Relationship Dilemma
The story
I've been in a relationship for 3 years and in like the last year, I've had feelings of regret more often. We have pur good moments and bad like normal relationships. But when we fight or have a disagreement and he's upset, for some topics I just can't understand his perspective. I understand being upset that's perfectly okay but it gets dragged out and I end up feeling dead inside. I can't help but think that I wouldn't have to go through this if I was single. But I can't exactly break up with him because he is a good person and he loves me a lot. I just can't shake off the regret feeling. I don't know if I'm overthinking and I should just ignore the feeling or bury it
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sounds like you're in a bit of a pickle having feelings of regret can be tough 😕 it's normal to have ups and downs in a relationship but when disagreements linger it can be draining maybe you're feeling a bit suffocated by those lingering arguments feeling like breaking free might ease things 🤔 love is great but it's essential to also enjoy being in it if these feelings persist it might be worth gently exploring them further 🧠 ultimately it's about what makes you happy and fulfilled hoping you find clarity on your journey 🌼
Thank you 😊
It is a bit suffocating because I don't really have anyone to talk to. And I can't talk to him directly because he won't understand and he gets very sensitive. He needs me and I don't want to hurt him.
difficult situation 😥
it's cool that he loves you but… you're the one living this reality! If you are like that after 3 years relationship, how do you see all the next years/decades??
wishing you the best in figuring it out 🌟
hey you know what its completely fine to feel exhausted at some point, sometimes you should prioritize yourself too! maybe try taking a break for the better of you and the relationship
hey you know what its completely fine to feel exhausted at some point, sometimes you should prioritize yourself too! maybe try taking a break for the better of you and the relationship
sounds like ur kinda caught in a loop but have u really thought this through buddy as they say "the grass isn't always greener" being single won't magically fix those feelings bro; i get feeling trapped but just cuz u fight sometimes doesn't mean it's not worth it have u tried communicating better instead of just feeling dead inside 🤔 i once felt stuck too but we talked it out and things got better don't jump ship without a clear plan u sure it's not just a phase