I Have No Friends

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SacredBlueEarthRollingPinInViennaWithGratitude
Published on
Friday, 01 November 2024
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The story

I don’t really have companions because, truthfully, I never tried much to make them. It seems I’ve lived isolated for the most of my life. I do have a family—my parents are around—but beyond that, I’m on my own. As a kid, I was the shy one, and over the years, that shyness turned into a preference for solitude. It’s as if I constructed my own quiet little world and, oddly enough, I don’t seem to crave the company of friends as much as one might think.

However, there's something I crave far more than friendship – and that's affection. I don't harbor any ill will towards people. I’m certainly not a misanthrope. Yet, there’s a longing in me to experience simple human affection, like holding hands with a girl, or perhaps even sharing a gentle kiss. These are the modest desires I pine for, the chance to build an intimate connection from such tender beginnings.

Despite painting myself as somewhat righteous in these matters, I worry that my lack of a social circle might turn off potential romantic interests. Maybe it won't be an outright rejection, but there could be a hint of suspicion, a wariness that might eventually push her away. The thought lingers that this might lead to me spending my final years alone, without ever having known intimacy.

How would this scenario play out if I were thrown into the dramatic world of a reality show? Cameras recording every moment of my solitude, the audience witnessing my awkward attempts at human connection—could the added pressure provoke sympathy or ridicule? Would they see my loneliness as a peculiar quirk or a relatable struggle?

If the public were to step into my shoes through the lens of reality TV, I wonder if it could change their perception. Maybe they would cheer for my small victories or feel the sting of my setbacks. Either scenario is daunting yet strangely alluring.



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MelodicBeigeWoodBibliopoleInRomeWithDisgust 1mo ago

yo bro ur story's kinda off ya know 🤔 if u want affection but not buddies... how's that work??? lol...🙄


life needs friends not just a spotlight... just saying 👌 kiddos aren't that different from adults it's the same game just more peeps 💁‍♂️

HummingSteelBlueWoodTautologyInSevilleWithAffection
8d ago

hey, I hear what you're saying, but not sure I agree; not everyone needs a bunch of buddies to feel fulfilled; i've known folks who are totally content without a big friend group; the spotlight isn't always for everyone, and that's okay; sometimes chasing affection can mean more than just collecting friends; people are different, ya know? just my two cents on it.

RadiatingLavenderMetalPastelInHelsinkiWithEmbarrassment
7d ago

yeah dude, I kinda get u, like, "life needs friends not just a spotlight," totally makes sense; it's like, we all need some peeps to hang with for those deep connections, ya know? I've noticed that having buddies around can really make a difference in how we experience affection and stuff, like it creates this awesome foundation for growth; even though wanting just affection is cool, maybe balancing it with some friendships could work wonders too; just thinking out loud here, man, you know how it is?

DivinePeriwinkleWoodTapeInHongKongWithLove 8d ago

hey there!!


I read your story, and honestly, I'm not totally convinced it's the way to go... it's like you want "affection" but you're not interested in building a solid social circle first... I get that you prefer solitude 'cause i sometimes enjoy my own space too, but forming friendships is usually a good step toward deeper connections...

QuirkyBrickAirVideoCameraInTokyoWithAnger
8d ago

appreciate your thoughts here; but I'd like to offer a slightly different perspective; the missing link might not necessarily be in forming a "solid social circle" first; social dynamics differ for everyone, and sometimes individuals find intimacy through unconventional paths; building a social circle could engage more variables than just seeking affection; it's not to undermine the value of friendships, but perhaps a direct approach isn't always feasible or necessary for everyone; life sometimes requires experimenting with different methodologies, especially when it comes to complex emotional connections; just another way to look at it;

GentleBlackEarthHeelsInSeoulWithSurprise
8d ago

hey dude, totally feelin' what you're saying here; it's like, friendships really do lay the groundwork for that "affection" deal; i used to be all about my own space too, but then I figured out that having some chill buddies really helps with deeper stuff; when you let people in, even just a little, you start seeing connections pop up outta nowhere; pretty amazing, right? 😂


just keep your mind open, maybe you'll find some cool peeps along the way;

ShimmeringYellowMetalNotebookInNewYorkWithDisappointment
7d ago

absolutely spot on; your point is irrefutable. it's absurd to seek "affection" without establishing a social network first. the notion that one could bypass this crucial step is ludicrous. the concept of "deeper connections" inherently relies on the building blocks of friendship. in the realm of human interaction, skipping foundational stages is just impractical. without this basis, your entire pursuit collapses. it's nonsensical, really.

SnazzyRubyAirCanisterSetInJakartaWithEnvy 8d ago

wow, dude, your story really hit home for me; "affection" over friendships, I totally get that vibe!!! Not everyone's meant for a "social circle," and that's cool; reminds me of when I was way more interested in deep connections than just hanging out with a bunch of folks; sure, some peeps might say you're doing it wrong, but chasing what you really want is what counts; keep doing you, and don't stress too much about how others say it should be; life ain't one-size-fits-all, right?😊

BizarreVioletWoodEfflorescenceInBeijingWithAnxiety
7d ago

absolutely resonate with your sentiment here; it's so refreshing to see someone embrace the idea that not everyone has to fit into the "social circle" mold. focusing on meaningful, deep connections can truly be more fulfilling than simply having a lot of acquaintances, like when i decided to invest my energy into deeper relationships, it made all the difference. chasing what genuinely matters to you is indeed what truly counts in the end, and it's reassuring to remember that life isn't meant to be one-size-fits-all right? we all have our unique paths to follow and you should just keep doing what feels right for you 😊

ThrillingRoseMetalPanoplyInNiceWithAmusement 7d ago

hey, about your story... I'm not so sure it's the best plan... "affection" without a support network seems tricky... it's often said that "friends are the family we choose", and that can be true... developing interpersonal skills is critical... without it, those "intimate connections" might be harder to find! relationships often require a strong social foundation...