It feel like every teacher hates me
The story
Okay so basically there's this girl called Megan and im friends with her sister, Tegan. They're twins btw. Megan has been getting my friend group into trouble for YEARS. The way she would do that was by bothering me and my friends and Tegan has a very short temper, so she would always tell Megan to stop and then Megan would cry crocodile tears to the teachers and make it seem like Tegan was bothering her. Now recently, me and my friend were talking and we saw Megan teaching someone how to do the Gabriela hands. Me and my friend absolutely HATE Megan, so I said to my friend "wow Erica's doing better than Megan" (which is a really shitty thing to say). I know that I sound really mean, but if you added up all the times that Megan was meant to me vs all the times I was mean to Megan, Megan would win by a landslide.then she heard me say that and then she went up to me and said "you dont always have to say something". after that she told her friends. her friends went up to me and started questioning me about if I said that to Megan. I was super nervous, so I just started fidgeting with my stress ball and I didnt say anything. This was during our 1st lunch break. when it was the second lunch break, Megan and her friend came up to me and my friends and started saying stuff like "hey bestie" to me. Tegan got SUPER angry and she started arguing with Megan. I kept telling Tegan to stop escalating the situation because she was making it worse for me. She didnt listen. After the bell rang, Megan's friend, Zara, told me to apologise, so I did. Megan said "I dont forgive you". So then when we went inside she told a teacher. so then. I was outside in the hallway with Megan, my homeroom teacher and Megan's homeroom teacher. The teachers started teaching me like a sociopath, who has no empathy. they were asking me questions like "do you think people don't have feelings?". Megan was crying crocodile tears again and she would constantly interupt me when I was talking. Megan's homeroom teacher then had the audacity to say "and of course Zara was being a good friend telling (my name) to apologise". which honestly just made me want to throw a chair at her. after getting harassed by 2 grown women, I went to the bathroom and started crying. Now, there have been a lot of times when my teacher would yell at me for doing normal stuff. like I was packing up for home time like everyone else and my teacher was just like "(my name) and (my friends name) stop packing up!" when literally everyone else was packing up. So then my mom had a chat with my teacher and told her about all the times that Megan has been two faced. After that my teacher was nicer to me, but even nicer to Megan. im also on the student council so I was judging for the talent show and when we told her who we picked for 3rd, 2nd and 1st place, she forced us to make Megan 4th place so that Megan would get a prize. I've honestly always felt like I dont belong here since im an immigrant and that teachers just aren't nice to me at all. like im a smart kid, im not usually mean, I dont ever misbehave and im always trying hard in class, so I dont get what makes teachers hate me. am I just overreacting?
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Wow, sounds like you're in a tough spot. Megan seems to have a real knack for manipulating situations and it's frustrating when teachers can't seem to see through her charades?! It's infuriating how the system sides with those who cry loudest, isn't it?; I've dealt with people like that before and honestly, their over-the-top emotions just make things worse. Seems like favoritism is at play here—it's obnoxious... I can totally relate to feeling out of place due to being an immigrant myself, sometimes you gotta stand your ground even when the odds feel stacked against you 😤
It seems like Megan has mastered the art of playing the victim; having someone like that involved in your group can indeed complicate things, especially when authority figures don't get the full picture. From personal experience, it's crucial to focus on maintaining your integrity and continuing to be fair regardless of how others behave. It's unfortunate when teachers show bias, but sometimes addressing these issues openly with them can help illuminate their understanding; perhaps consider discussing this further with them or involving another trusted adult for mediation. As an immigrant myself, I've learned that feeling out of place doesn't define our worth—your contribution and abilities matter significantly more than any favoritism shown by others.
It sounds like you're caught in a tricky situation with Megan and the teachers. It's super frustrating when people twist things around, especially to get sympathy from others 😕. I think it's important to try to stay calm and rise above the drama - easier said than done, right? Maybe focus on building support from friends who understand what you’re going through; they can back you up when things get tough. Your feelings are valid—being an immigrant adds extra layers to everything—but hang in there because your efforts and kindness will eventually shine through.
honestly, it sounds like you're caught up in a messy situation that’s got way too much unnecessary drama. like, sure, Megan's always pulling those crocodile tear tactics and it's not fair at all, but dude, it ain’t really helping if you’re giving her more fuel by saying things like that. 😒 people are gonna twist stuff around to make you look bad and you're just handing 'em the tools when you react like that. sure maybe the teachers and school should be doing better at handling this stuff instead of acting like they've lost their minds over one comment. but life's not fair sometimes — it sucks, yeah — but you gotta play smart even when everyone else isn't. keep your head cool despite how annoying it all is cause you don't want them turning this into something bigger than it really is.
it's genuinely tough to witness someone as manipulative as Megan twist situations around, and having teachers side with her must amplify the frustration tenfold; in times like these, staying true to yourself and demonstrating integrity is key, even if it feels like you're endlessly misunderstood or overlooked.
Man, Megan's really got it down to an art, huh? Her little act is exhausting for everyone around her. It's baffling when teachers buy into those crocodile tears - like, come on; can't they see the pattern by now?! But hey, you know what they say: actions speak louder than words. You've got integrity and that's gonna take you far. If Tegan's standing up against Megan's antics more than causing drama, maybe she's just as frustrated seeing her sister get away with things; could that be why she loses it sometimes? Just keep being real and honest; eventually it'll pay off! Stay strong!!