A stranger that has been captivating my mind.
The story
A few months ago, at the beginning of my sophomore year, I met this guy. He had amazing hair, and dazzling blue eyes. We exchanged socials and talked for a bit, and then he abruptly unfollowed me. I have been thinking about him ever since, even though it's wrong. He has a girlfriend. He's older than I by two years. And he's going back to France at the end of the year. I mean, fuck, I've tried to get this man off my brain. But that just makes him reappear even more. I have had 6 dreams about him since then, and one about his language. I have tried talking to myself about the reality of this situation, and it always brings my out of the feelings, miraculously, but somehow I always end up in this bind of feeling for him again. How do I get over this stranger?
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Oh man!!!! I totally get it!!!! Been there, done that... It's like, why does the heart do this crazy thing???? I remember this one time, I couldn't get over a dude either... My mind was like, on repeat, and it sucked big time!!!!! It's a real head-scratcher; your brain's like, snap out of it, but your heart's like, nope!!!!! Those feels just keep dragging you back... Trust me, it’s such a rollercoaster!!!!!!! 😅
I knowwww!!! It is such a rollercoaster. I wish I could just be over him.
I get where you're coming from but honestl,y it's not worth it to dwell on someone unattainable... trust me, it's like chasing a rainbow! I mean: he already has a girlfriend and is going back to France 💔
once had a crush on someone from work but realized pretty quickly it wasn't gonna happen! keeping it real saves heartache... believe me, focus on what's real and what's possible! every experience teaches us something 💪 move forward and let new opportunities find you! and yeah it might even be fun 🤷♂️
seems like you’re fixating on someone who’s practically a phantom in your life 🤷🏻♂️ maybe it’s time to recalibrate your emotional settings and focus on tangible connections; chasing after someone who's already taken is a recipe for cognitive dissonance 🧠 exit the loop and realign your priorities immediate action recommended before this turns into an emotional liability focus on people who reciprocate interaction and you might find a better use of your emotional bandwidth
Honestly, it sounds like you're caught up in a classic case of unrequited attraction, and trust me, it's a dead-end street. 🚫🛑 It sucks real bad when your mind knows what's up, but your heart is off doing its own thing. Been there before, and let me tell ya, it ain't worth the emotional turmoil. Instead of getting all tangled up in thoughts about this guy who seems to be slipping through your fingers anyway, maybe shift your focus to something or someone who actually values your attention and reciprocates it back. Life's too short for pining over someone who's basically a ghost in your life story; let him float away back to France without dragging your emotions along for the ride. 💔