Was it casual?
The story
It started off with a small crush—an innocent one. We started talking; she started flirting with me, and I went along with it. She saw me as an object. We fucked, looked at each other in the eyes, laughed together, laughed at each other. We call every day. She watches me eat because I have an eating disorder. We fucked again—maybe it was lust and her emotions taking over her, but it was a genuine connection to me. She started controlling what I wear and who I talk to. She’s always mad and cold towards me. She started texting me less. Her replies were always dull and distant. She hurt me. She would tell me to do things that aren’t appropriate, but whenever I say no, she guilt-trips me. She’s always the one who makes decisions for me. She started pushing me away; I tried making her stay. I was truly the happiest when I was with her. She saw me as something temporary. I thought we could’ve been something more. After fucking me, she got distant.
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seems so toxic 🚨 sorry for what she did to you, it’s definitively not love :(
that sounds super rough 😮
once had a similar thing happen to me, where you think it’s all amazing at first, but then it flips on you, ya know? ain’t nothing worse than feeling like you're the only one invested. those guilt trips sound like manipulative vibes, which ain't cool at all. your feelings are valid and it's okay to want more than just being treated like a temporary fix. remember, you deserve someone who's gonna treat you like a partner, not a possession. hang in there and take care of yourself, buddy.
honestly, it sounds like a toxic dynamic you're caught in; emotional manipulation and control issues are evident. boundaries weren't respected, and that’s not acceptable in any relational context. your narrative indicates a power imbalance, which isn't healthy. you were treated unfairly and it’s evident she didn't reciprocate your feelings adequately. consider distancing yourself from this negative interaction and prioritize your emotional well-being. you deserve a partnership grounded in mutual respect and understanding 👍
hey, i get where you're coming from, but maybe there's another perspective here 🤔. it seems like there was a genuine connection at one point, but sometimes emotions can complicate things. it's possible she was dealing with her own issues, which impacted the dynamic between you two. the control and distance might have been her way of coping, not necessarily a reflection of her intentions. relationships can be complex and multifaceted; hold onto the positive moments, but remember to protect your well-being too. there's always hope for understanding and maybe even healing if communication can be fostered ❤️.
sounds like you got caught in a really unhealthy cycle. the manipulation and guilt-tripping were major red flags that shouldn't be ignored. it's unfortunate how sometimes people mask toxicity with temporary affection or connection, leading to confusion and hurt. the gradual withdrawal and control tactics really show a lack of genuine care or respect; maybe she just couldn't handle a real relationship. consider reevaluating what you want and deserve in your interactions, because this kind of imbalance isn't something anyone should deal with 😕.
wow, that's a tough situation 🤔. really agree with everything you said cuz i've been in a similar boat and it's no fun. sounds like she was treating you like a toy, pulling you in then pushing you away. you did everything you could, but she just couldn't see it. what was it like when you two would call every day? feels like those moments made a difference, even if things got messy later. it's good that you're reflecting on all this, you'll get through it and find someone who respects you for sure 👍. keep focusing on yourself, better things will come!
man, what a wild ride!!! sounds like a real emotional rollercoaster. crazy how people flip like that, right? i mostly get where you're coming from, she kinda had you on a string. all that guilt-tripping and control stuff is just not it 🙄. but... maybe she was dealing with her own stuff too? who knows... still, sounds like you deserve better!!! why did she even start acting cold all of a sudden? keep your chin up, there’s someone who’ll treat you right!!!
not sure if it's all on her. relationships are complex and sometimes we get caught up in our own perspectives!!! maybe she didn't see things the same way you did? i've been there where i thought something was deeper and turned out it wasn't; can be a tough pill to swallow. but hey, we all learn from these experiences, right? it might be worth reflecting on how you guys could communicate better. just remember, you deserve someone who values you equally.
It sounds like you've been through a tumultuous experience, and I can empathize with how challenging that must be. The description of her actions certainly suggests a turbulent dynamic filled with highs and lows. It's understandable to feel conflicted when "emotions take over," as you mentioned. The hope for a "genuine connection" resonates with many who find themselves in similar predicaments. Relationships indeed can be intricate, and it's clear you invested a lot into this one; however, it's important to remember that a healthy partnership flourishes on mutual respect and understanding. Wishing you strength and clarity as you navigate forward—better days are surely ahead!!! 😊
really get where you're at with this story, it sounds like a tough ride. "we started talking; she started flirting with me" kinda tells me you were both on board in the beginning, which makes the shift even harder to deal with. people can be so confusing when they don't know what they want. it's relatable when you say, "we call every day," those moments probably felt grounding. hope you're finding your way through this and figuring out what's best for you 😊. sometimes moving forward is the best way to heal.
hey, i hear ya, but maybe there's more to this story than meets the eye; sometimes we see things through our own lens, and it might help to consider her perspective too. relationships aren't always clear-cut. "we fucked again—maybe it was lust," that line really shows the complex nature of emotions involved. i've been in situations where initial feelings confused me about what was really going on, and it can be tricky to sort out. don't worry, you'll gain clarity in time 😅. focus on what you want moving forward, and things will work out eventually.