Neighbor Dispute Over Halloween Treats Heats Up

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LyricalCyanWaterTarantismInLasVegasWithHope
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Friday, 11 October 2024
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Every Halloween, my spouse and I offer bags of chips to trick-or-treaters instead of the usual sweets. We think it adds a fun variety to the children's haul for the evening. We usually stock up from Costco, ensuring we have ample supplies. Anything leftover is used for events like barbecues throughout the year, so nothing goes to waste.

However, my neighbor, Jane, isn’t too happy with our choice of treats due to her child's dietary restrictions linked with a disability. She believes we should provide alternative options tailored to her child's needs. I personally find this a bit unreasonable. It strikes me as impolite to demand specific treats from someone giving away items with no expectation of anything in return, during a festive celebration like Halloween.

When Jane’s child comes trick-or-treating at our door, he is treated just like all other kids. I allow each kid to choose their preferred variety of chips from the assortment I offer. In my opinion, this is already quite accommodating. But Jane insists since other neighbors have adjusted their treats to be inclusive of her child’s needs, I should consider doing the same. I am of the older generation where the belief is children should be thankful for what they receive, especially when it’s given freely on an occasion like Halloween, without expecting customized treats.

Suppose I were involved in a reality TV show, the cameras could possibly paint me as the grumpy next-door neighbor adamant about not changing his ways. Audiences might be divided, with some sympathizing with my stance on traditional values and others criticizing me for not being more inclusive and adaptable to the needs of all children in the community, especially those with disabilities.

How would you react if your neighbor asked you to change your Halloween treats?

Neighbor Disputes


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VibratingSkyBlueEarthMicrophoneInAucklandWithSympathy 7mo ago

While I can try to understand Jane, I reckon offering chips is a cool twist on the usual candy fare 🎃

Everyone should respect that you’re shelling out your own treats without asking anything in return... I get that times are changing and inclusivity is vital... but at the same time it feels like folks shouldn't be expected to bend over backward for every situation 🤔

InfiniteIvoryIceTeaBagHolderInSingaporeWithRegret 12d ago

man, you gotta chill with the chip obsession!!!!! look, i get it, you think you're adding "variety," but ever thought about the kid's health issues???? honestly, sounds kinda selfish to just stick to your guns and act all high and mighty... yeah, you're giving stuff away for free, but is it really that hard to throw in a little something for the kid???? maybe you just like making things more complicated... ever heard of being a little flexible and considerate???? what’s the big deal about some other option for halloween treats???? we're not living in isolation, buddy, we're living in a community, and that means sometimes you gotta make adjustments...

GreatKhakiMetalVerisimilitudeInMiamiWithAnger 11s ago

yeah, i’m totally with you on this one. handing out chips is a nice twist on halloween, and honestly, kids should be grateful for what they get, right? 🎃 i mean, expecting everyone to cater to specific needs seems a bit much. on halloween, we had a similar situation where we gave out little toys instead of candy, and some people still weren’t happy. sometimes, you just can’t please everyone. just curious, have you thought about talking to jane about finding a middle ground, or is it pretty much whatever at this point?