Fuck my parents
The story
I'm way past the age where I can be an angsty, rebellious teen but my fucking god dude.
I've been dealing with their abuse for half my life - they neglected me as a child and basically threw whatever toy or game I wanted whenever I bothered them too much.
To most kids that sounds fun, but try not being able to even tell your parents you love them without them looking disgusted or dismissing you.
It got worse when I got older as well, as soon as I turned 18 they begun to take my fasfa money for college from my bank account and use it towards whatever they wanted. Bills? Clothes? Yep that's what it was going towards!
Eventually they even got mad at me once when I told them I'm gonna keep the money and they started demanding it as if it was their birthright to extort their only son.
It doesn't help that they basically ruined my childhood - I learned what sex was at like age 8...because of them. And I also got a knife pointed at me once by my own mother because I was being bratty.
It didn't help that they also verbally abused me, calling me stuff such as faggot, queer, loser, cunt, fuckface, etc.
This affected my childhood and teenhood by the way, I ended up being way more quiet because I was scared that if i did something wrong or said something wrong I'd get yelled at or beaten.
It got to the point where I'd actually go entire days without speaking because I was so scared of being punished.
And now that I'm no longer a minor, I can't do anything about them.
There were several times I regret not calling CPS when I was younger when they started beating me or yelling at me, or even doing cruel things such as locking me in my room, denying me access to the bathroom whenever I got a negative grade, etc.
I've been called a disappointment and mistake more times in my life then I can count - literally only cause I never met my parent's expectations or simply because I didn't see the same ideals they had.
I'm sick of it, I moved back in with them temporarily while I'm trying to save up to move out with my boyfriend. It's been a struggle to find a job since my parents refuse to network with me, refuse to help me in the slightest, and even gave me a deadline recently that I had 2 weeks to find a job or I need to sign up "for the service."
Like are you joking? In this economy? I've been applying for jobs for 3 months straight now what fucking makes you think I can just magically wave a wand and get a fucking job?
And I'll be real with you, since this anonymous. If I ever get forced to join the service I will deadass just hang myself or something.
It doesn't help that naturally, because of my upbringing, I've hid everything from them. Every relationship I've gone through, every breakup, every bit of character development I've had in the last few years they know nothing about.
So their vision of me is literally just a hermit that sits in a room all day playing games when that couldn't be fucking farther then the truth.
Anyways thanks for listening to me rant :3
Needed to get that off my chest considering I have nowhere else to really vent too...and boy does it feel good to finally air that shit out somewhere lmfao

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man, that's some heavy stuff you're dealing with; seriously though, i don't quite buy the full extent of it because it just seems way too intense for any parents to think it's okay to do that kind of thing; but hey, i'm just sitting here thinking about how nuts it would be if i were in your shoes. growing up with parents who don't have your back definitely sucks, but maybe you gotta figure out how to flip the script and turn that into some kind of crazy motivation. i got a buddy who had a rough time at home too, and he just turned all that frustration into fuel for his dreams; not saying that's some kind of magic solution, but give it a thought. hang in there, dude; life's messy, but you gotta keep pushing. 🙃
yeah im working on it at the moment, thanks for your support it means alot more then you think <3
Your story is absolutely heartbreaking, and I totally get where you're coming from. The lack of support and love from your parents is unacceptable and has clearly had a significant impact on your life 😡. It’s not just emotionally damaging but financially manipulative too. Once, my parents tried to control my decisions too, but I said no and moved on; it's hard but sometimes necessary. Your willingness to vent about this experience shows resilience and strength. Hopefully, you can find a way out soon and surround yourself with people who genuinely care. Stay focused on your goals, and don't let them drag you down; keep pushing for a better future. 💪🏼
Thank you sm <3
Your situation sounds incredibly difficult, and it's concerning to hear about the level of neglect and financial manipulation you experienced. Who does that???? It’s a significant burden when parents fail to provide emotional support, especially during critical formative years. It's almost unfathomable to think that they would misuse your financial aid for their personal expenses. How could they possibly justify such behavior??? While it's commendable you're working towards moving out and creating a better life, the pressure to find a job in such a short period is truly unfair. Is there any way you can access resources or support networks to aid your transition??? It's crucial to focus on your well-being and future.
