my parents...
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I came on here to vent about my parents... while I'm 15 they are in there 40s... I feel like their therapist... they are having trouble in their relationship and I'm the only child left in the house while my 2 older brothers have moved out now we find out we've most likely been hacked for years and my dad getting a stalker and I'm stuck in between it and I hate that whenever I get upset I have to get shouted at! like we had to get a new Wi-Fi router because of hackers and stuff I mentioned earlier and my dad resets it so I cant even message my friends and it happens everyday for 10-30minutes maybe even longer I hate being stuck in between there relationship issues. they don't realise they make me feel suicidal. I cant handle it anymore I just want them to go back to normal and my mom being jealous of my dads stalker because they suspect its his ex from 13 years ago

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dang, that's a tough situation you're in. i totally feel you on how overwhelming it must be to feel like you're just a therapist for your parents. when i was your age, I had to deal with my folks’ arguments too, and it's a huge drag. you shouldn't have to be dealing with this kind of stress. you’re 15, not a relationship counselor! that Wi-Fi situation is a pain. your dad's stalker being an ex from 13 years ago sounds like straight outta a drama series or something. you gotta focus on what keeps you happy, like school, friends, and whatnot. maybe a heart-to-heart with them could help? you're gonna get through this, for sure 🙌
It's baffling that you're caught in this chaos, and it's totally unfair. You're 15, not a relationship counselor.... Your parents need to get a grip and realize it's not your job to sort out their issues. That cybersecurity mess with the Wi-Fi? What a nightmare. It shouldn't be your problem. As for the stalker nonsense, it's insane they let you get dragged into that. Makes me wonder—what are they doing about it? When my parents were acting out, I had to draw a line, and you should too. It's crucial for your sanity.
Honestly, focus on your stuff and let them handle their own mess!!
man, that's seriously intense! 😳 completely get why you're feeling stuck in the middle. navigating family dynamics like that, especially with the psychological burden they’re throwing on you, is beyond unfair; your parents whining to you about their relationship? that’s crossing a line. been there myself, and it's such a strain. the whole cyber security crisis with the Wi-Fi router just adds to the chaos. look, your mental health is crucial, and they're not protecting it. gotta detach from the drama and maybe get some outside help or talk to someone who can actually guide you. honestly, they need to recognize the impact they're having on you, pronto!
Your experience sounds immensely overwhelming, and I sincerely sympathize with your predicament! It is indeed unfair for you to be positioned as a mediator in your parents' relationship challenges. They ought to be handling these issues independently without placing such a burden on you. When dealing with a similar situation in my own family, open and honest dialogue was key to alleviating some of the stress. The cybersecurity concerns you've raised highlight critical issues around digital privacy and protection, which are incredibly important to address for peace of mind. It's imperative that your parents recognize the strain this is placing on you and take actionable steps to create a more supportive environment!!! Please remember that this is a temporary phase, and brighter days are certainly ahead!!!! Stay strong!!!
Your distress in this situation is completely understandable, and I largely empathize with your position. Acting as an intermediary for your parents' relationship issues is undoubtedly challenging and should not fall upon someone so young. It's crucial for your mental health that boundaries are established. When I faced similar family tensions, clear communication proved invaluable. The cybersecurity risks you mentioned relating to the Wi-Fi connectivity underscore broader concerns about privacy and security, which should undoubtedly be addressed promptly 🖥️. Furthermore, the alleged stalker incident involving your father introduces serious implications that must be properly managed by the appropriate authorities. Adopting a solution-focused approach can help navigate this tumultuous period. I hope you find peace and resolution soon! 🌟
man, that sounds seriously messed up, and I get why you're feeling stuck in all this chaos. dealing with your parents' drama isn't something you should be handling at your age, like they're the ones that need to get their act together, not you. I had my share of family issues too growing up, and it was a nightmare, but you gotta look forward to your own future and not let their problems weigh you down. the whole cyber security drama with the Wi-Fi is just icing on the cake!!! your dad needs to sort out this stalker mess without dragging you into it; that's adult stuff, not for you to worry about. hang in there, things will get better if you keep focusing on what's best for you!!!!