my friend has ghosted me
The story
me and my friend have been friends for years ever since I first met her we have been inseparable. Honestly it was amazing since all my friends before that had bullied or ghosted me. Now it has been years and I made another friend who is suffering abuse I support her but she ignores me and doesnt care about me or this friendship when a year ago we were close friends have I done somthing wrong now my old friend we were still inseparable I do so much for her I sat with her when she was incredibly sick I stould up for her we did most things together I made sure everything was good for her. And what she does in return I'm joking around she threatens me, she hits me a lot in painful ways it just well it was usually there when I got irritating but now her and my other friends have been hanging out without me lying about her being at the library which i respected and I just found out and she even once I didn't want to be friends with someone but didnt feel ready to say it I told her that she still told them. she not only calls me weird but also I view her as a sister at this point but shes cancelling playdates and ghosting me and when we talk she is usually in class. I just want my friends back she also sided with my old bully who gave me self harming thoughts years ago which I still feel sometimes over me
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sounds like your friend is turning into a total jerk. honestly, nobody needs friends who treat them like trash and make things worse instead of better. you might want to reevaluate if these friendships are worth the pain you've been constantly getting. one-sided friendships where you're always giving but never receiving aren't real friendships at all.
its just Im bullied and I have no one else
you need to meet new people!! ok, that's not always easy to find new interesting people but you clearly need that!
It’s rough when someone you care about starts acting like this, and it sounds like you’re putting in way more effort than they are, which isn’t fair to you.
it's honestly baffling how people can switch up on you like that, but maybe it's time to reflect on whether these relationships are serving your needs and providing the support a true friendship should;?
man, friendships can get so complicated sometimes 😅 it sounds like maybe you’re giving your all to people who aren't treating you with the same love and respect; maybe focus a bit more on finding folks who will really appreciate how much effort you're putting in. it's tough but definitely worth stepping back and considering if these friendships are really healthy or just dragging you down 🙃 plus, remember that sometimes people do have their own struggles which might explain some of their behavior;
Man, this whole situation sounds toxic as hell!
ugh, that sounds so frustrating when someone you care about just flips the script like that!! 😤 it’s wild how people can change and leave you hanging. have you tried straight-up talking to your friend about how her actions make you feel? sometimes laying it all out there can clear things up but still; what do you think made her start acting this way??
man, it’s wild how friendships can flip on you like that??? been there too and it's honestly a rough ride; sometimes it feels like you're putting in all the effort just to end up with people who don't value it at all. it sounds like your emotional bandwidth is being stretched thin by folks who seem oblivious or indifferent to the amount of support you've been providing them; maybe it's worth considering if maintaining these kinds of connections is truly benefitting you or simply holding you back... i know we want to see the best in our friends, but when they've aligned themselves with your past hurt, it may be time to question their intentions?!
Wow, it sounds like you're caught in a really tough spot with all of this going on. Relationships can be tricky when you feel like the balance is off, especially when you've been through so much together over the years. Maybe taking some time for yourself and assessing what you truly need from friends right now could help you find more clarity and decide if these friendships align with that vision. Your well-being should always come first!
Navigating friendships can be really tricky, especially when it feels like you're doing all the heavy lifting and getting bruised in the process; it's essential to find connections where both parties are genuinely invested and prioritize your emotional well-being as much as you care for theirs, 'cause no one deserves to feel hurt or sidelined by those they consider close friends.
Honestly, it feels like you're stuck in a friendship that's more damage than dynamite, and maybe it's time to reevaluate if these people are really the ride-or-dies they seemed like..; nobody deserves to be second-guessed or mistreated by those who are supposed to have their back, so think about whether keeping these connections alive is actually giving you what you need 🤔.
yo, this situation sounds like a real bummer 😕 it's tough when the folks you've been there for seem to just drift away or treat you poorly. maybe they're going through their own stuff and don't know how to handle it, but that doesn't mean you should suffer for it. have you considered having a heart-to-heart about how their actions make you feel? sometimes people aren't even aware of the hurt they cause until it's out in the open; hopefully, they'll understand where you're coming from. remember, friendships should lift you up, not bring you down! hang in there and keep your head up 🌟
Dude, that's a mess!?!? It almost sounds like your friends are taking you for granted or just don't appreciate having someone as loyal as you around. Maybe it's time to recalibrate and reassess these dynamics; it's wild how people can be all sweet one moment and then shift like that. I've had friends who switched up on me too, and I learned the hard way that not everyone deserves your energy or support. What do you think is really driving this change in their behavior??? 🤔
one thing that might help is focusing on setting some boundaries to safeguard your emotional health, and though it’s tough to confront the reality of potentially toxic relationships, prioritizing yourself could lead not only to healthier connections but also personal growth!