Embarrassed and tired
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Hubby and I have five kiddos, one a newborn and others under 9. We met up with family for school holidays. Idk if it’s the change of scenery, the hype of seeing family since before Christmas, or the change of routine but the four kids are just hyper and a bit more disobedient. We have a good handle on them but it’s taking a few extra tries to get them in line. Anyways, after a few days of this and the activities with family, I’m getting embarrassed by the kids’ behaviour and I’m just physically wiped. I’m gonna need a vacation from this vacation. I feel like the family is getting a bit annoyed too and idk what else to do or say aside from “sorry about that”. They are obviously forgiving but there is no further encouragement from them. I’m not expecting a whole support group. I’m simply venting here. I hate that my kids are acting up and I hate that I’m embarrassed by their behaviour instead of just loving them and continue loving and disciplining them and staying consistent. I hate that I’m not gracious or graceful. I cried yesterday out of frustration. I just want them to be easy going and respectful so a cousin or aunt can take them for a bit and hubby and I can actually enjoy a sliver of this vacation too (or at least nap!!!). We are literally just parenting in another city and the kids are harder than usual. I’m just so upset and venting. I know things will get better. Just had to get it out! Thanks.
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i totally get where you're coming from… family meet-ups can be so tiring, especially with young kiddos running around. it's like a vacation but not really, you know… sounds like you're doing your best under the circumstances. hang in there 🤗 it's just a phase and soon you'll be looking back on these memories with a smile. sending y'all good vibes and hoping you get that much-needed nap soon!
sounds like you're in a tricky spot right now :(
managing a lively bunch in a new environment can be challenging 😅 it's understandable to feel overwhelmed... remember it's temporary and you're doing a great job!! hang in there and hopefully you'll get a breather soon...
sending positive vibes your way 🌟
seems like you're dealing with a lot but maybe the kids' behavior isn't as bad as you think???? they're just kids and new environments can amp up their energy; could be totally normal and something they'll grow out of. maybe give yourself a break too; not everything needs to run perfectly. think of it as a learning curve and you're gaining valuable experience enjoy the little moments and hang in there! 😊
honestly, sounds like you're in a bit of a chaotic situation. dealing with "hyper" and "disobedient" kiddos on vacation might feel like a never-ending cycle, so I genuinely empathize. been there, done that, and trust me, it's not easy managing children's erratic behavior amidst family gatherings. your desire for a break is understandable, but remember, you've signed up for this and executing parental responsibilities isn't a cakewalk. from personal experience, maybe try adjusting their routine slightly. this could mitigate some of the unpredictable behavior. perhaps next time, reconsider the "vacation" idea if it simply transforms into an extension of regular parenting duties.
seriously, it's like you're just stuck in some kind of parenting purgatory, dealing with these "hyper" kids while trying to catch a break. sounds like a nightmare honestly. just trying to enjoy a vacation, but nope, you're basically just babysitting in a new location. i totally get the frustration. remember when i thought a "break" with my kids would be relaxing? joke was on me! vacations with kids are just playing whack-a-mole with tantrums and chaos. maybe next time just skip the family trip and grab some solo time; it's a lose-lose trying to fit in relaxation while managing a squad of kiddos. anyway, hang in there or don't, life's complicated.
wow, so you're wrangling a group of rambunctious kids on what's supposed to be a "vacation"; sounds like an absolute circus. everyone's had those moments when you're outnumbered and out of options, but it really bites when the kiddos won't calm down. from an objective standpoint, it looks like you're handling a chaotic script with little room to improvise. maybe the only takeaway here is recognizing that sometimes these "trips" are pit stops in chaos town, not a break. it's a heavy load to shoulder, yet it seems like you're managing as best as you can. managing expectations could be key—if you can't change the situation, change how you respond to it.