeing some texts he wrote about past relationships, especially about an ex. After everything that happened that night, I started wondering if I misunderstood the situation or if I’m just overthinking.

We still talk, but it doesn’t feel the same anymore. Sometimes disappearing feels like the easiest way to protect myself, but he has told me before that he didn’t like when I disappeared and that he missed me, I simply told him that I wouldn’t do that again and that I would handle things differently from then on. He understood, and after that, he started acting as if we were already in a relationship. I would wake up to messages like “good morning, my love” and voice messages where he would say my name in the morning.

So idk if I’m seeing things that aren’t there, if my fears are affecting the way I see the situation, or if I should accept that things have really changed.

Would you try to continue the friendship and see what happens, or would you walk away to protect yourself ?

Dealing with passive aggressive people in the workplace is like dancing on eggshells. You never really know when you're going to step wrong and crack one open, revealing underlying tensions and frustrations. My new manager, let's call him 'Tim,' is the epitome of passive aggression. Every interaction is a carefully constructed puzzle filled with indirect jabs and thinly veiled sarcasm that leaves me questioning my sanity! I mean, has anyone else experienced this? 😅 It's like he's read 'The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck' but got all the wrong messages from it.

Just last week, he sent an email with the subject line: "Great job...sort of." The body of the message praised my work on a recent project but concluded with "too bad it wasn't what we needed." Talk about a backhanded compliment! Venting here because I'm at my wit's end needing some advice or coping strategies. How do you guys handle this kind of behavior? I'm trying to stay professional while not letting his comments seep into my self-esteem. Some say confronting such people is key, yet others warn it might escalate the situation;; Thoughts?

why do i feel like everyone is against me? 🤔 that's the burning question that keeps haunting my thoughts these days. it's been two months since i joined this new job, and honestly, i thought things were going pretty well (at least that's what i assumed). i'm as fast-paced and efficient as they come (not to toot my own horn or anything), but instead of feeling welcomed or appreciated for my speed and efficiency, it's like i'm an outsider among colleagues who seem to be stuck in an ancient time warp where everything moves at a snail's pace!! 😅 before my arrival, they appeared to be doing almost nothing all day long. every task seemed to stretch on endlessly with zero urgency involved, which seemed weird to me at first. i mean... seriously?! i've always tried my best not to step on anyone's toes while working here, hoping we could all coexist peacefully without any drama or tension getting in the way of productivity today at work; however, it felt different from how everything started off initially. sounds crazy right? maybe it's just paranoia setting up camp inside my head convincing me people dislike change especially when someone new shakes things up?? perhaps they're intimidated by the workload suddenly requiring more effort than chilling out twiddling thumbs endlessly gets old eventually too!! truth be told: coming into such environments can sometimes cause ripple effects among teammates resistant towards progressions expecting equal participation fairness equality - you name it friends - sigh fixing conflicts arising team dynamics phase hesitance present fresh perspectives being honestly given doesn't solve matters automatically magically disappear overnight apart subtle adjustments gradual background mutual understanding empathy directed partnerships via stronger communication channels along balancing collective expectations varied paces individual levels ultimately achieve harmonious workspaces where productivity reigns supreme bringing balance unparalleled teamwork enthusiasm reignited allowing less stress heightened morale positivity boost nonetheless 🙌 so here's holding onto hope we find ways meet demands collaboratively creating happier workplace fostering growth both professionally personally despite occasional misunderstandings natural occur over course adjusting settling routines thankfully amazing bosses who've continually supported guided encouraging remain determined focused end goal emerge victorious blending past future propelling unified brighter prospects stemming hardwork dedication regardless temporary odds obstructing path tackling turning weaknesses strengths approaching everyday circumstances renewed optimism smile place confidence outstanding capabilities unfailingly shine 😀

yo so i'm just gonna dive right into this mess: anxiety's a pain and it’s messing with my vision real bad. like you ever feel like your eyes are betraying you? it's crazy, right? here i am thinking everything's cool and then bam, my vision decides to go blurry. feels like my eyes got their own agenda or somethin'. anyone else get that feeling when you're hella stressed out and your body just starts acting up in the weirdest ways? i'm sitting there minding my own business, trying to keep it together then suddenly everything goes outta focus 😒. searching online isn't much help either, mostly just tells me to chill out but how the hell am i supposed to relax when i can't even see straight half the time? ugh.

