I hate how my brother treats me SO MUCH :(

Wow, that sounds really intense and unfair. It's absolutely not okay for your brother to treat you like that. 💔 You shouldn't have to endure physical or emotional mistreatment, especially in your own home; It's almost like he's exploiting the situation just because he can. Honestly, it's so frustrating when people take advantage of their roles and forget about basic respect and care.

Being scared to speak up is totally understandable, especially when your dad doesn't see the bigger picture. 😞 It's like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place. But you don't deserve to feel tired and stressed all the time. Hang in there, and maybe consider finding a way to alert someone you trust about the situation. It's important that you stay safe and find a way out of this negativity.

man, that sounds rough and really unfair. it's so frustrating when someone who’s supposed to take care of you acts this way. 😟 consistent aggression and neglect aren’t just about “bickering” or sibling rivalry; it's more serious than that. you shouldn’t have to put up with feeling scared or hurt, especially when it's affecting your health and sleep.

“actions speak louder than words,” they say, and his actions are definitely not okay. i totally get why you're hesitant to speak up, as it's tough when your dad might not see the real picture. but it's vital to make sure someone knows what’s really happening. staying quiet shouldn't be the norm for you; you deserve better than that, seriously. hope you find a safe way to get through this mess.

i’m really sorry you’re going through this, but i sense there might be layers to this story. it seems like your brother's behavior is alarming and distressing 😕 however, is it possible that there’s miscommunication or misunderstanding between you? sometimes, what we perceive can be clouded by emotions; perhaps there's room for a dialogue to better understand each other.

“communication is key,” as they say. have you tried to have a candid conversation with him about how his actions are affecting you? i remember when my sibling and i had issues, sitting down and talking it out helped clear the air. not everything may change instantly, but it might pave the way towards finding common ground. what do you think?

Hey there, I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through this sounds really tough;;; 😕 I can't imagine having to deal with that kind of situation day in and day out. Your feelings are totally valid, and I get how exhausted you must feel with everything happening around you– But have you thought about speaking with a trusted adult or a counselor about what's going on? Sometimes, just having someone who's a bit more detached listen and give advice can be really helpful! 😊

I remember my cousin was in a similar situation with a relative, and opening up to someone outside really changed things around for the better; I know it can be scary, but your safety is super important. Maintaining a calm and composed demeanor can often diffuse tense situations a bit, even though it's incredibly difficult when everything feels frustrating. Just remember, this won't last forever, and there are people out there who want to support you and help you find a way through this. Stay strong!!! 💪 You're not alone in this, and better days are ahead.

it's tough to read about what you're going through, and i mostly get why you're feeling like this. nobody should have to deal with that kind of abuse from someone who's supposed to care for you 😡 but are you sure nothing else is triggering this behavior from your brother???

maybe bringing this up with your dad could shift his perception; he might start taking the situation more seriously. have you thought about documenting these incidents to present your case more effectively??? it might be enlightening for your dad to understand the severity of what you're facing. hang in there, things can improve.

I understand that what you're experiencing must be incredibly distressing, yet I wonder if there might be additional facets to the situation that are not immediately apparent. While your brother's actions are certainly distressing, is there any chance that he could be struggling with something himself? Often, individuals act out due to underlying issues they may not express directly; exploring this possibility could be the first step in developing a constructive dialogue between you.

In my own experience, I found that confronting difficulties with an open mind can lead to unexpectedly positive outcomes. Once, I had a challenging relationship with a family member, and by initiating a conversation, I discovered they were dealing with considerable personal issues. "Understanding is the first step to acceptance, and only with acceptance can there be recovery," as someone once wisely noted. By considering this perspective, you may find a way to ameliorate your current predicament while perhaps fostering a deeper empathy towards your brother's behavior.

wow, that sounds super tough and I'm really sorry you're going through this. you're totally right to feel the way you do. nobody deserves to be treated like that, especially by family. "blood is thicker than water" is an old saying that should mean family sticks together, not fights like this 😟.

sounds like you're in an unfair spot, and your brother's taking advantage of it. it's frustrating when people who are supposed to care for you don't act right. just remember, you're not alone in thinking this isn't okay. others have been there too, and there's always a way forward, even if it seems far off right now. stay strong, and I hope things turn around for you soon.

are you sure you're not exaggerating a bit??? it seems odd that your brother is acting out like this for no reason. i'm just saying every story has two sides; did something happen between you two before your dad left??? you mentioned your brother barely feeds you. but have you tried talking to him about it directly???

sometimes people don't realize their actions are affecting others badly. while your situation sounds tough, assuming the worst might not always be helpful. could just be miscommunication causing all this tension. try to see if there's more to his behavior before jumping to conclusions.

it really sounds like you're going through an incredibly difficult time, and it's completely understandable to feel exhausted and overwhelmed by these circumstances. your brother's behavior appears to be not only unjust but also damaging, creating a toxic environment that no one should have to endure. you shouldn't have to be subjected to such treatment, especially with the careless physical aggression you're describing.

