I think he's doing it on purpose

wow, that's kinda messed up.. relationships should be a safe space, especially when dealing with something as complex as trauma-related hypersexuality while identifying as asexual... consent should always be paramount!! you deserve a partner who respects that and doesn’t manipulate triggers for personal gain!!! you gotta have boundaries and maybe explore some "behavioral interventions" or "cognitive restructuring" if he’s not getting it... hope you guys can have an open convo about it & he learns to respect your feelings more... keep your chin up & remember you're not alone in this!!

totally feel for you in this situation; it's really tough dealing with hypersexuality from past trauma while being ace; kinda sounds like your boyfriend might be triggering your stress response for his own benefit, and that's not cool. consent and trust are so crucial in any relationship. maybe it's time to set clear boundaries and consider some strategies like cognitive-behavioral therapy to help. hope you both can talk it out and find a way to move forward positively.

hey, i hear you, and it sounds like a tricky situation you're in. it’s genuinely concerning when past traumas intersect with present relationships and lead to hypersexuality, while still identifying as asexual; kinda feels like a double-edged sword. it's troubling to think your boyfriend might be exploiting your stress response for his own advantage, especially when trust and mutual understanding should be a foundational aspect of any relationship. maybe exploring "trauma-informed therapeutic approaches" or "emotional regulation strategies" could help navigate this complex dynamic? it's hard not to feel doubtful about someone's intentions in such situations, and you deserve a partner who respects both your boundaries and your emotional landscape. hope you can find a way to communicate and create a healthier environment for yourself. 🌀