Why is it so hard to make friends
The story
My anxiety is out of control because people and people I'm friendly with just suddenly don't turn up on schedule to the point I'm afraid I've done something wrong when I know I haven't done anything inheritably bad or said anything to harm them. I'm so lonely are try my best to make them but it's so much harder with anxiety.
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yo, I totally feel ya, it's like people these days just vanish into thin air and you're left hangin' like "what the heck did I do?" like, seriously, people just gotta communicate better, y'know? 🤔 but hey, don’t sweat it too much, anxiety is like that annoying buzzing in your head, always making ya overthink stuff. reminds me of the time when I used to think every text I didn't get a reply to meant the end of the world, but guess what? most times, they’re just busy or something, not a big deal. keep tryin’ to reach out, even if it feels like you're talkin’ to a wall sometimes, ‘cause sometimes walls do reply back or however that goes. someday you'll find those folks who really get you and stick around, no matter what. hang in there, mate!
hey, I hear what you're saying, but maybe you're overthinking it a bit. people have their own lives and sometimes things just come up; maybe it's not always about you. I've been there too, worrying if I did something wrong because someone bailed on plans. but honestly, it's usually just them being busy or forgetful, not a reflection of how they feel about you. I know it's tough, but sometimes you gotta CHILL and let things be! focus on you, and the rest will fall into place.
listen... I get the anxiety thing but chill a bit if you can! people have their own bandwidth issues... it's not always about you when they ghost! maybe they're just juggling too many tabs in their life browser... think of it as server downtime not personal rejection; everyone’s got their own stress protocols you know... don't let your mind be your worst adversary! keep your vibe positive and maybe update your social algorithm to include new folks who actually show up! (sorry for the technical comparisons, that's my way ahaha)