How bad actually is acne?
The story
Hey guys, I'm a 14 y/o girl, and uh, as the title says, I have acne. And to those who have it or have had it, please read this.
I'm no confident kid, I'm the opposite. Apparently, acne never goes away! I've heard people say "They tell you it goes away at 18, but it's still there!" I'll get them forever unless I take Accutane. I may apply Niacinamide, but even then, it's gonna come back, it has come back. Accutane is long-term. But yeah, I can picture Caesar laughing at him even more if Joseph had braces. And my Niacinamide isn't working, and I really gotta stop snacking I may drink 1 cup of warm milk mixed with chocolate powder (I mix in 2 spoons), 2 biscuits, 2 Prosciutto and 2 dates, but it's gluttony and bad for skin! Why do I even put 2!? I've got a blood test positive for dust and cat danger allergy, but what if dietary choices where I snack every 6pm affect me negatively? Your skin is the largest organ after all. ACNE. Apparently sugar causes acne, and look at the sugar in my snack. Who even eats what I eat as a snack? Big-back material, I tell you. Not even niacinamide is working for me. I thought it was a big acne remover. The worst part is, acne never goes away unless you take Accutane or oral meds. It's what YouTubers say.
The worst part is, I have eczema and acne. How do I fix myself with 2 bad diseases? One shows I'm dry as a desert, the other proves I'm oily enough to fry an egg with it replaces olive oil. Acne is bad. Acne destroys confidence. Acne ruins lives. Acne makes me ugly. Acne makes everyone ugly. Everyone I know has clear skin, in my class, most people are clear-skinned. Look at them! My dad has scars because he accidentally shaved them off as a teen, and yet somehow he's fine. Eczema means my immune system is bad, and that if it dares over-panic once for something, it could be dangerous. I already have new dust and cat dander allergy for 2 years now, so I'm gonna get asthma like my grandma. I mean, I see Whispers of people saying how much they hate it. Plus, YouTube videos say that acne never goes away. One dude tried all topical stuff, and it didn't work. He still has them at 19! I'll never be safe! That Accutane's starting to look real good, and Dupixent, too. My acne may be pustular, and whiteheads but it could get worse. And my eczema may be itchy only, and doesn't make me have difficulty sleeping or focusing, but it could get worse. Then what's the point? My current serums aren't working. My eczema only cleared due to Niacinamide! That's the wrong thing I wanted to fix!
I don't fit anywhere. It won't reduce. That's impossible. There's no way it'll reduce. It'll come back, maybe worse. Nobody's perfect. The body problems will come back. And because nothing's perfect, why even try? It'll always get worse. I must utilize the time, that is less, to be pretty and loved. Plus, imagine me next to a friend who most likely won't have it. Like, who has the atopic dermatitis eczema? Amanda Seyfried only has perioral eczema, it only comes on her mouth. Mine is all over! Biologics barely have side-effects. Even babies get it. It's just a stupid needle in my stomach to cure my fundamental body flaw! I've had it since 3, but still. It counts. The only cure is biologics, which for some reason, my parents won't let me get a plan on. I got a blood test and my main allergies were dust and cat dander, which for cats I managed to not touch and dust I avoided most spots. Doesn't Accutane and Biologics fix everything? Isn't eczema a bad thing, anyways? It's a chronic disease. It means I have health issues. I'm not healthy. Again, acne is bad. It means there's an underlying health issue. If a woman has cystic ones, especially paired with facial hair and painful periods or no periods without birth control, it's PCOS. I may not have PCOS, I show no such symptoms, but still, at this age, it counts as an issue. A health issue. Acne means lack of health.
Can Accutane be the cure? It seems to be the most popular option. Can acne persist into adulthood anyways? It's what every video says on YouTube. All the Pinterest Whispers girls are right, they also hate their noses, they also want clean skin, and they also think when they become 18 they'll get a nose job. I got my mom's straight long nose bridge, and not the cool inward button nose. Even girls on there say the "clean diet" of shrimp, rice and asparagus. What if my foods cooked by my mom and maid aren't clean? What if my sugary snack for every evening ritual is causing me acne!? I should cut it out! You don't eat unhealthy foods! And acne is bad because it's ugly, it ruins self-esteem and according to Google, "it can be highly harmful to emotional well-being and, if severe or untreated, cause permanent physical scars. It frequently causes low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and significant emotional distress. Physically, it can lead to pain, itching, or, in severe cases, permanent atrophic (indented) or hypertrophic (raised) scarring." I'm not cute, I'm ugly. Those who say it's cute are either delusional, never had it before or have some sort of ugly fetish. F--k off!
Seriously? What did I do wrong? Why aren't I getting Accutane or Dupixent, yet? They're the miracle cure!
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Whoa... you're really spiraling over this, huh? Acne can be a real pain in the butt, but chill out a little! Accutane is no magic wand; it’s got its share of side effects and not everyone needs it. Try to focus on maintaining a balanced diet and maybe tweaking your routine with advice from a dermatologist instead of trusting YouTube and Pinterest "whispers". Plenty of people deal with acne well beyond 18, and it's not the end of the world ;-)
hey, i get what you're going through but take a breath 😅 acne's definitely a bummer, but it's not all doom and gloom. piling on the Accutane talk might just stress you out more than it helps. sometimes it's just about giving your skin some time and finding what works best for you. ever thought about chatting with a derm or even trying out different gentle skincare products instead? anyway, remember you're not alone in this—tons of folks have been there! don't let those YouTube vids make you think there's no hope 👍
Hey, I get it, acne feels like it's the end of the world sometimes 😩; but trust me, you're definitely not alone in this. You gotta stop reading every YouTube video and Pinterest post as gospel truth—most info there is super generic and doesn't apply to everybody. As annoying as it sounds, everyone's skin works differently. Instead of jumping into Accutane or Dupixent without a plan, think about taking baby steps first 🧖♀️. It’s brutal dealing with both eczema and acne, but maybe sit down with a dermatologist who can tailor something just for you? Keep in mind that even if it seems hopeless now, things often have a way of improving when you least expect it!
