Why is he lying?

if you feel as though your relationship can no longer work, you should get a divorce. you have all this evidence, so you can show proof he's cheating even if he denies it.

man, that's rough. first off, dude's probably in denial or thinkin' he's gonna Houdini his way outta this mess, like magically gettin' you to believe him 😂 some guys just can’t handle the reality of their actions and would rather ride that lie train till it derails completely. it's wild tho, how they think you're just gonna ignore all the glaring red flags like it's a game of "guess who" when you've already pieced it all together! i had a friend dealing with something similar and she eventually realized that sometimes they keep lying because they're scared of facing what they've done or losing everything once it's all out in the open. either way, you deserve better than playing detective 24/7—it's exhausting! maybe time to lay down some ultimatums if he can't come clean? gotta look after yourself too, ya know? 🤷‍♂️

Honestly, sounds like your husband’s living in his own little fantasy world if he thinks you’ll keep buying his crap. It's really shitty to be lied to when you've got all the receipts right there. 🤦‍♂️ Maybe he's hoping you'll just give up and drop it? Either way, you deserve better than being treated like a fool, plain and simple.

what's the point of lying when he's already busted??!

oh dear... it sounds like you're stuck in quite a challenging situation!!! questioning why he's still lying is valid, but have you ever thought about what kind of emotional turmoil he might be experiencing?? i once knew someone who couldn't face their wrongdoing because admitting it would force them to confront deeper issues within themselves—it's almost like they can't bear the weight of consequences so denial becomes their refuge. this doesn't make his actions okay or justified though! your feelings here are completely valid and understandable; it's draining to constantly feel like you're playing detective.... maybe it's worth considering if there's a fear of losing control or perhaps an inability to deal with the aftermath that fuels his deception??? either way, you deserve clarity and honesty—anything less can really take its toll on one's well-being.

honestly, it seems like he's caught in a web of his own making and doesn't know how to untangle himself; i get that lying is sometimes a default reaction for people when they're trying to avoid confrontation or consequences, but come on, there's only so far you can stretch the truth before it snaps back. have you thought about seeing if he might be open to talking through things with a couples therapist? maybe having a neutral party could help him face reality; i once knew someone who was in a similar situation and after some sessions, they managed to at least find some common ground for communication—even if things didn't work out in the end. it's not easy being both judge and jury all the time—and you're right, transparency should just be the bare minimum

what a jerk...

it's tough when you're faced with undeniable proof, yet he's still trying to spin a different tale. maybe there's a mix of guilt and fear at play here—sometimes people can't reconcile their actions with the image they have of themselves, so they double down rather than face reality. 🤔 perhaps it's time to question if this cycle is something you're willing to endure?? ultimately, you deserve transparency and respect... no one should have to live in constant doubt.

It is perplexing when someone adheres to falsehoods despite incontrovertible evidence; perhaps this reflects a profound internal struggle or a lack of readiness to confront the truth. His persistent denial might be a misguided attempt at self-preservation, yet this inadvertently erodes trust further; have you considered setting firm boundaries that prioritize your emotional well-being? It may compel him to genuinely reflect on his actions and their repercussions.