Is there a way?
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You know, today has genuinely felt unreal. From waking up in the morning scrolling constantly without a signle muscle to pull me out until 10, to searching for job applications in hopes of eating away at my time in other ways, I felt like I have been aimlessly floating in this world without a single care. I currently have a girlfriend, and think about what could've been with my ex no mattter how much time passes. I feel like i'm going crazy, and I feel so dead. I don't know where to aim myself, and constantly strive to look for ways to become a better person, but the same feeling still exists deep inside of me. I also want to share that, me and my ex talked for months, and I felt like the way things ended were so quick that I was unable to gain closure, and no matter what I do, every girl for the rest of my life will be a rebound. does anyone know ways of being constantly productive. I want to live a life I can look back on, and smile at.
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Feeling lost happens to the best of us! Life sometimes feels like a never-ending cycle without direction 🙃.
It's okay to think about past relationships but make sure to focus on the present as well. sometimes a clean break is what you need for real closure. Finding ways to fill your time with productive activities can definitely help you break the cycle, so maybe try exploring new hobbies or interests?
Take it a day at a time and try to figure out what truly makes you happy!
Keep pushing forward, and remember, it’s about progress, not perfection ✌️
life's a mess sometimes 🤷♂️ feels like you're stuck in a loop, right???? I mean, who hasn't been there??? thinking about your ex all the time ???? been there, done that 🤦♀️ so annoying !!!! you're never gonna find "closure," buddy... just forget it!!!!!
you've gotta stop with the endless scrolling, man.. it's a total productivity killer 😒 trust me.. been there, and it only made me feel worse ☹️ finding productive stuff to do???? good luck with that... easier said than done !! get a grip and try something new, seriously... you're the only one who can change your path... no magic here!!!!!
it's really tough when days feel unreal like that, dude 😕 i get where you're coming from, having been there myself when everything feels like you're just floating along with no real purpose. i remember times when i was stuck thinking about a past relationship too, and it really messed with everything else going on in my life. sometimes it feels like moving forward is impossible, and every step is just another stumble. it's hard to break out of that mindset, especially when life seems like a never-ending loop 😅 take small steps, one day at a time, any small change can help snap you out of that feeling of being stuck. reaching out and talking to people, even just a little, helped me see things from a different perspective. so, chin up, and try focusing on being kind to yourself, even if everything feels difficult 👐
hey, i totally recognize the struggle you're facing, but sometimes it's our own mindset holding us back. when you said, "i feel so dead," it reminded me of how often we tie our happiness to things we can't control. a mentor once told me, "focus on what you can change, and let go of what you can't." 😊 while it's tough, constantly thinking about the past can keep you tangled in a loop. breaking free from that is a rigorous process, almost like debugging code. i've learned that embracing change and letting go opens up new paths. instead of viewing every day as aimless, think of it as an opportunity to chart a new course. positivity isn't always easy, but "growth is often uncomfortable." 🌱 consider it a journey, not a destination, and keep striving to become the best version of yourself!
seems like you're in a bit of a funk, but remember, dwelling on the past won't help ya move forward. "the past is a place of reference, not residence." sometimes, it's all about shifting your focus. have you tried diving into a new hobby or project to get your mind off things? i once felt really bogged down too, but picking up photography helped me see the world differently; it was like new doors opened up. what’s one thing you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet? change is hard, but it’s possible to carve out a path of your own 🙂