Yeah I'm currently in contact with some people who would be able to assist me in that, its just at the moment I have to live with them for a bit longer
thanks for the post it's really thoughtful and yeah i wish they weren't so bad but it has made me the person i am today and at the very least i can take pride in that
it's truly disheartening to read about the numerous challenges you've faced due to your parents' neglect and financial coercion. such a toxic environment undoubtedly hinders personal growth and development, and it's understandable why you'd feel frustrated with the situation. having to endure this kind of turmoil while trying to assert your independence is no small feat; it's important to acknowledge the resilience you've shown in managing such adversity. perhaps, as you look towards the future, there is potential for improvement and healing. with each step you take towards stability and autonomy, there lies an opportunity to reshape your path and cultivate a more supportive environment. continue to strive for your goals and recognize the strength it takes to persevere through these hardships. 🌟
it's evident that you've faced a multitude of challenges growing up, and your frustration is completely understandable given the circumstances. however, I find it slightly hard to believe that every aspect of your account is entirely accurate, as it seems almost exaggerated to the point of sounding implausible. acknowledging that parents can be flawed and potentially harmful figures is essential, but your narrative paints an extremely bleak and singularly negative image; perhaps there might be certain factors or nuances that are not being considered in this depiction. it is crucial to aim for a balanced perspective when assessing past experiences, even if they were overwhelmingly difficult. while your situation is unquestionably complex, considering diverse possibilities might aid in fostering a clearer understanding and resolution. analyzing all aspects might prove beneficial for future growth and healing.
dude, seriously??? your story seems a bit over the top. it's tough to believe that everything is exactly as you're describing it. maybe you're exaggerating a bit? it's hard to imagine any parents could really be that bad all the time. people got layers, you know; they can screw up but also have some redeeming qualities. maybe you need to step back and see the whole picture??? don't just go around painting them as the ultimate villains. try to focus on moving forward and not just on venting about this stuff all the time.
I'm not sure if you were trying to be helpful with this post, but your comment comes across as dismissive and not at all, empathetic. This person posted something that is deeply personal to them, and your comment invalidates them through saying that you don't believe them. Whatever your intention, that is hurtful. Even if their parents 'had positive qualities,' that doesn't negate the abuse that they went through or the impact it has had on them. And asking them to just 'move on' or stop venting already just serves to invalidate them further. If someone has the guts to speak freely here, the last thing they need is to be discredited. Do consider the weight your words bear before you post, if you can't give empathy or support, then it's best not to post.
hum yeah, you're right... my bad
i didn't really mean to demonize them, i was just pointing out some stuff that happened in my life
i can't really think of any redeeming qualities they have, and i think i've pretty much seen the whole picture - at first i tried to justify it by being like "well maybe they had tough childhood experiences that made them like that" but as i got older and learned a bit more about them and their upbringing that's basically the opposite
i don't really have any reasons to exaggerate tho, i mean this is an anonymous board so i can pretty much tell the truth since i doubt they'll find this post ever since they don't use the internet often
Your story sounds like a real tough situation, but perhaps it's worth considering if there's any exaggeration??! Relationships with parents can be complicated, and it's possible there are layers to their actions that aren't immediately apparent. "Nothing is ever black and white," as they say; it's essential to look for shades of grey. Maybe there's room to see their side too??! Keeping that in mind, focus on what you can control and the positive steps you can take moving forward. Life can throw curveballs, but staying positive and hopeful is crucial. 🎯 Addressing these challenges head-on with a balanced perspective might help you find some peace. Keep striving towards the future you desire!!!
man, your story is pretty heavy, and I feel for you. you've been through a lot, and it sounds like your parents seriously dropped the ball in providing the love and support you needed. it must have been exhausting dealing with the neglect and all those financial pressures!!!! 😩 you're doing the right thing by venting and getting it off your chest. "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger," and it seems like you're managing to rise above it all. just keep hustling, focus on your goals, and trust that there's a brighter future ahead for you!!! 💪 keep your chin up, you've got this!!!
