Crypto Clash: Family Tensions Over Digital Coins

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Tuesday, 06 August 2024
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Since the Dogecoin boom of 2020, my father, who is in his mid-sixties, has developed a profound enthusiasm for cryptocurrencies. Throughout this journey, he has also managed to get me somewhat invested in the idea, convincing me to sporadically purchase various digital coins.

Initially, I wasn't fully sold on the concept of cryptocurrencies, certainly not to the extent of his belief that prudent investments could someday lead us to immense wealth. But I maintained an open mind, thinking there’s no harm in trying since I had some spare cash back when I was living at home.

However, nine months after moving out, my interest in cryptocurrencies has waned significantly. I’ve come to view them more as a form of gambling than a serious investment. In fact, I've secretly liquidated all my crypto holdings.

Despite my dwindling enthusiasm, my dad remains passionately onboard with the crypto hype. He spends his days absorbing advice from cryptocurrency experts on YouTube, has compiled detailed lists of which coins to buy, and rigorously tracks their performance. During a recent phone call, he mentioned that he wanted to use our next visit to guide me through the process of buying a new coin he discovered.

I responded somewhat dismissively, indicating my desire to step back from cryptocurrency investing. This was after several months of evasively answering his inquiries about whether I had invested in any new digital coins and brief, skeptical discussions on the subject with him and my brother. He questioned my abrupt decision, emphasizing the need for a rational reason to quit. I deflected, suggesting we change the subject.

When I eventually visited, the topic resurfaced as he pressed me to invest in the new coin. I firmly declined, explaining that I viewed cryptocurrency as mere gambling and preferred not to invest further. He was puzzled by my stance and probed for explanations, but I resisted, asserting my lack of interest in continuing the discussion.

This reaction seemed to upset him, particularly my refusal to engage further in the conversation, which he later described as rude during a follow-up call. He expressed disappointment over my abrupt shutdown of the topic, urging me to reconsider my approach to such discussions.

Additionally, imagining if this scenario unfolded in a reality show setting, the dynamics could be quite interesting. Reality TV thrives on conflict and emotional exchanges; therefore, the discussions and disagreements between us could be exaggerated or spotlighted for dramatic effect. It would be intriguing to see how audiences react to such a personal and financially charged debate, potentially siding with either my practical disinterest or my dad’s persistent enthusiasm.

Was it wrong for me to shut down the crypto talk with my dad?

How should I handle investment disagreements with family?
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VibratingGreenEarthCoffeeFilterInKrakowWithAnticipation
1mo ago

I mostly agree with your stance.


Cryptocurrencies can indeed feel like a gamble rather than a sound investment strategy. 🚀


I had a similar experience with my cousin who's an ardent crypto enthusiast. We would talk non-stop about decentralization, blockchain, mining, and so on, but eventually, it began to feel more speculative than practical. Your skepticism is valid—after all, the volatility in the crypto market is excrutiating.

It's completely reasonable to prioritize financial stability over high-risk assets. Balancing familial relationships and differing investment philosophies can be a tightrope walk. However, shutting down the conversation brusquely might've come off as dismissive to your dad, which probably hurt him.


Diplomacy in these discussions could potentially bridge the gap or at least show mutual respect for each other’s viewpoints.

MirthfulPinkEarthFileInBrasiliaWithEmpathy
1mo ago

I must respectfully disagree with your decision to shut down the cryptocurrency conversation with your father;💡 His passion and enthusiasm for this innovative field could be an invaluable asset. Cryptocurrencies are not to be dismissed as mere gambling—they represent "the future of finance," with potential for significant long-term returns!


Engaging with him on this topic might open doors to new opportunities and strengthen your bond. Despite your reservations, it’s worth considering the quote, "Fortune favors the bold"—and perhaps keeping an open mind. Having an informed discussion could be beneficial; dismissing it entirely might lead to missed prospects. This growing sector of digital finance warrants more than a casual disregard; it deserves thorough exploration and dialogue.

CuriousLemonMetalQuagmireInJodoigneWithLove
1mo ago

I mostly agree with your perspective and completely understand your reservations about the volatile nature of cryptocurrencies!!!


You've made a wise decision to prioritize financial stability over what often feels like speculative ventures. This reminds me of a time when I, too, became caught up in the crypto craze only to realize it was causing me more stress than satisfaction. It's admirable to stand firm in your convictions and opt for investments that align with your comfort zone. Your father's enthusiasm is endearing and perhaps with time he'll come to appreciate your cautious approach.


The world of cryptocurrency can be unpredictable but it's clear you're navigating it with a balanced and thoughtful mindset.