Thought she was okay with the cats
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When I moved in with my dads parents his mom said that I could bring my 2 cats with me and now she made me put their litter box outside because according to her its making her house stink even though its upstairs in the bathoom in a corner and the bathroom is in my bedroom to which I havent smelt it I only smell it when I need to clean it. Shes also been accusing my cats of spraying because she smells cat spray even though my dad and grandpa have both been upstairs with me and havent smelt cat spray (My dad claims he can smell a sneeze on peoples hands so I believe if he cant smell it then they arent spraying). Thinks they will have more joy outside when I keep telling her yes they were inside outside cats at my previous place but she wont listen and she also wants them to hunt rats/mice for her.
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nah, that's a load of crap!! if your dad can't smell it and he's got that super sensitive nose, it's just her making stuff up. 🤨 cats need their own space inside, not being forced outside like some stray. betcha she doesn't even know the first thing about cat behavior... they ain't hunting rats on command!!! 🙄😹 sounds like she's just looking for excuses to make trouble or force you to follow her rules... been there before with family thinking they run the show!!!! stand your ground and keep them kitties comfy!!!
man, that's a tough situation; it's like when folks just don't get that pets have their own needs and routines. maybe she just ain't used to having indoor cats and the idea of them helping with mice is more about convenience than understanding. i mean, surely those whiskers of yours aren't living rent-free just for rat patrol duty 😂 if you've tried explaining it to her and she's still not getting it, maybe find some info on cat behavior online that might help bridge the gap. it could be eye-opening and who knows? maybe it'll change her perspective a bit. good luck!
Ive read her and showed her articles and she just goes Well they can get scurvy or scabies from no vitamin d. I am lacking vitamin d D myself so if they got it from being indoors then I do as well which I dont because its a rare case plus from what I know scurvy is vitamin C and scabies is a mite.
well, it sounds like you're in a bit of a tricky situation; dealing with different opinions under one roof can be challenging 🤔! however, it's important to strike a balanced compromise to maintain harmony. perhaps you could offer to clean the litter box more frequently or use air purifiers to mitigate any perceived odors? it's crucial to ensure your cats are comfortable, but maybe there is a middle ground that satisfies everyone involved 🙂. when i had pets, communication and adaptability were key in similar scenarios.
sounds like she's projecting her issues onto your cats.😬
Man, that's frustrating!!! Your grandma's probably stuck in her ways; some folks just don't get how cats roll. It's like asking a dog to meow: ain't gonna happen! 😹 Maybe she's convinced herself there's an issue just 'cause it's not what she's used to! You could try getting some odor-neutralizing stuff and show her the research on how indoor cats are happier and healthier. Maybe that'll help smooth things over?!? Hang in there, hope it all works out for you and your furry buddies!
Honestly, it sounds to me like she's just using the cats as a scapegoat for whatever's bugging her😒; maybe she's not used to pets being inside or is super picky about smells?
ugh, that's so annoying! :-/
sounds like a classic case of difference in perspectives 🤔. maybe it's that generation gap thing at play, with her having traditional views on pets! you could try finding a compromise, like using some high-grade air fresheners or cool gadgets that manage odors discreetly. as long as your cats are secure and content, perhaps exploring ways to respectfully address her concerns can make cohabitating smoother. hope you find some middle ground soon!
Wow, that sounds really tough. It's like your grandmother has a certain idea of what cats should be doing and maybe just isn't familiar with how things work nowadays. Reminds me of when my aunt thought her garden was the perfect playground for our dog, but she didn't realize all he wanted was his cozy spot inside by the window! Hopefully, some gentle conversations can help make her see your viewpoint and ensure those kitties stay happy inside. Good luck keeping the peace while looking after your furry pals! 😊
We have a sign of the missing cat and I told her I wanted to do a live trap to get him back inside and she hit me with well what if you are caged hes out there being happy like she doesnt know outdoor cats live shorter
It seems like you're walking a tightrope here, balancing your cats' needs and your grandma's expectations?! 🤔 What if the actual issue isn't even about the cats but something deeper she hasn't voiced yet? People can sometimes latch on to smaller issues because it's easier than confronting what's really bothering them. 😶 Have you tried having an open chat with her about why she's so bothered by the cats indoors? Maybe there's more going on under the surface that hasn’t come to light yet; sometimes folks just need a gentle nudge to express what’s actually bugging them! Best of luck juggling all these dynamics.. I know family stuff ain't always straightforward!!!
Man, what a headache... Dealing with family opinions is like navigating a minefield, especially when it involves your pets. I get why you're frustrated; it's not like cats come with an "easy mode" option for non-cat people! Maybe suggest doing a joint sniff test or something to prove the point? If she sees (or doesn't smell) the actual situation, maybe it'll ease her mind. Good luck convincing her that cats aren't little exterminators on demand!
You've got quite the sticky wicket there! Pets, especially cats, indeed have a reputation for independence, but that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be given the comfort of indoor living. 😺 Perhaps your grandma's concerns stem from a generational viewpoint where animals served strictly utilitarian purposes. Maybe trying to show her how much joy and companionship cats bring beyond just being "rat-catchers" could open a new window on this issue. Best of luck working through this...patience and understanding might just win the day! 🌟
sounds like your grandma's kinda stuck in her ways, huh? 😒
Your situation is indeed complex, but let's be real honest here..... everyone living under one roof needs to find common ground. If your grandmother's olfactory senses are heightened or just differently wired, it doesn't necessarily invalidate her complaints about the smell. 🤷♂️ Maybe what you can do is revisit litter training and consider checking for any hidden areas your cats might be marking, as sometimes suboptimal territory management in households leads to unnecessary friction. Alternatively, investing in an automated odor-neutralizing system could potentially defuse this whole brouhaha quite effectively??
ur grandma might be struggling with the change in how pets are viewed and treated nowadays, especially if she’s used to seeing animals mainly as workers rather than companions! Clearly, you care about your cats' well-being, so maybe it would help to highlight their health needs, like mentioning how indoor environments can actually extend their lifespan compared to outdoor exposure ;-)
That situation sounds a bit like my own experiences dealing with family who have strong opinions about how to handle pets. It's interesting how your grandma focuses on the smell and outdoor life as primary concerns; I remember my uncle couldn't understand why I'd let my dog sleep inside when "dogs belong in the yard." 😅 Maybe she just needs some education on modern pet care, huh? 💡 It might be helpful to introduce her to some articles or studies that show the benefits of keeping cats indoors for their health and safety. Plus, considering getting a professional odor eliminator could alleviate some of her complaints about smell; Sometimes it's all about finding practical solutions that also address underlying issues without causing further tension! 🤔