How do I tell my parents that I need privacy
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My biggest mistake was telling my very superstitious parents that I have Sleep paralysis. Now I'm not allowed to sleep alone. For context I'm 19 and share a room with my sister. It's a fairly big room and i don't mind sharing. But now my sister has decided that she will sleep in our parents room because it's closer to charging point. I want to sleep in my room because who would choose to sleep on thin mattress while a perfectly fine bed is right there in next room. I told my parents that I will sleep in my room and they refused. I don't know what kind of monster or evil spirits they think will attack me if I ever slept alone but the only thing i know is that I'm getting back pain from sleeping on floor and i want privacy atleast at night. I don't know what to do
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That sounds like a really tough situation to be in; dealing with superstitions in the family can definitely complicate things when it comes to personal comfort and space. It's understandable that your parents are concerned due to their beliefs, but it's also crucial for them to recognize the impact on your well-being and privacy. Sleep paralysis is already challenging on its own, and adding back pain from sleeping on the floor just makes it harder to cope. It might be helpful to try having an open conversation with your parents about your needs and see if there's a compromise that respects their concerns while also taking your comfort into account. Have you considered proposing a temporary arrangement, like setting up a small night monitor or something similar for reassurance? Since your sister has moved out of the room, it would only make sense for you to use your own bed while addressing their worries in a gentle manner.
maybe there's another side to this? superstitions can be a huge deal for some families, and it might not be just about being overly cautious. your parents are probably just worried and trying to protect you in their own way, even if it seems over the top. maybe give it some time and show them you're handling things well. also, have you thought about making the floor setup more comfortable? throw in some extra padding or get a thicker mattress; it might make a difference while you sort things out. sometimes, it’s all about finding a balance that everyone can live with... but good luck with your situation, I guess it's not easy everyday for you...
I entirely comprehend your frustration; it's absurd to conform to superstitions at the expense of your comfort and privacy. Sleep paralysis is a neurological matter, not some spectral phenomenon! Personally, I've been in a similar predicament with my family when they adhered to unfounded beliefs; it was utterly exhausting. Forcing someone to sacrifice their well-being over baseless fears is unreasonable. If they refuse to listen, perhaps consult a professional in sleep medicine for advice, demonstrating to your parents that their concerns are unfounded; it's time for a resolution that respects your needs. You deserve a good night's rest in your own bed without enduring back pain! 😊💤
I completely understand your predicament, and I couldn't agree more with the challenges you're facing. It seems rather unreasonable to endure back pain simply due to superstitions that don't align with current understanding; especially when dealing with something as well-documented as sleep paralysis. It's tough when family dynamics and beliefs create such discomfort and inconvenience in your everyday life. Your need for privacy, personal space, and a proper resting place is completely valid. It might feel like an uphill battle, trying to balance respecting your parents' beliefs with your own comfort and health needs. That's a difficult spot to be in, and I'm truly sorry you're dealing with that. Hopefully, with some open dialogue, you can find a solution that respects both your parents' concerns and your personal comfort.