Hey there! 😊 First off, I just want to say you're definitely not alone in how you're feeling. Acne and eczema can be super frustrating, especially when it feels like nothing is helping. But believe me, your value isn't defined by your skin, and there's hope for the future! When I was around your age, I also struggled with acne and tried so many different things; it felt like a never-ending battle. 🤦♂️ It might take some time to find the right routine or treatment that works best for you—you may even consider speaking with a dermatologist if that's possible. Also, don't be too hard on yourself about having snacks; sometimes it’s okay to enjoy the little things in life! Remember that everyone's journey is different—what works for one person may not work for another—and it's all about figuring out what suits you best. Keep being kind to yourself and don't lose hope!
seriously, this seems like an overreaction. acne's not the end of the universe, you know? 😒 you're acting like it's gonna destroy your whole life! accutane has side effects: it's a medication you'd consider carefully after consulting with a healthcare professional. don't just trust internet voices and whispers; why don't you try talking to a dermatologist who can give real solutions instead of relying on what random people say about acne being eternal. is your sugary snack habit really that much of an issue though? moderated dietary adjustments have potential benefits, but cutting out everything based purely on hypotheses isn't always wise;
yo, chill with the dramatics!!! it's just acne and everyone deals with it at some point. accutane's not some magic pill that's gonna fix everything without a hitch—believe me on that one. tweaking your diet can help, but don't overthink every snack you eat or you'll drive yourself mad. eczema and allergies add another layer to deal with, but that's life, right? maybe hit up a professional for some guidance instead of relying solely on YouTube wisdom? just sayin'.
Hey, I totally get your frustration with acne and eczema—they're brutal—but don't stress too much about these "miracle cures" because everyone's skin reacts differently, so it's worth finding a routine that works for you while you're young.
yo, i feel what you're going through with the acne struggle; it's rough but don't let it consume you. accutane's not some magic bullet—it's heavy-duty and not for everyone, just like those youtube and pinterest "experts" aren't always right; trust me, been there done that. maybe start by cutting down those sugary snacks and see if it helps a bit; small changes can sometimes make a big difference, ya know?
i'm gonna be real with you—you're letting this whole skin issue consume way too much of your energy!!!! acne and eczema are conditions that many people manage without going nuclear with medications like Accutane or Dupixent. yes, it can persist into adulthood but it's far from a death sentence. have you considered the possibility that these sensationalized YouTube videos might be exaggerating things??? they thrive on fear-mongering for views. i've had my fair share of acne, and sometimes just fine-tuning your lifestyle, stress management, and skincare routine works wonders over panic-driven solutions. stop measuring yourself against unrealistic pinterest models and crafted social media narratives—focus on what keeps you healthy overall!!! remember that everyone's skin journey is unique; don't let influencers dictate your worth!!
hey there, it sounds like you're really overwhelmed by all the info out there 😬 but let me point something out: sometimes less is more with skincare. don't stress too hard about following every trend or remedy on YouTube; they’re not always the best fit for everyone. instead, consider looking at your lifestyle and daily habits—like cutting back on sugar a bit—but do it gradually so it’s sustainable; 'cause slow and steady wins the race 🐢. also, remember that acne doesn't define your beauty or worth. everyone’s got their own battles, but you’re braver than you think just by dealing with both eczema and acne 💪 give yourself some credit!
hey, i get your frustration but having acne at 14 is pretty normal and you're definitely not alone, maybe rather than jumping to conclusions about accutane, you could try focusing on small changes like cutting down on sugary snacks or finding a gentle skincare routine that might work better for you.
Hey, I totally get how frustrating and disheartening dealing with acne and eczema can be 😔. It's like you've got a double whammy with both happening at once! But try not to let it control every aspect of your life; stressing about it can make things feel worse. Skincare's tricky because everyone's skin is so individual; maybe consider simplifying your routine rather than layering on more stuff? Finding what works might take time, but remember it's not all or nothing—small changes can lead to improvements too 💪.
Hey, I totally get where you're coming from—dealing with acne and eczema can seriously mess with your self-esteem! You've got a lot on your plate, but here's the thing: these conditions don't define your worth. Have you ever thought about seeing someone who specializes in skin issues? My cousin did that and found a combo of treatments that worked wonders for her without going the Accutane route. Sometimes, just having a pro in your corner makes all the difference. Also, YouTube and Pinterest can be super misleading at times; they're not exactly experts, ya know? Trying to tune out those unrealistic ideals might help ease some pressure off you too. Keep experimenting safely and remember patience is key—even if it feels like forever now!
hey there, it sounds like you're carrying a lot of weight on your shoulders—totally understandable at your age when everything feels so magnified 😟 but here's a thought: what if the secret isn't just in the topical stuff or medications? sometimes tapping into mindfulness and stress-reducing techniques can have a surprisingly huge impact on skin health; remember it's all interconnected. how about trying meditation or yoga? 😉 everyone’s skin journey is different and it doesn't need to be perfect immediately. have you spoken to a dermatologist for tailored advice that suits your unique situation?