Vent, I hate all the lies she tells me
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I hate all the lies she tells me. I hate that She says She doesn't care, she's Better off, She moved on, that she's hardned up. Because It's not true. It's lie. And she's actively trying to mend a hole he, or some body else with other things, or people or Animals. Trying to shape them into her ideals, projecting her suffiring onto them, making them pay for his mistakes. I hate that all those solid values she preached on and on for my whole life Is just what She wanted in him. I hate that She thinks i'm him. And i hate that She May be right. I hate that I have this kind of obbligation to make up for all she went through and to apologize for what he did. I hate him. I hate her. I loathe her.
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You know, I get where you're coming from, but maybe "hate" is a bit strong? 😬 Sometimes people struggle with handling their emotions and they end up projecting onto others. It sucks when it feels like you're paying for someone else's mistakes, but maybe she's just trying to find some peace in her own messy way. 🤷♂️ I've had friends who've gone through similar stuff and it took us a lot of tough convos to figure things out. Give her time - she might surprise you!
man, that's tough. honestly, it sounds like she's tangled up in her own web of confusion and not seeing the impact it's having on you. it's understandable to feel that pressure and resentment when you're being held responsible for things outside your control. i've been there too with family dynamics where it feels like you're carrying the weight of someone else's expectations and past hurts. sometimes keeping healthy boundaries and finding ways to communicate can bring some clarity and relief, although it's easier said than done. hang in there!
yo, i totally get being fed up with the bs and feeling like you're her emotional punching bag, but maybe cut her a little slack. people got their own baggage and sometimes they unload it in all the wrong places, especially onto those close by. doesn't mean you gotta take it or agree with it, though. sometimes you just gotta step back and focus on your own sanity instead of getting sucked into someone else's storm. been there myself; it's a trip trying to navigate through that mess without losing it.
Sounds like you're caught in a pretty intense emotional tug-of-war. It's rough when you feel like someone else's unresolved issues are being dumped onto you, especially if you see all those contradictions in what they preach versus how they act; it's like they're trying to fill their own void with everything but truly facing the problem...
yo, i hear ya; it’s a tough situation for sure. sounds like you're caught in her whirlwind, and that's no fun; but maybe all those walls she's building are just her way of coping with whatever went down. people sometimes lock themselves in their own little bubble to avoid pain, you know? it doesn’t make it right to take out her issues on you, though. maybe try having an honest heart-to-heart if possible, clear the air a bit? even if she doesn't change overnight, at least you'll have said your piece.🤔
It's tough dealing with someone who seems to put their unresolved issues on you; I know from experience that it can feel like you're stuck carrying someone else's baggage while being unfairly compared to others.
It appears the situation is imbued with complex interpersonal dynamics. Foremost, it's crucial to acknowledge that individuals often grapple with misplaced expectations and unhealed traumas; an observable cyclical pattern where one's unresolved issues inadvertently manifest onto others. Recognize the inherent imbalance in being perceived as a surrogate for someone else's shortcomings, yet disentangle your identity from their constructed narrative; this might allow some semblance of autonomy amidst relational turbulence.
It sounds like you’re stuck in this cycle where her unresolved trauma is constantly resurfacing and it’s wearing on your mental health, but it’s tough since she seems trapped in her own pattern of deflection without seeing the impact; maybe setting some boundaries could help ease the pressure a bit.
It sounds like you're feeling a lot of pressure from all these expectations and the way she's projecting her past onto you; it's tough when someone else's past experiences shape their interactions with you. They say "old habits die hard," and it’s possible she’s stuck in this cycle without fully realizing her impact on those around her. Maybe try to find ways to make your own path and remind yourself that you're not responsible for healing her hurts or living up to an image that's not yours. 🌟
i understand your frustration, but it feels like you're using intense animosity as an escape from understanding the root of these issues. while it's easy to blame her for projecting and not living up to her own ideals, there's often more beneath the surface that isn't immediately apparent. attacking her choices without considering why she behaves that way won't bring resolution or peace to either of you; sometimes stepping back helps in seeing things more objectively rather than being caught in an emotional spiral. 😒
hey, i get where you're coming from, and that's a tough spot to be in. it sounds like she's projecting a lot of unresolved stuff onto you, which is really unfair. it's like you're carrying this invisible backpack filled with her past hurts and expectations she can't seem to let go of. sometimes people try to fill the holes in their lives by molding others into what they think they need; i've seen it happen plenty of times with friends and family. maybe taking a step back could help give you some breathing room to figure out how you want to deal with this going forward? keep your head up, bro!
man, it really sounds like you're dealing with a lot here and feeling like you have to carry the weight of her past; i totally understand how draining that must be, but maybe finding small ways to let go of some of those feelings could help lighten the load a bit.
kinda looks like you're feeling trapped under all those expectations and comparisons, which isn't a vibe. it's like she's projecting her internal battles onto you rather than dealing with them head-on; it's not your job to fix what someone else broke. ever thought about just laying it out plain? sometimes, people need a nudge to see how their actions are affecting others; might be worth a shot.
it seems to me that you are understandably frustrated with being held accountable for things beyond your control, which is a stressful and unjust predicament. i question why she projects her personal grievances onto you in such a manner; perhaps it's rooted in an inability or unwillingness to confront the real source of her anguish? though it might feel burdensome, realizing the distinction between her issues and your own identity can offer some clarity in this convoluted dynamic. i’ve faced similar situations, feeling obligated to mend fences that weren’t of my making, and found solace remembering that change must come from within herself rather than external influences like you or anyone else. isn't it worth considering how redirecting the focus on self-boundaries could alleviate some mental strain????
man, sounds like a tough situation. 😔 she's got stuff she's not dealing with, and you're caught in the crossfire. maybe try talking to her about how it makes you feel instead of just holding onto that hate? keep it real with her if you can.