School Stories

I've been thinking a lot about why people bully me. It's such an odd thing to try and wrap my head around. You know how you sometimes hear stories about kids getting picked on because they're different? I always used to think it was just something you'd see in movies but turns out, it's real life stuff.

People have told me things like 'you're too nice' or 'you care too much' and I'm like is that really why someone would pick on another person? I remember back in school days when that one kid used to throw my lunch on the floor and call me names for no reason at all. Made me wonder if they were dealing with their own issues; maybe projecting their unhappiness onto me.

Was talking with this friend once (who's had her fair share of bullies) and she said we gotta remember those folks doing the bullying often have their internal battles too. Maybe it's true? Who knows? She told me: "Don't take it personally", like thanks but easier said than done right?

One day in gym class, while waiting for our turn, a guy just randomly shoved me into a locker. At that moment, instead of feeling sad or angry, I asked him straight up why he did that... He couldn't even give a proper answer! Made me chuckle afterwards thinking how clueless some can be when confronted about their actions. So yeah, maybe people have quirky reasons we can't always understand but hey, at least we're not alone in facing this nonsense.

I've got this problem that's been bugging me for way too long. I start something new and exciting, and within just a few weeks it's like POOF: I'm no longer interested. When it comes to deciding what to do with my studies, each time I think I've got it figured out, I lose interest after a short spell. It's frustrating as heck because here I am, having lost about four years of uni flipping between majors and career ideas like they're socks on laundry day. 😅 My folks are amazing but they've given me the 'last chance' talk (supportive yet serious) which is fair enough considering how many opportunities have come and gone without me sticking to them.

I've read stories where folks finally settle on their passion, whether through some epiphany or blind luck; but man...that hasn't happened for me yet. There's nothing wrong with my understanding the importance of education; it's just that same old spark disappearing faster than you can say 'degree!' I see people who went to school with me already doing impressive stuff in their fields while I'm sort of just stuck here wondering if there's a glitch in my system causing these disappearing acts of interest (someone call tech support!).

I'm hopeful though! I've started shaking things up a bit recently by not over-planning too much and dabbling more spontaneously (even avoiding super long-term commitments when possible until I feel truly ready for them) and so far? It's worked better than before at least in theory! For the moment anyway, trying something different might eventually lead me down a path where staying focused aligns better; fingers crossed that changes soon... Maybe I'll stumble upon that thing that makes my heart beat faster without losing its rhythm.

Is it really worth trying to make your parents proud? I'm sick of busting my butt for the best grades and still being invisible at home. It's like I don't even exist. Meanwhile, my brother flunks school but can kick a ball and they won't stop talking about him. I've read somewhere that all kids want is their parents' approval and all parents want is for their kids to be happy, but it feels like a joke here. Maybe it's just me, but shouldn't effort in studies count for something?

Anyway, doing well academically doesn't seem to matter if you're not scoring goals or whatever. Come on, anyone else feel like they're living in the shadow of a sibling who just has 'different' talents? In my house, it's all about sports highlights... thrilling stuff when I try to explain an A+ in physics and get told to keep it down because there's a match on TV. Makes you wonder: What do you have to do for someone to say 'Well done!'? Makes you doubt things sometimes.

Hi everyone! So here's the deal: I've changed schools THREE times, all because my awesome parents are trying to help me out. I get it, they think greener pastures and all that. But honestly? I'm tired... like REALLY burned-out on school stuff. Every time I start to settle in, BAM! New school, new people. It's just exhausting.

I mean, has anyone ever felt like you're just going through the motions? That's how it feels for me right now. Each place is different but somehow exactly the same... if you catch my drift. The teachers talk and my brain just CHECKS OUT halfway through their lectures?! Seriously...

But hey! My parents mean well (❤️ them!) They're doing everything they can to make sure I'm okay and educated or whatever 🙄; it's not easy on them either... which makes me feel a bit guilty for being so bummed about it all.

I'm TRYING!!! There's gotta be some way to shake off this burnt-toast feeling before heading into yet another classroom full of strangers right? Many exclamation marks alert! 😅 Anybody with genius ideas - please share!

Ever wonder if life's just one long, unending point of misery? Like, some people talk about light at the end of the tunnel, but I'm over here squinting real hard and seeing zilch. Seriously, high school is a complete nightmare. It's like they rounded up the meanest jerks from every rom-com and dropped them into my classroom. Bullying's kind of an understatement; it's more like I've got my own dedicated tormentor fan club. And they're relentless - somehow managing to make even breathing seem like a social crime.

