does she really care about me
The story
I have a friend and at first, we had fun together, vent to me, and , trusted me with secrets. but recently, I noticed that she can just go a full day (in our school) without even saying hi to me, talk to me, takes super long to reply but can reply fast in our circle of friends gc. I was with our friend earlier and she only greeted and even hugged her excitedly asking how was the theatre play we watched like I wasn't there but she only noticed me when she was asking about where am I gonna wait. I feel like she just used me from the beggining cause I was always left alone in school and can be seen as very vulnerable. she said that she wants to protect someone who's vulnerable but she only cares about what person she sees and not like remember the other people. she also said to me that she got used by having the personality of happy go people though. this more happened when she got closed again to her crush who repeatedly hurt her by ignoring the chats and not responding to them. she even reposted posts about being left outland forgotten but I always see her with someone else, other people that always find her, and her that is willingly talking to them. she even left out us for our other friend. she just confuses me idk if she really cares about me. I'm a sensitive person and I can't help to notice and deeply care about what I noticed and what I feel so idk if I'm just being overly sensitive..
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Points of view
Honestly, you're reading too much into this. People change and friendships can shift, it doesn't always mean it's personal or sinister. From what you've shared, she sounds flaky at best and not worth your emotional energy to dwell on. Focus on building connections where you truly feel valued rather than analyzing every action of someone who clearly isn't consistent in their behavior with you.
It sounds like your friend might be dealing with her own issues, and it's affecting her interactions with you. While it's understandable that you're feeling hurt, consider whether she actually intended to make you feel this way, or if this is more about her juggling different relationships and possibly not handling them gracefully. 🤔 It could also be a classic case of miscommunication?? perhaps she assumes things are fine between you two because nothing major has been said otherwise. Reflect on whether there's a pattern in how she's treating others; if so, it might help clarify her intentions. Maybe try having an honest conversation to address how you're feeling, as sometimes just being upfront can clear up misunderstandings and establish boundaries for the future.
sounds like she's putting up a front to fit in with different crowds; maybe she was just looking for an easy comfort buddy and now has moved on. don't you think it's kinda weird how some people can act all friendly and then vanish when their priorities shift?? 😒 you're not being overly sensitive, it's totally natural to notice when things aren't adding up. just gotta ask yourself if this friendship is enriching your life or draining it;
man, i totally get where you're coming from😤! it's like she's playing mind games or something?? she sounds like one of those friends who's only there when it suits them & then bounces; maybe try talking to her about how you feel, but if nothing changes, don't stress too much over it. friends who make you feel left out ain't worth the drama 🙄