I need help on my relationship
The story
So me and my girlfriend have been dating for around 10 months now and at first we were the typical couple holding hands and stuff but over the past few weeks she's become overly obsessive and she's been wanting tabs on me everywhere I go and she wants me to always be with her and when I'm not with her she tries to ruin my day by saying she's been crying and stuff which makes me feel bad so I leave what I'm doing with friends to go to her. Overall this has just made me lose friends and made me spiral into a depression and I don't know what to do about it.
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sounds like you're dealing with a classic case of codependency, where one partner relies excessively on the other for emotional support and validation. it's understandable that her behavior is affecting your mental health and social life!!
you might want to consider having an open conversation about boundaries and how important it is for both of you to have personal space 😊
sometimes people don't realize how their actions are impacting others until it's gently pointed out to them, and establishing some healthy distance could prevent further strain on your relationship while also allowing each of you to grow individually!