Family life isn't much better... It's not exactly Easy Street when you're scrapping by on loose change and expired coupons. But what really grinds my gears is how everyone acts so clueless when you mention it. 'Oh, things will get better eventually,' they say while sipping their overpriced lattes. Meanwhile, I'm trying to figure out which bill we can go without this month or how to make ramen taste less like wallpaper paste. You're telling me splurging on instant noodles counts as an extravagant feast?

Maybe it's just one giant cosmic joke with me as the punchline. I dunno! 🤷‍♀️ And what's with all those inspirational quotes floating around anyway? They sell hope wrapped in vagueness, promising success to anyone willing to try hard enough; yeah right! Simply magic away years' worth of self-doubt by positive thinking alone - sure thing. How about someone drops off a manual explaining how it actually gets better out here in the trenches before I lose my mind?

I'm going crazy here!!! It's so freaking hot in my room that I can't concentrate on anything. How the hell am I supposed to study for finals when it feels like I'm melting?!?! It doesn't help that my family is too broke to afford air conditioning... guess I'm just screwed then, huh? I've tried leaving windows open and using fans but it's like trying to cool a volcano with an ice cube. Honestly, I'm losing my damn mind. Sometimes I just stare at my books and all the words blur together because of this damn heat. I'm really starting to panic cuz if I don't figure something out soon, I'll definitely bomb these exams, which will set me back big time. 💩 Anyone else feel like they're being cooked alive while trying to get shit done? This feels impossible... maybe even a bit unfair. I know whining won't solve anything but does anyone have any ideas??? Please!!!

I sometimes feel angry and frustrated i don't know i don't wanna get angry but it just happens and also some people always leave at one point it's sad i wish we can work out but I was the one who putting the effort well i am improving and I will improve more and learn to enjoy myself alone too maybe i am enough and complete sometimes we think we need other people to be complete but even if we are alone we are still enough and complete.

motivation to do homework is just one of those things that sucks the energy right out of you, doesn't it? i mean, we've all been there. you're sitting at your desk, maybe with a soda or coffee (i don't know for you guys but in my country with start do drink coffee at early age...), trying to muster up the willpower to start. it's like every time you open your book or laptop, something else seems way more interesting like watching paint dry or counting ceiling tiles. i'm not even kidding when i say i've actually found myself doing those things instead of tackling my math problems or writing that essay.

sometimes it's just hard to care about stuff we don't find relevant immediately, you know? like, we're told over and over in school that these assignments are super important for our future and all that jazz. but let's be real here: when you're knee-deep in calculus at midnight and would rather be binge-watching some series on netflix (which by the way was amazing last night), it's tough to see the big picture. i remember hearing someone once say 'the struggle is real' and i couldn't agree more.

i think part of the problem might be how hyper-connected we are nowadays. being constantly bombarded with texts, tweets, snaps and whatever else makes it pretty easy to lose focus on what's happening right in front of us. sometimes it feels like everyone's got their life together while you're stuck trying to figure out when you'll ever use parabolas in real life. maybe what we need is a little less pressure and maybe a nudge from an understanding teacher who gets why balancing schoolwork with all life's other craziness isn't the easiest thing.

IDKK, I've been really liking this person who's my friend for like 4 years now, and they're the most incredible person ever. I'm so lucky to have them in my life, and they are literally so amazing. I'm not in love, but this is like the biggest crush I've ever had, and this person was one of my first girl crushes back when I thought they were a girl. I'm biromantic ace, and they were one of the first people who helped me w the ace part since they're ace too; they still help me a lot with it.

And they kinda have this thing, and if you don't believe in this type of thing, pls don't mention it, cuz I do, and that's what matters to me in the moment. But when they touch my hand, and if they focus, they can feel exactly what I'm feeling. And that's so great because I suck at explaining things and describing what I'm feeling, and they literally felt the exact thing I was struggling to describe for years. They can do this w everyone, actually. Idk. And they actually showed me how to do it, too. I suck at it, but I love it when they teach me stuff lol. But it's so great, and I love hearing them talk. About anything tbh. They have the most stunning voice ever. I could hear them talk for hours. and sing too. They sing so well. I love their art in general, actually.

And their hug is like the best in the world. It just feels soft and magical and like ur in the clouds. And they have the prettiest freckles and eyes ever, and they like the same things as me. Like they like Heartstoppers (btw random BUT THEIR LITERALLY NICK NELSON. LIKE SAME PERSONALITY BUT MORE ARTSY AHH), and they like drawing and art and theatre and animation.

