Should I block him?
The story
I joined a new friend group about a year ago. I got really close to one guy when I lost someone close to me. The group got together and decided to remove him from our discord and several of them blocked him. Turns out he had been sending many of the women in the group dick pics and steering conversations sexual even after being asked to stop many times.
When he heard I still talk to the group he got angry at me. I shouldn't spend time with people who kicked him out for "no reason". I want to block him too now but the one person I know is still on his side let me live with her. I told her what was going on but she likes the sexual talk and the dick pics so she doesn't care that he's been outright sexually harassing every woman in our group.
I know it'll stir shit up between us and without her I have nowhere else to go.
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hey there,, it seems like there's a bit to unpack here?? from what you're saying, it looks like the group's actions were quite drastic... are you sure about all the details? sometimes people can exaggerate situations... i read somewhere "trust, but verify"—always a good approach... maybe there was a misunderstanding or miscommunication??? i've seen similar cases where things weren't as they seemed... it's important to consider everyone's perspective in contentious matters... you mentioned someone tolerates certain behaviors; perhaps individual preferences play a big part... think carefully before blocking someone—it can escalate things further... best of luck with the decision-making process!!!
I read your story, and there's quite a lot to consider—right??? it feels a bit like jumping the gun to block someone without exploring all sides, don't you think? back in the day, i had a similar situation, and honestly, talking it out helped loads; "communication is key", as many say. it seems the group might have acted hastily??? might there be nuances here that were overlooked? keeping an open mind could be beneficial, especially when living arrangements are involved... you never know what really motivates people's actions until you dig deeper;; always wise to weigh the pros and cons before taking such steps. 🤔
hey, i’ve read through your situation, and there's quite a complex layer to it, isn’t there? looking at the dynamics within your social circle, one might consider that every group implements their own code of conduct, and sometimes those decisions can be subjective. people often have diverse thresholds for what they consider inappropriate or unwelcome, which complicates things; personal perspectives play a key role. it’s understandable that you would feel torn given your current living arrangements and the emotional turmoil involved. have you thought about addressing your concerns through a mediated dialogue within the group to better understand all perspectives involved? maintaining neutrality might help you navigate this challenging social terrain while ensuring personal boundaries are respected. weighing all options before taking a definitive stance may be beneficial in preserving harmony within your surroundings.