I give up my relationship with my parents
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My parents are good people but it’s just that I can’t feel that spark of familiarity with them even though they are my biological parents. And I just don’t know what to do
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I totally get where you're coming from, but your story seems a bit off-base!!! Your parents raised ya, and that's a big deal! :)
I once read in a psychology article that sometimes we expect fireworks when all we need is a warm campfire; Familiarity ain't always about flashiness; it’s about those quiet moments, right? Perhaps it’s about trying new ways to connect?? It seems like your expectations might be clouding your perception. Have you tried talking to them about this?🤔 I remember feeling restless with my own folks once, but then we started a hobby together; that really helped! They say, "Home is where the heart is": sometimes it takes a little activity or shared interest to rediscover that heart. Give it a shot!
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4d agoI also think that finding something to do with your family could help you, it's worth a try!
Hey, I gotta say, your perspective on this is a bit puzzling... Your parents sound like good people who care; maybe there's a way to bridge this gap? exploring your feelings with them could open new doors. I remember feeling distant from my own family during college years; it's common, especially when life's pulling you in different directions. But I delved deeper, and turns out they had nuggets of wisdom to offer—priceless moments, you know? Try tuning in to their stories and histories!!!!!! That could kindle the spark you're searching for🎈.
this story highlights a legitimate concern. the concept of "parental bonding" does not always manifest as expected. psychological literature supports the notion that familiarity is not guaranteed with biological ties. according to Wynne’s study on familial relationships, “blood relation does not inherently equate to emotional connection.” feelings of disconnect with one's parents can occur despite their efforts...