And I know they like someone else already, but they said they like girls too, so I didn't really care that much (idk y I get mostly jealous if they're liking other girls lol idk y). I was sad for like 3 days when they said their preference is guys.

Except they just told me they're straight and like a boy. They're genderfluid, so idk if they still like girls or not, tbh I didn't ask.

And I'm really grateful because this person is genuinely helping me, both consciously and unconsciously, since I wanted to be a better person for them, cuz ik I'm too immature and not emotionally in shape for a relationship, but I was trying to be better for them. And for me, too, ofc, but they were the push I needed to actually try to change for the better. And they also help me understand my feelings. I suck at understanding them, and they help me understand what I'm feeling, and it's as if they get it. Like they helped me understand that I was bi, then helped me accept it, they helped me understand how I felt about religion, they helped me understand I was ace, and they helped me understand my feelings and why I felt certain ways. They're genuinely so kind and caring. I don't NEED them, but they're such an incredible person, and I love spending time w them, and I really, really wanna date them.

And I was starting to think I had a chance because sometimes they did stuff that was kinda romantic. Like, taking me home even though their house is the other way, or like they call me pretty a lot and say stuff like, anyone who wouldn't date u is stupid, and maybe that's just something they do to everyone, but it felt like maybe something could happen? So I feel so stupid about this, too, tbh. This was the first time I thought my crush might like me back fr.

But tbh even if they did ask me out, I don't think I would be good for them, since I'm not the type of person they deserve, because they're so wonderful, and I'm not mature enough to date them. But still, I want to so bad.

And my mom knows I'm bi, but she doesn't think I am fr. And she also doesn't like labels, and she's not really asking me for help or offering any advice. She thinks I'm using the labels for attention or because my friends are queer too.

She usually asks a lot about crushes, but she hasn't asked at all about this one. Sometimes she even shut me down, like when I was sad cuz my crush told me they liked one of my best friends. Ofc i was devastated, and my mom said I didn't really like them.

She is an ally ofc, but she thinks there aren't this many queer people, and most are doing it for attention or because they're pressured to. But that's not the point. The thing is, she's like my best friend and would usually help me w this, but since she doesn't believe me or talk about it idk how to deal w this. I feel like there's a hole in my chest, and I'm kinda numb.

It's weird because I'm kind of a momma's girl, and she always helped me w this crush thing. And I kinda need my mom rn idk.

It’s a long story and I’ll say it the short way and the long way cuz, someone might want the full story others want the short story.

(btw for context the person I’ll mainly be talking about is a girl but I don’t know their pronouns so I’ll refer to them as they/them)

Short story(also mb for any grammar mistakes):

Basically it’s the first day of school and in one my classes I saw them (for context they are a girl but I don’t know their pronouns so I’ll refer to her as they/them) and immediately i felt like this attraction in a way so I guess u could say I liked them. But yeah, I liked them ever since then.

Long (ahh) story:

First day of school and tbh I wasn’t rlly expecting anything other then just more people ofc and unfortunately socializing; and in one of my classes I saw them, out of every new person in that class there was just something just them, I can’t really explain it since for me I usually have to know a person in order to have a crush on someone but I kinda just felt this incessant like connection? Throughout the whole semester we caught each other looking but we never rlly talked. Turned out they transferred to my core (I’m in cadets) which was unexpected saying that out of everyone in that grade or my classes that go to cadets they somehow transferred to my core (I’m delusional Ik) and we used to say hi to each other more but I think it just got more… awkward? I don’t have any classes with them rn which in a way is a relief but also sad. I’ve never felt this way towards someone and for months I’ve been wondering what’s about them that I see or idk. It’s a rlly weird and confusing feeling especially for someone like me who doesn’t rlly like liking someone yet I still like them.

So ig the question I’m asking is has anyone ever felt this way? Or does anyone know what this might be?

Anyways whatever anyones answers are, I thank u for taking the time to read either or both of time and responding.