so what do y'all do bout this kinda stuff cause it's getting annoying as heck! dis stuff makes me wanna scream sometimes for real lol. heard some people saying 'just breathe' or whatever but really? i need more than breathing exercises if i'm stuck staring at a blur all day. why ain't there an easy fix for this crap yet? someone gotta invent glasses that filter out anxiety-induced blurriness or something 😂. seriously tho, anyone know any tips besides chilling out and drinking tea? idk if it's my screen-time messin' with me as well but it's not like i can avoid screens these days ya know? throw some ideas at me folks before i lose it completely.

i don't know why but it's always been like this. working as a financial consultant, i get sent all over the place for different missions every month or so. you'd think i'd be used to it by now. but nope, each new place i go, i find myself getting super attached to the people i meet there.

it's hard because just when i'm starting to really click with folks, it's time for me to pack up and move on to the next assignment. it's like my brain knows it's a temp thing but my heart doesn't get the memo, ya know? i've met so many cool peeps in different cities and worked with them closely on these projects... then bam, it's done and onto somewhere else.

i try to stay professional and keep a boundary of sorts but man, sometimes it just feels like i'm leaving behind friends not just coworkers. makes ending a mission kinda bittersweet even if the job itself is all wrapped up nice and tidy.

i dunno how others do it. they seem to handle this part of the gig way better than i do. maybe they've figured out some secret trick that keeps them from going all in emotionally or something.

Hey!

It's midnight here and I'm unable to sleep though my body is tired, but I just can't fall asleep. I have been thinking about my old self, the person I used to be back in high school. I was an Art student who used to spend most of her time playing with colors and sketch anything she sees like even a little insect lol. I had a very clear goal in my mind that I'll become an art teacher after graduation. Well, life happened and I was losing my soul piece by piece. I lost my parents, a home, caught up in addiction almost on my dead bed and the career that I never able to start.

These memories of mine are keeping me up all night, I would say multiple nights. There's this voice inside of me telling me to pick up my pencil and draw just draw, no matter what just do it. And I'm thinking is it too late to start all over again? Should I listen to the voice? Should I? idk It's been like more than 10 years since I picked up my pencil.

haha after typing my feelings here I feel calm. Nice platform

Life begins at the end of your comfort zone, they say, but for someone like me who has always been battling with a severe lack of self-confidence, this concept feels profoundly daunting. I've often pondered this notion while sitting alone in my room. There's an internal dialogue that happens almost every day as I try to muster up the courage to step outside of my familiar routine and embrace new challenges. However, each time, I'm left grappling with doubts and anxiety that seem to overshadow any attempt at growth. How does one simply find the courage to leap into the unknown when everything inside screams to stay where it's safe?

Despite what everyone preaches about finding oneself beyond familiar boundaries, my attempts have usually ended in perpetual hesitation and second-guessing! It's like there's this invisible barrier holding me back from reaching any form of transcendence that supposedly exists out there. Friends and family encourage me endlessly (saying transformation is just a step away... yeah...) but as much as I want to believe it, fear and apprehension continue to anchor me down.

Yet in those rare instances when I dared slightly step out of my comfort zone... oh how exhilarating it was!!! Moments like speaking up during a team meeting or simply trying a new hobby stretched my limits ever so briefly! But sustaining such bravery? That's where the challenge lies... Maybe such 'beginnings' require not just a deliberate push but consistent effort (and constant reassurance) that once I take that crucial plunge forward again... My life will indeed change for the better?! Until then?! The struggle persists...

Alright, so here's the deal. I'm 22, a dude, and I've NEVEEER had a girlfriend or anything close to that. You might think that's odd or whatever but for me it's just been this normal thing. I've never even felt attracted to someone, and I'm seriously wondering what all the fuss is about regarding attraction. People around me always talk about how they feel butterflies or sparks when they see someone they're into and honestly, I have no idea what any of that even means! It's like everyone got this manual on attraction at birth except me. 😅

I get that attraction is subjective or whatever but sometimes it feels like I'm missing out on this huge part of life that everyone else seems to be experiencing effortlessly. Friends have told me stories where they meet someone and suddenly it's like everything clicks - fireworks go off in their heads or something crazy like that. Sounds kinda intense if you ask me but also kinda intriguing. I mean, do people actually feel this magical connection just from seeing another person? Seems almost unreal.