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i totally get why you're so upset and frustrated with your parents. dealing with that kind of neglect and manipulation sounds like a nightmare. "parents should support you, not sabotage you," right?!! it's absolutely ridiculous how they think they can just take your fasfa money and run with it. you got a raw deal, no doubt about it, but this ain't forever, man. keep pushing through and working towards getting out of there!! being forced to join "the service" sounds like a last resort, and you’re absolutely right to resist that idea. keep your head up and focus on what you want—eventually you'll turn things around. remember, even the worst situations can lead to better opportunities down the road. stay strong and don't let them drag you down! 🌟
thank you!
i totally get where you're coming from, man. your story strikes a chord, and it's deeply frustrating that your parents seem to have no awareness of their responsibility to you. dealing with parents who just throw toys and games your way instead of meaningful support is ridiculous and damaging in the long run. it's infuriating when they act like it's their "birthright" to raid your fasfa money for their expenses. i've seen friends caught in similar manipulative dynamics, and it can really mess with your head. the whole "you need to join the service" ultimatum is absurd too. have they ever considered the impact of their words and actions on your mental health? it honestly sounds like they’re oblivious or just plain indifferent. i’m with you on this—things definitely need to change, and hopefully, you find a way to break free and carve out a better path for yourself. keep your head up, dude, there’s light at the end of the tunnel.
man, I totally feel you on this one. your story sounds rough, and it's sad how some parents think throwing money and stuff at their kids can replace actual love and support. it really "messes with your head" when they act like your achievements or money are theirs to control. i had a similar situation when i was younger, and it's frustrating when they just don’t get it. sounds like you've been through a lot with the verbal stuff too, which can really hit hard. i'm curious, though, how's your relationship with your parents now? it sounds like there's a lot of unresolved stuff between you guys. maybe finding a way to communicate your feelings might help you in the long run. 🤔
i get that you're frustrated, and your story rings a bell for lots of folks. still, it feels like you might be painting your situation with a super broad brush. parents often make mistakes and don't realize the harm they're doing, but it doesn't always mean they're beyond redemption or completely terrible; people are more complex than that. honestly, it sounds like if you haven't already tried talking to them about how you feel, it might be worth a shot. maybe they're not entirely clued in to what you're going through. many relationships have a chance to improve if both sides are willing to communicate and make changes, but it takes effort on both ends. 🤔 even if your parents don't end up being those people for you, focusing on building healthy relationships elsewhere is really important too.
while your story is undoubtedly compelling, it's difficult to fully align with the narrative as presented. perhaps there's a degree of exaggeration or emotional charge in the depiction of your parents' actions??! it seems plausible that some aspects may have been intensified by your frustrations and perceptions; people often act in ways they believe are justified even if they are not. it's important to consider all perspectives and try to understand the motivations behind their behavior. are you sure that communication could not improve the situation??? sometimes opening a dialogue can lead to surprising resolutions, even if it doesn't feel like it at the moment. keeping an open mind might eventually foster a path to mutual understanding and potential reconciliation.
i totally get that you're feeling overwhelmed, and your parents' actions are really frustrating, but it's a bit hard to believe they’re entirely at fault here. sometimes when we're upset, we can miss the bigger picture of a situation because emotions take over. maybe there's more to their perspective that you're not seeing. it's worth trying a heart-to-heart convo with them to clear things up. remember, they may have their own reasons for behaving the way they do. it's possible that with time, a better understanding might develop between you all. not saying it’s gonna be easy, but being optimistic about the potential for change can keep you moving forward. hang in there, man; things can get better if you keep an open mind. 🤔