Hope everyone is okay and found what your looking for; good morning, good afternoon, good night

There were these girls I was rude to in fifth grade named Sadie and Molly (I will bring Molly up more later). Sadie is the most annoying hypocrite ever. We would get into fights all the time over the smallest things, and she would always say, 'Maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore.' I had to talk her out of it every single day. After around three months, I got really annoyed and started being rude to her and other people. I also started ignoring Molly.At the beginning of sixth grade, I told Molly and Sadie I was truly sorry for being a jerk and wanted to start over. Molly said she forgave me, and we started hanging out again, though I don't really believe she actually forgave me. Because Sadie is such a hypocrite, she told everyone, including Molly, to stay far away from me.Molly and I would secretly talk to each other when Sadie wasn't looking. When Molly got caught, Sadie would guilt-trip her and get furious. It took half the year for the teachers to realize what was going on because Molly and I were afraid Sadie would spread rumors, or that the teachers would think we were overreacting. Soon, the Sadie drama died down, but Molly randomly started reminding me about how much of a jerk I was to her in fifth grade. She makes fun of me by calling me ugly, mocking my interests as 'cringe,' and insulting the way I talk. I have told her to stop multiple times, but she still won't. She is giving me lower self-esteem than Sadie ever did. I feel like I have to change my interests, personality, and looks just so she won't make fun of me.

as someone not noticed but hidden by everyone else. obsessing over everything seen , staring at someone wondering if there judging u or making rude comments in their head , chasing you around and hunting until found. the confidence you once had has now ran out like money. although u cant buy it back. legs bouncing , hitting the desks , not being abled to focus on ur school work . failing at everything because something or someone is constantly looking at u. the screams of people behind haunt ur back as ur ears scratch when hearing everyone talk . maybe even about you. when grouping together you fill invisible and not seen. the people u were friends with before now hate you. everyone there makes fun of u. its torture for ur brain, do u tell anyone..? no. its like being trapped in a room. to scared to tell ur parents or friends or teachers . people pushing you or whispering about you.. ur minding obsessing over the fact someone is staring at u and talking in ur face almost like its about you. the screams of there chats haunt ur soul . teachers say ur meant to be safe in a school , but what's safe about my life? and the life im living. no one will understand. I feel invisible but everyone else? I see them. all the time. my mind is always unfocused , my future? could be because of me. or others?

I've been very frustrated with myself as of late. I've been in a position where I have been forced to give promises to other people that I can be better. I don't like lying to people and being dishonest so it's been really hard for me to try and be something I feel like I can't promise myself to be. Don't get me wrong I do want to be a better person and have been trying to be better. I have put efforts to fixing my flaws but they have all been in vain. For example, let's say I have a deadline, i force myself to wake up early in the morning so i can try to get things done and have more time for myself but I cannot bring myself to get on my laptop and do the actual thing. It's really frustrating because I can't bring my body to do the things I need to get done. I don't particularly enjoy what I study but I have a passion to be decent at whatever I am doing. Things are not going well for me and to a level, I'm really lost on what I can do for things to change. Ideally, I take a gap year or whatever and get to rethink everything but I feel not entitled that privilege of being able to slow down. In a sense, I feel like even if I take charge for myself nothing about my situation will change. I think I've let go of the hope that kept me going and just letting life take me where i deserve to be.

I am a 2nd sem student and right now I want to know if I should continue engineering or not. To give give you some context I did my 12th in open schooling due to terrible mental health issues and therefore I was at home and didn't really interact with people outside. Fortunately I somehow managed to pass the exams and then I got in to this college(through CET). In my 1st sem I tried really hard to control my mental health and tried getting along with this new system. I tried doing my best to socialize and study. My parents are veryy very supportive and I seek help from therapy and have been heavily medicated (which makes me seem tired and sleepy all the time). During the first few weeks of 1st sem, there was some misunderstandings with someone and I reacted too harsh by shrieking in front of the class. After that no one would sit next to nor talk to me. It seemed like they were afraid of me (according to my teachers). There were some who were kind enough to share notes with me but I noticed that they did because they were afraid of me. I struggled throughout the classes with my mental health deteriorating and it made things worse. During lab I was a mess, I would feel anxious like a LOT and my hands would tremble. This made me seem incapable of doing anything which made my classmates to dread working with me and teachers were too annoyed with my incompetence. I tried working even hard but it only worsened my mental health. I explained the teachers my situation, they were understanding but for how long? during my 1st sem finals I was a chaotic mess, I was unable to focus on studies because of my mental health. I managed to pass 1st but with 3 backlogs, it isn't the best but this was something I could manage doing at least. I wanted to take an year off from college but my parents didn't like the idea. I told my therapist, who suggested me to change courses, but I am too scared to do that because my parents are really keeping their hopes up. 2nd sem started, and by now everyone knew each other and were interacting with each other, I was the only one in class who didn't really have anyone to sit next to me in class. It was obvious. Sometimes I think that this is just me being too dramatic about everything but I often see that my classmates make faces and avoid sitting next to me, it almost feels like there's something REALLY wrong with me. Honestly, I cannot keep up with such an environment and pretend that everything is okay. I now dread a lot going to college and hate doing the homework. I'm being kicked out of the class for not finishing my work. I really really want some advice right now, I don't want to disappoint my parents....and I am sorry if this post is unclear, this is my first time posting stuff on the internet, I hope you are kind enough to understand that. Thank you!

