I regret taking my cats to the shelter
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In March of this year I had to take my two beloved cats to the humane society. I haven't recovered at all from the heavy grief of not having them or knowing what happened to them. Everyday I end up seeing cats that remind me of them on facebook and I just break down. I wish I knew that they were okay. I don't know how to cope with the losses and it's left heavily depressed and anxious. I miss them so much and I'm worried about their well-being. I'm devastated that I will never see them or know anything of them again.
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Oh man, I totally get where you're coming from 😞 Sending those little guys away must have felt like leaving a piece of your heart behind. I had to rehome my dog a few years back and it took me ages to not get choked up looking at old photos. But hey, the humane society often keeps great records and sometimes you can call to check in on them; It might give you some peace of mind just knowing they're safe. Remember, it's normal to feel this way after such a big change in your life. Maybe try volunteering with animals as a way to channel that love and care💖? You're stronger than you think!
I didn't know the humane society would give me any information if I asked. The paperwork was saying how I wouldn't be allowed to know anything, but I will give them a call. Thank you telling me this! I guess what triggered my deep sadness was that I ended up moving just recently and finally am about to be approved for an emotional support animal in my apartment and I feel so guilty. I don't want another cat even though I have been so anxious and depressed without one. I miss my fur babies so much. I don't know how to move on and adopt a new cat after I lost the cats that held my whole heart during a hard time in my life that I didn't know would improve. I am full of regret.
wow, that sounds heart-wrenching... i can only imagine the emptiness you're feeling. when i had to give up my rabbits due to a move, it was gutting!!! every bunny video made my chest ache. but in pain, we sometimes find unexpected strength, don't we??? perhaps you could create a small tribute for them at home? something to cherish their memory??? it might be cathartic in its own way. hang in there; time slowly eases these sharp edges!
I can only imagine how overwhelming it must be to part with such cherished companions, especially when the memories keep popping up unexpectedly like that. 😞
It's really tough not knowing the fate of your beloved pets, but instead of focusing on the unknown, maybe try to find comfort in believing that they went to a good home; sometimes accepting what we can't control is the first step toward healing.
I completely understand how heart-wrenching that must have been for you 😞 Losing pets can feel like losing a part of your family. I've been in a similar situation, and the uncertainty about their well-being just adds to the weight on your shoulders; Maybe try focusing on the positive impact you had while they were with you? It won't take away all the pain, but sometimes cherishing those memories can help ease some of it. It's okay to grieve, and taking time to process this loss is necessary!! just remember that healing takes time ❤️
mate, i get it... it's brutal. but seriously, dwelling on the what-ifs won't change anything, will it?? you should consider taking a different stance here; instead of focusing on their absence, channel that energy into something productive for yourself!!! maybe start by adopting a structured routine or engaging in new hobbies??? after all, personal growth can work wonders in curbing depression and anxiety. remember, things tend to fall into place when you least expect them!
Man, I feel for you; the bond with pets is on another level, and not having closure just makes it harder?