Since the Dogecoin boom of 2020, my father, who is in his mid-sixties, has developed a profound enthusiasm for cryptocurrencies. Throughout this journey, he has also managed to get me somewhat invested in the idea, convincing me to sporadically purchase various digital coins.

Initially, I wasn't fully sold on the concept of cryptocurrencies, certainly not to the extent of his belief that prudent investments could someday lead us to immense wealth. But I maintained an open mind, thinking there’s no harm in trying since I had some spare cash back when I was living at home.

However, nine months after moving out, my interest in cryptocurrencies has waned significantly. I’ve come to view them more as a form of gambling than a serious investment. In fact, I've secretly liquidated all my crypto holdings.

Despite my dwindling enthusiasm, my dad remains passionately onboard with the crypto hype. He spends his days absorbing advice from cryptocurrency experts on YouTube, has compiled detailed lists of which coins to buy, and rigorously tracks their performance. During a recent phone call, he mentioned that he wanted to use our next visit to guide me through the process of buying a new coin he discovered.

I responded somewhat dismissively, indicating my desire to step back from cryptocurrency investing. This was after several months of evasively answering his inquiries about whether I had invested in any new digital coins and brief, skeptical discussions on the subject with him and my brother. He questioned my abrupt decision, emphasizing the need for a rational reason to quit. I deflected, suggesting we change the subject.

When I eventually visited, the topic resurfaced as he pressed me to invest in the new coin. I firmly declined, explaining that I viewed cryptocurrency as mere gambling and preferred not to invest further. He was puzzled by my stance and probed for explanations, but I resisted, asserting my lack of interest in continuing the discussion.

This reaction seemed to upset him, particularly my refusal to engage further in the conversation, which he later described as rude during a follow-up call. He expressed disappointment over my abrupt shutdown of the topic, urging me to reconsider my approach to such discussions.

Additionally, imagining if this scenario unfolded in a reality show setting, the dynamics could be quite interesting. Reality TV thrives on conflict and emotional exchanges; therefore, the discussions and disagreements between us could be exaggerated or spotlighted for dramatic effect. It would be intriguing to see how audiences react to such a personal and financially charged debate, potentially siding with either my practical disinterest or my dad’s persistent enthusiasm.

Was it wrong for me to shut down the crypto talk with my dad?

How should I handle investment disagreements with family?

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