Imagine actually being really sick, and your mom doesn't believe you, always undermines it, and forces you to do things and you can't say no because you can't seem to say it, and you give up on seeking any sort of comfort from your family but then it starts to break you and the mask you always have on starts to crack so you start to get moody and isolate yourself in your room and then hope is reignited in your heart that maybe just maybe your family could notice and strive to atleast try to understand whats happening but then that hope is extinguished after all they do is get annoyed and threaten you to take the one thing that helps you handle life, your source of reading away, if you don't start "sitting with them," "smiling," "only sit in your room if you're sleeping," and "laughing and returning to normal." So you mend the mask and put it back on again. And then you really feel like you're all alone and you hate that feeling. Then the mask that you put in school also cracks, but you don't have any more hope so you don't even try to mend it. You leave it as it is and just try to survive. Because you don't have the strength to do it anymore. But miraculously, some people start asking if you're okay. But you're already too numb and don't want to believe that someone may actually want to understand again, and you don't wanna burden anyone with your problems so you don't tell any of your friends. And the people that keep asking if there's a problem you tell them just the surface. Just so they can know and stop asking questions because every time someone does, it crushes your already broken heart a little. And every time you tell someone the surface level, you are met with two things, either indifference or pity. And you don't need any of those. You don't need anything at all right now. Well, you used to need someone to just listen in the past, but that need is broken by how your attempts ended. So you start hiding behind your mask at home. And just ignoring what people think and what's happening in school. And then teachers start to notice. And they like the idiots thay are. They basically announce it to the whole class multiple times. And now all your classmates are looking at you with pity or indifference. And you hate that. Because you don't need their pity. But even though you don't care, it doesn't mean that you want the whole class to know. So you brush it off every time and ignore all the stares and questions. And now you hate going to school when you're lying in your bed sleeping, and you hate going home when you're in school, and you don't have to put that stupid mask back on. You start escaping to the nady next to your house, taking the guise that you're going to the gym. But actually, you just want to spend time alone without anyone bothering you or asking questions. You just want to just stare at the ceiling and think about your life or read and escape from your life. But then when you're there, time flies by, and you don't realise each time. And you start spending hours there. And your parents are starting to get suspicious. And you really don't want them to know because you don't know where else you can go. And you worry about how your future is gonna be like. And how your parents will react when they see your grades when they see the missings when they see that you did close to none of the hws or projects or anything this quarter. All of this because you can't seem to concentrate enough to do these tasks no matter how simple as just turning something in. All because of how you feel. And then you consider wearing the mask back on at school also. To return when it was easy for the people around you. Because clearly no one cares enough to listen and understand and even if they do, you can't bring yourself to tell them anything. Huh, maybe you even developed trust issues now. You try to do that today. You try to put the maks back on. To hide behind it again. But it's too shattered. And your true self is already close to shattering as well. And now you feel pathetic, and you feel like life has no meaning now. You miss how it was before all that. Before the pain. Before the running. Before the isolating. Before everything. And you wish will all that remains of you that you can go back to how it was. And then you see a message saying "imagine lying to your mom abt being sick," and you sit and think you wish something like that happens again. You wish you could return to the time when you told your mom you were sick just so you don't go to school and she believes you. Maybe that's payback to all the lying. Like the boy who cried wolf. You lied about being sick too many times, and now when you are sick and you feel like you're being shredded to pieces each second of each day, no one believes you anymore. And then you try to make a joke by replying to the message. But then your fingers don't stop, and you keep writing and writing until you don't know even how you gut there and don't know whether you should press send. You think you shouldn't. That's the logical part of you. But the remains of your heart, the thing you once thought destroyed, stop you whispers in your ears saying "maybe just maybe," but then you fight it back, saying it's already too late. What can they possibly do. Your shattered heart argues back by saying that you won't lose anything if you just tried. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. But you argue back by saying that they'll think you're overreacting they'll think you're pathetic, and they'll think that you're just looking for attention. And you look back at the message and laugh to yourself. You really want to cry, but you don't even remember how. You see that the message you wrote is corny and stupid. You think that you should just delete it and never think about it again. Use it to reconstruct the mask again. Hide your shattered pieces behind it. You remember the times you almost did it. You almost got freed. But you got scared. You got scared about what would happen after. And now all you wish for is that killing yourself wouldn't get you to hell.