My older cousin has been saying I'm the one that SA her?
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I was a toddler, I was texting someone who used to be friends with her and found out she told them I was the one who s#xually assaulted her. I was a toddler, she knew better, she's the one that did it to me severely and now she's playing the victim. Whenever because of her actions I can't even be comfortable showing any skin or accepting any touch? She blocked me after I tried asking her why she would lie about that and since has done nothing but just blatantly lie about my name? Not even just that but I know she did it to her little sister too, and remember the friend I said I was talking to? He was also a victim of her yet she denies it. She literally got mad when she asked to do something to me when I was 9 Infront of her little sister because I said no? She's a grown ass adult and I'm a minor at the moment and the fact she's blaming me is crazy.
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Wow, that's seriously messed up!!! I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this. It's crazy how people can twist things and turn the tables on others like that... Like, how can she just blame you when you were literally a toddler??? Totally agree that she should know better. The part where she got mad at you for saying no when you were 9??? That's majorly messed up, like, what was she thinking??? And then to have the audacity to spread lies about you??? I'm all about closure, but sometimes people just don’t want to own up to their wrongs, and that's what it sounds like here. I've had a couple of friends who've been through similar stuff, and it's just unbearable how much the victims end up suffering more. It’s really brave of you to speak out about it... Hoping you find some peace and justice in all of this. Just hang in there!!!
Thank you and yeah! It's honestly baffling she could lie about me like that when I was a literal TODDLER?
dude, seriously? this story sounds a bit off. i get you're upset, but jumping straight to blaming her without seeing the full picture might not be the best move. it’s easy to point fingers, but things are usually more complicated. i've known people who went through misunderstandings like this, and it often turns out there’s more than meets the eye. maybe focus on getting more info first? the way you describe it makes me wonder if some parts are exaggerated or missing. have you thought about calming down and talking to her directly, if possible? 🤔
See the thing is tho, she blocked me a few months ago because she got mad that I didn't know any sources for weed as I'm legitimately like I said, a minor. She blew up on me and cussed me out and everything and when I tried talking through it and tried being civil she blatantly rejected it and blocked me still. I wasn't trying to exaggerate it I was just really like, in shock and I was crying already because of her friend. He was the one who told me she said that and she also apparently sexually assaulted him. I don't know why I cried over the fact he was also assaulted but I guess it was from like some sort of PTSD or something. The full picture is there tho and also I don't mean this in any aggressive way if you might think it is I'm just trying to explain and try and clear up your confusion. She's had a history of playing the victim in any situation and whenever she isn't she freaks out. In the post I was just I don't know, really hurt I guess since I never thought she would go through that length to pin the blame on me? Like I said I was a literal toddler when it happen and she continued to try and do so as I got older, and always got mad whenever I wouldn't let her because since I got older I was able to know what was happening and actually be able to tell her no and stuff. She was much older than me and she knew better.
And also the weed thing was before I found out about this, she unblocked me a week after and it's like she switched to normal again? I didn't wanna make the situation worse so I just didn't mention it, Then now whenever I found out about it I did try and calmly talk to her about it as best as I could, but of course I was shaken up from the thing because who would lie about that? I wasn't cursing or anything, not yelling nothing. I was just simply trying to find out why she would have lied about it and she got mad and cussed me out again.
Honestly, this story seems suspect. You assert some serious claims, but where's the evidence??? It seems like you're portraying yourself solely as a victim without acknowledging any other perspectives. "She blocked me after I tried asking her why"—perhaps there’s more to that exchange? I've experienced situations where communication failed, and it wasn’t just one-sided; you should consider reflecting on your own actions and motivations before making such accusations. It's important to acquire substantial evidence before placing blame. How are you so certain about their intentions???
kinda hard to fully buy into this narrative. you’re making really severe accusations, yet there’s little context or corroborating evidence. "she's playing the victim"—how can you be so sure??? ever considered you might be misinterpreting some things? in my experience, people often miss out on considering the entire situation, leading to these kinds of disputes. maybe focusing on facts and less on blame would be wise. it’s crucial to have a balanced view before jumping to such strong conclusions; do you have any substantial proof???