Am I fucked up?
The story
Tbh there isn’t much of a story, more needing to take things off my back. If at any moment u feel uncomfortable just stop reading and do or go somewhere else. Well… ig here it is.. I hate myself, Ik it’s a thing that most ppl say or think but for everyone it’s different I think. I hate everything about myself, but I think I mostly hate the fact that I’m gay, masc, and fat. I go against everything. I feel like everything’s been going for the worst but I don’t want to stop, I just act like it so the ppl who care don’t help me as much. But I didn’t lie, I don’t want to not to stop, I like the feeling of anything bad really. Ik it sounds bad but it isn’t I swear. I think for once my dad is right.. maybe being gay is a disease after all, I mean I was happier when I was young and identified as straight, I didn’t worry if anyone thought I was a wannabe boy or if every girl friend I have thinks I immediately like them just because I say I’m gay. I think that’s way I started doing what I am, started to slowly just not eat. It started little, just skipping lunch at school, then not eating anything in the morning or at lunch at school, then after a year of that the pain went away and I didn’t really weight wise, I didn’t have stomach pains anymore. I felt empty. I felt.. feel out of control. Then fast forward this December it went from normal to really good, I didn’t care what my mom felt for me eating less then 100-300 calories for about 3-4 days on end. I remember them, it was a dream and if I had a choice I’d do again, I don’t regret it. I think I lost about 3kgs in that span or maybe more idk. Anyways now im 77kgs still losing. I was about 86kg im mid November or maybe a bit lower. And if I could say anything about how it’s been I’d say it’s addicting. The scale, I mean Idrc anymore if I do or don’t have muscle anymore. Idk what’s so addicting about the scale but it is, I don’t even really care to eat at this point, I just do it because I have to live and so my mom doesn’t call a therapist for me or smth like that. But that isn’t what I wanted to say, what I wanted to say is that these are the few but main reasons why I hate myself and I think it’s the minimum at the very least. So ig my question is, does anyone feel the same? Am I as fucked up as I seen to be?. I wish u all are okay and happy. Good morning, good afternoon, good night
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Hey, thanks for sharing all that. I totally get where you're coming from—feeling at odds with yourself is super tough. Honestly, it’s normal to feel out of control and struggle with who you are at times. Just remember, hating parts of yourself doesn't mean you can't slowly learn to accept them over time. You're definitely not alone in feeling this way, and reaching out here already shows strength. Hope things start looking up for you soon! 😊
It's deeply concerning to hear how you're feeling, particularly the notion that being gay is a "disease"!! This mindset is both troubling and scientifically unfounded. It's crucial to acknowledge that self-hatred and your eating patterns are undoubtedly destructive. While I understand the allure of control through weight loss, this path can lead to severe health repercussions—both physically and mentally. Speaking from experience, finding someone who respects you for who you are can be transformative. Consider reaching out for professional help—not out of weakness but because it's an act of courage.
Remember, authenticity should never feel burdensome or isolating!! 🌈