Am I in the wrong?
The story
I wanted to put some money in my bank account because I had a phone bill due and my bank account was getting low my job is biweekly pay anyway I asked my grandma if she wanted to go with me which then turned into her questioning me on what I spent the money on ect questions along those lines and she also grounded me from my debit card. Im nearing 25 in october and I did buy some games with my own money which is why my bank account was low but my brother is allowed to buy whatever and get away with it so I thought I would be up front and honest only to be sent into a lecture over how Im a grown women and I dont need stupid things. Im not sure if Im in the wrong for being mad and wanting freedom or if my grandmother is right.
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It sounds like a really frustrating situation, and it's understandable to want to spend your money on things you enjoy without getting grilled for it!! But maybe try looking at it from another angle: perhaps your grandma's concern stems from wanting to teach you some financial discipline? Balancing personal freedom with responsible spending is tough, especially when different family members have different standards. It's worth having an open conversation with her about setting clear boundaries as an adult and finding common ground on managing finances. It might help to share some of your goals or plans so she sees that you're thinking ahead too.
Honestly, it sounds like grandma's going a bit overboard; you're old enough to make your own spending choices, and it's pretty frustrating when family treats you like a child for buying stuff with your hard-earned cash, especially when others get a free pass.
seriously??? at 25, you shouldn't be giving that kind of control over your finances to anyone, not even family. you're an adult! 🙄 i get wanting to involve grandma in your life but she doesn't need a say in every little purchase. maybe consider setting boundaries or getting advice on managing expenses if it's about financial stability. and hey, it’s okay to enjoy some gaming without feeling guilty!!
Shes closing my account now and Im afriad she will ask what else Ive spent on