I've thought maybe I'm just a late bloomer or too focused on other stuff like work and hobbies to notice anyone special. But then again, wouldn't I have felt something by now if it was going to happen? My buddies keep saying it'll hit me eventually and I'll know when it does but when exactly is eventually? Waiting around for something you've never experienced feels weirdly unsettling.

In social gatherings or events where others are pairing up left and right, I'm usually the one who's hanging back trying to understand what makes someone attractive in the first place. It's not that I don't appreciate aesthetics or a good personality; it's more that nothing hits home with enough force to pull my attention beyond friendship level. Maybe media has hyped this whole attraction game up too much? Like I've set unrealistic standards based on rom-coms when reality's way more nuanced?

At times it bugs me enough to make me question my own approach towards relationships altogether - am I doing something wrong here? Should there be more urgency in finding someone or should I just let things be as they are until nature decides otherwise? Honestly still figuring all of this out.

he says he needs me, my ex-boyfriend that is, and i'm sitting here trying to figure out if it’s love or manipulation. there’s this thing he does where he insists we’re perfect together, but if i really think about it, our time was more turbulent than anything else. sure, we had those picture-perfect moments, like that time we got caught in the rain and laughed it off like a scene from a movie. still, when i replay our past in my mind, so many red flags pop up.

there was this one evening he said something really unsettling. we'd argued about something petty (i can’t even remember what) and he just blurted out how nobody else could ever love me the way he does. at that moment, it felt kind of sweet but now? toxic vibes all over. part of me wonders if deep down he's afraid of being alone rather than genuinely loving me for who i am.

funny thing is how my friend once told me relationships should feel like two people lighting up each other's lives instead of adding shadows. sure sounded poetic then but maybe there's truth in it after all. these days i keep asking myself if going back would really be nostalgia winning over reason.....or might it be growth disguised as reluctance? it's tricky balancing emotions and rationality but hey, maybe i'll get through this with clarity sooner or later.

I've been thinking about this a lot, and I just need to get it out there: Can dogs have eating disorders? I know it sounds strange at first, but hear me out. Our furry friends have emotions too, don't they??? And if that's the case, could they possibly suffer from psychological issues related to food, just like humans can?

I have a dog named Bella. She's adorable and very lovable, yet her relationship with food has always puzzled me. Sometimes she'll refuse to eat anything for days (she's not sick according to the vet) and then suddenly gobbles up everything in sight. It's bewildering!!! You can imagine how much I've worried over her changing habits; I'm no stranger to midnight brain-storming sessions where you question everything.

I've read somewhere that animals may exhibit signs reminiscent of human eating disorders... Excessive food intake, refusal to eat altogether, anxiety behaviors around meal times-they all seem interconnected? But are we anthropomorphizing our pets here or is there something more profound going on?

I'm no expert in veterinary sciences or animal behavior dynamics; still, it's crucial for us as pet owners to understand them better. They say love knows no bounds--Our responsibility towards them should mirror that unwavering commitment.

So there's my 3 AM vent... Has anyone else here dealt with this perplexity before? What did you find out? Have you seen behavioral shifts tied specifically towards consumption patterns??? Thankful for any insights.

