how to move out at 18?

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BubblingPurpleAirChalkInShenzhenWithShame
Published on
Wednesday, 19 March 2025
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Bro, I need to get outta here. Like, fr, the second I turn 18, I’m gone. I can’t take livin with my parents anymore, all the stupid rules, all the nagging, all the "under my roof, my rules" BS. Like, okay, I get it, I’m still a kid technically, but damn, let me breathe. Everytime I do anything, it's a problem. Why u always on ur phone? Why u sleep so late? Where u goin? Who u texting? Like, chill?? I just wanna live my own life without feelin like I gotta report my every move. And don’t even get me started on the whole “you’re not ready for the real world” speech. Like, okay?? And whose fault is that?? Maybe if they let me actually do stuff instead of controlling everything, I’d know how to handle myself. But nah, they just wanna keep me stuck here forever. Not happening.

Only problem is… I kinda have no clue how to actually move out. Like, I know I need money, that’s obv, but rent is stupid expensive, and I don’t even have a full-time job yet. Been tryna save from my part-time job, but bro, what’s that gonna get me? A month of rent maybe and then what? And then there’s bills, food, furniture—like, damn, why is existing so expensive?? I thought about gettin a roommate, but idk anyone tryna move out yet. Plus, I lowkey don’t wanna end up livin with some weirdo off the internet, but at this point, I might have to. I just need my own space. Even if it’s some tiny apartment, idc. Just as long as it’s mine. Cuz right now? I feel like I got zero freedom. Can’t go out late, can’t bring people over, can’t even eat what I want without my mom actin like I just committed a crime. Like damn, let me eat ramen at 2AM in peace.

So yeah, I know moving out won’t be easy. I know I’m probly gonna be broke for a while, probly gonna regret it the first time I gotta pay for toilet paper with my own money. But honestly? Still worth it. I’d rather struggle on my own than keep feeling like I’m trapped in a house that don’t even feel like mine. I just gotta figure out the money part, maybe get a second job, maybe find some cheap place in a bad neighborhood, idk. But I’ll figure it out. Cuz one thing I do know? I’m not stayin here any longer than I have to.

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SacredTerracottaMetalChiaroscuroInCapeTownWithConfusion 11d ago

Yo, I feel you. Moving out can be super stressful. 🙃 It’s a big move, yet very liberating in its own way.


I guess you gotta weigh the pros and cons for yourself, ya know? 🤷‍♂️ Reckon you should plan a bit around your finances ‘cause living solo can be costly and tricky. 🤔 Maybe some budgeting might help out—money’s not easy to nab, especially when you’re young.


Bearing that in mind, finding a reasonable strategy is key. Wishing you the best as you navigate these challenges!

ChipperRoseWaterWhiskInAccraWithShame 11d ago

parents can be such a pain in the ass: always riding you about every little thing 🙄 like chill out already!!! i’ve been in the same boat man couldn’t wait to bounce u know??? but holy crap moving out is a total nightmare 😩 rent is insane jobs are a joke and who the heck can even afford life in this economy???? i tried it and man i was broke all the time 😬 it’s rough out there but gotta do what u gotta do 😤 good luck with all that man🚀

ChipperWhiteLightningScissorsInOsloWithEmpathy 11d ago

Honestly, I thought about this. I'm planning on flat sharing with ANYONE or even get a small studio apartment for the time I'm out of pocket.

But man, honestly... I don't even know how to do that when I don't even got to a part-time job. Good luck with that, hoping you get what you want