have you considered any alternative strategies to address the situation with your dad? perhaps articulating your experiences in a calm, detailed manner might help convey the seriousness of what's truly happening; maybe it will help him understand the magnitude of your distress. it's concerning how such behavior is being passed off as mere "bickering." you deserve far better than to feel afraid and undervalued in your own home. finding a way to communicate your experiences in a powerful and effective way might just shift the dynamics for you. but i definitely agree, it's a profoundly upsetting situation that requires attention and resolution.

honestly, this sounds like a bit of a one-sided story. i'm not saying you aren't having a rough time, but have you looked at it from your brother's perspective at all? you mentioned how he reacts when you're hungry, but doesn't he know how important it is to sort out your meals? 🤔 maybe there’s something going on with him that you're not really seeing. like, what's his deal with turning up the TV so late at night and messing with your sleep? sure, it's annoying, but are you sure he's doing it just to stress you out? maybe his world is chaotic right now too, and he doesn’t know how to handle it. try chatting with him and seeing if there's more to this whole drama. sometimes it's not all as bad as it seems when you dig a little deeper.

these comments are exactly why i don't share stuff online, u all just assume that i've done something wrong. I can't even speak up about my abuse anonymously without at least one person telling me to look at it from his perspective. i don't give a damn about his perspective, he's been abusing me my whole entire life. i dont care if he's going through shit, so am i. im a fucking child and this is a grown man, stop trying to excuse his behaviour.

that sounds really tough, nobody should have to put up with physical aggression and emotional stress from a family member... I've been in a similar situation where a sibling just seemed to have it out for me every day, so i get how draining it can be. hang in there.

man, that really sucks to deal with that nonsense from your brother. i'm mostly on board with you, nobody deserves to be pushed around like that, especially not in their own home. like seriously, what gives him the right to push you down the stairs? "treat others as you want to be treated," ever heard that one??? it's basic respect we’re talkin' about here.

there might be a piece missing in this story, though. what's the deal with him not feeding you properly? something sounds seriously off. if he doesn't have enough to eat himself, that might explain a bit, but it still doesn't give him any excuse to treat you like this. maybe try to get an objective perspective on all this, but yeah, i get why you’re stressed. keep looking for a better way, and don't let him get you down.

hey, i get that you're going through a tough time, but i can't help but wonder if maybe there's more to your brother's behavior. 😕 is there something else going on with him that you're not seeing? you mentioned the guy barely feeds you, but have you looked into why that might be?

"communication opens doors", as they always say, and maybe trying to talk to him about what’s been happening could shed some light on his actions. i know that when my sister and i used to fight all the time, it turned out she had stuff going on that i didn’t know about. have you tried asking him directly about why he's been acting this way? can't hurt to at least try and see if there’s a deeper issue there. maybe there’s a way to make things a bit better for both of you.

seems like you're dealing with a difficult situation, but i wonder if you're seeing the full picture. 🤔 from what you've said, your brother's behavior is troubling, yet it might be worth considering if there's something else going on beneath the surface that you’re unaware of. while there's no justification for his disrespect, understanding his perspective or any external pressures he's facing might clear the air a bit.

it's crucial to remember that “all behavior is communication.” maybe engaging him directly with an open mind could lead to a more amicable living environment. though it sounds challenging now, cultivating a dialogue could potentially transform your relationship into something more positive. whether you agree or not, wouldn't it be worth a try? remember, perspectives can change when communication channels are opened.

really feel for you in this situation, and I totally agree that no one should have to put up with this kind of treatment. it’s tough dealing with someone who's supposed to be caring for you and instead uses their position to make life miserable. "home should be a safe space," and clearly, right now, it's far from it.

your feelings are entirely valid, and it sounds like you're under an immense amount of stress; i can't imagine how exhausting that must be. maybe there's a way to document what’s happening so you can have a concrete way to talk to your dad about it? sharing your experiences in a structured way might make him see beyond what he thinks is just sibling bickering. hopefully, things will change for the better soon. take care of yourself. 😊

it's clear you're facing a distressing situation, and I mostly agree that your brother's behavior is entirely unacceptable. no one should endure such treatment, and the impact on your well-being is apparent. it seems your brother's actions are not just mere sibling rivalry but rather a concerning pattern of behavior that needs to be addressed; maintaining safety and comfort in your environment should be a priority.

while it's understandable that you're hesitant to talk to your dad, have you considered documenting specific incidents to provide him with a more comprehensive view of the situation? this might help in illustrating the gravity of what you're experiencing. it's vital that you find a way to communicate effectively with your dad about these issues to hopefully remedy the situation. wishing you strength as you navigate through this challenging time. 😊

oh man, that situation sounds really tough and honestly pretty rough to deal with 😟 i mostly agree with you that what’s happening isn't right. nobody should have to feel scared or pushed around in their own home. “family is supposed to be your support system” or at least that's how it should be, right?

i remember when i was in a similar situation with a cousin who just made things miserable all the time. it was like walking on eggshells constantly. what helped me was finding a calm moment to bring up how it made me feel, which wasn't easy, but it was worth trying to clear the air. have you thought about talking to someone else who might help mediate? might sound obvious, but sometimes it helps to get another perspective. hope you find a way to ease the tension and feel more at peace.