I don't know what I'm doing in that office. I want to leave and never come back because I'm fed up with them. I always have to put up with one thing after another, always settle for sad shortcomings, with their nonsense, their pressure tactics, taking advantage of the fact that I won't say a word. I'm tired of their mistakes. Where on earth is their education? Their civic engagement? Their appreciation for knowledge? Or do they just think they know everything about what they already know? For God's sake, they're people who are nothing but accumulating knowledge and nothing more. They don't question anything, they use completely outdated language, they follow sad trends purely for petty political maneuvering. I'm tired of that office, and it calls itself a university when all I see is a smokescreen at the expense of equally corrupt politics. They're people who make a living by embellishing things when I don't see any examples. Where the hell are the examples? Where on earth are the citizens practicing their civic duty? I don't think they know what that means. I don't think they know anything about being with others because they only seek to change things. They don't know how to coexist, they don't know how to negotiate. I'm tired of putting up with them. I'm tired of them living their lives at the expense of me being unable to say anything, at the expense of cornering others. What on earth is wrong with these people? How on earth can the state allow a company like this, for God's sake? They may be very academic and all that, which they do brilliantly, but only for the people who aren't critical, who happen to be the same academics in the community. It's pointless to talk to them because they don't know anything about criticism; they only know how to keep silent, maintain groups, and give orders. They don't know what it means to be an academic, they don't even know how to plan an event that suits the people, but rather their community, the purpose of which is education. I hope, for God's sake, they find any excuse, for the love of God, let it be so, to get me fired because I have no reason to put up with their betrayal of the country. Why don't I associate with people who are for the country? Who strengthen it? Who inspire it? But I don't think even my friends will understand this conversation in any way; perhaps they'll grasp it, but that's one thing, and the ingrained practices are another. There are no citizens, no country, nothing, so where am I? Where do I stand? I am completely abandoned, naturally, by the system, which, because it believes I have no one else to consult, thinks I'll just let them manipulate me, that I won't get ahead, that I won't know what happened, when that was never the point. It's about opening oneself up to the diverse experiences that have occurred, along with everything that entails, in order to address them or remain grounded, through actions that safeguard one's space. It's there that one can operate, not through imposing or invasive methods. It's just a matter of luck that a beast will awaken, as happened with my boss when he thought I'd never make him see the significance of his abandonment of me in the other place. But I don't think he, being an educator, can even see that. For the first time, I feel I'm not dealing with prepared people, despite their academic degrees and all. I don't feel they're prepared; I feel they're clumsy. I have every right to speak this way. They claim to be prepared to serve society when they know the least about being in it. But the problem is that later, they'll surely voice their doubts to see if a grimace or something will indicate, for God's sake, some reference that has nothing to do with the grimace, even though there are scientific studies on the matter. Personally, I'm the only one who deserves to be in the community and hold a relevant position, but I definitely can't do it alone. It means taking on an entire system, and I'm not in the mood for that. I just know that their way of life permeates my work, it overwhelms me. The last thing I do there is work, because being a citizen, the foundation, isn't reinforced at all. They don't care about who's fulfilling their obligations, but rather who fits in with them, for God's sake. They're completely unaware, because they don't care, of what they fit in with, and then they go around complaining about why life doesn't treat them the way they want, when it's precisely through this social engagement that they sustain themselves, mobilize, and develop their visions. That's it. They don't care about their visions, about a foundation, about establishing themselves.

I keep writing, and I don't know why. At least I'm realizing what I can say to them, but I can't do more than that. For God's sake, I don't want to think about them at all. I have no interest in talking to them. They're not capable, not even in a million, of holding a conversation. I don't see them as capable of anything other than making the world the way they please, forcing things, and acting like they're the kings of discourse, when in fact they're not. There's no coexistence based on principles.

Coexistence here is based solely on conflict, stemming from the group dynamic of denying appearances—it's the last straw. I don't live in a society governed by laws, but by things I don't know where they get them from; comparing them to animals is ridiculous. They operate on the principle that nothing will be said so that everything is alright. I'm tired of having to adapt to something I absolutely shouldn't have to, for God's sake. I don't want them to think about me, I don't want them to. They'll only ask questions to control me without realizing it. I don't want to be with them; they're not worthy of me. To put it bluntly, I only want to be with citizens. I don't feel that even my friend has that civic spirit; she's probably up to something, I don't know what. I don't feel I can be with them. They live by the rules, but nothing more. I'm fed up with them, absolutely. I can't even look them in the face. And of course, they dwell on what wasn't done and what was done, always looking for the opposite, only to fail when they fail again. They just try to distance themselves from the situation, all because they don't develop according to principles.

It's absolutely disgusting to see my friend, who can't be with me, can't sit with me, without coming up with the excuse that it's because of work. She's simply dragged along by it, while I'm struggling to navigate it all. She doesn't take responsibility, she doesn't do anything about what's happening in her life. Instead, she abandons what she doesn't know how to do, and what she does know, well, that's all she can do, but without going any further. They are extremely limited in their approach; they don't develop their potential, only focus on rhetoric. I don't know what I'm doing in that office. I ask myself that every day. I wonder what I'm doing in my own country when everywhere I go, it's excluded, and I'm excluded too. Whether they care or not—and they should care, if they're even in it—they're hurting me. But all they know is their own interests, pure and simple domination. I'm tired of being disappointed. I wish I didn't have to see the people who claim to be from my country, who say this is their homeland, but their actions tell a different story. Just like my boss, who is the very image of someone who cares about the pain of others at the expense of his own reputation. A truly wretched man, an abuser of other people's suffering, and that's exactly what the people are fed up with. He also creates an internal tyranny that we all have to endure because of what he does. Definitely, there's no worse individual in the world, by God, than a tyrant, and we're all fed up with tyrants in my country now.