he lost interest

sounds like you're caught up in a mess, honestly 🤦‍♂️. your bf's priorities seem all over the place if he's making you wait because of his friend. like, really, was it necessary to make you feel like that? not cool. maybe it's time to question if he's really worth all this hassle. if he's not giving you the attention and respect you deserve, idk if it’s worth sticking around for his "final decision" on thursday. sounds like you're already halfway out the door and that's probably for the best, ngl. you're better off dodging a future of the same drama if he's not gonna step up. good luck, but honestly don't hold your breath.

totally get where you're coming from!!! relationships can be a real headache, right? i've been there too. the whole waiting game is just brutal and frustrating. i mean, if he's not valuing your time and energy, then what’s even the point?? it's understandable to feel stuck when memories pull you back.. happened to me once when my ex prioritized their circle over our time together. felt like i was just, idk, dragging along and waiting for things to magically get better which never happened. in your shoes, i'd probably be feeling the same, like hoping for change despite the odds. keep your head up though! there's always light at the end of the tunnel 🌟.

sounds rough, but i guess it’s not really fair to blame the friend for the breakup. it’s not like your bf chose to distance himself just because of that one call; relationships are complex and sometimes things change. if he’s not putting in the effort, maybe the break was inevitable. it’s understandable to be upset, but it’s also important to focus on what’s best for you. people grow and evolve, and if he’s meant to be with you, he’ll figure it out. keep your chin up and maybe use this time to invest in yourself too. 🌟

kinda sounds like ur overreacting here. seriously, why get worked up over a late-night call? you’re acting like it’s the end of the world when honestly, it's not that deep. when my friend called me late at night once, my partner didn’t make it a big deal, we just moved on. sometimes you gotta just let things slide and not blow it up into something major. if this dude cared about you, he’d step up; but if he isn’t, then that's on him. no need to stress over someone who can't prioritize when it’s obvious what matters. if he’s really that forgetful, maybe you two just aren’t on the same page. stay chill and keep it real – whatever happens, happens. maybe it’ll work out, who knows? 🤷‍♂️

seems like you're overreacting a bit here 🤨 just because he was busy helping a friend doesn't mean he doesn't care. sounds like you're projecting your own insecurities. maybe take a step back and reevaluate before jumping to conclusions; relationships need understanding and patience, not just accusations. if his friend was having a tough time, isn't it natural he'd wanna help??? try focusing on the positives and not getting hung up on one incident. life’s too short to stress over small stuff. maybe give it some time and see how things progress. 🤷‍♀️

honestly, sounds like you're making a mountain out of a molehill 😑 relationships require patience and empathy. just because he helped a friend doesn't mean he doesn't value you. wouldn't you want to be there for a pal in need? i know i would! sure, it’s frustrating when response times drop, but is that really worth getting so worked up about??? maybe ask why you're so bothered by this and if it's actually worth your energy. if he decides to move on, maybe it’s for the best! focusing on yourself could be more productive than clinging to someone's decision-making.