CAUGHT BEING IN A RS
The story
So I am a 12th grade student. I am 17 and my bf is 19. He was my senior. And everyone in my school are jealous of my relationship. Our receptionist told my mom that I am going out with him. My mom didn't believe her much but one day she doubted that I may have something, so they unlocked my phone with my fingerprint when I was sleeping and checked everything. The chats, the photos. It became a big issue pretty soon and both our families talked and asked us to end it. Their main problem was not our age but that we belonged to different castes. Soon he got sent to a hostel and I stayed back in our city as I am still in my highschool. Everytime I go out, my parents doubt that I may meet someone, not him, but maybe someone else. As if I am a slut who maintains a new guy every month. And the girl who got rejected by my bf along with her chapri gang started spreading rumours that me and him slept together. That bitch even told my teachers the same. And damaged my reputation. I got sick and she wished I would die. And now she comes showing false concern. And from the moment this issue happened, I lost interest in my studies and basically everything. From straight A's student to someone who barely gets pass marks. Boards are 10 days away and all I want to do is cry and sleep, or die. The torture is just too much
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Hey!
I totally get what you're going through. Sounds really tough. 😔 Reminds me of my own high school drama when rumors spread faster than wildfire. It's crazy how people can just mix stories and create narratives... Maybe focus on your mental bandwidth: try to keep calm, reinvent yourself, and don’t let folks bring you down. Channel that stress into your studies. It might sound clichéd, but it worked for me.
I hope you find the strenght to rise above it all. Hope things turn better for you!!! 😘
"unlocked my phone with my fingerprint"... that's a sneaky move... 😯
it's truly appalling how some individuals derive satisfaction from meddling in others' personal affairs. i completely resonate with your predicament. reminds me of the adage, "people ruin what they don't understand." the audacity of that receptionist and the malicious intent of your peers reflect a lack of maturity and empathy... honestly, familial intrusion under the guise of concern is infuriating; my own experiences have taught me that boundaries must be respected. the societal fixation on caste, rather than genuine interpersonal connections, is archaic and detrimental. it's disheartening to witness educational performance plummet due to unwarranted stress and gossip. i hope you find the resolve to navigate through this tumultuous phase and emerge with your dignity intact. 😑
wow, that sounds really intense and frustrating 😟 i totally agree with you; people can be so quick to judge and spread false rumors without any idea of the harm they cause. it's really disappointing that your privacy was invaded like that, especially by those who should trust and support you. it must be hard focusing on your studies with all this going on. the pressure from both family and peers is honestly too much; i hope you find a way to stay strong and get through your exams. don't let them get to you, and hang in there 🤞.
I understand your frustration, but perhaps it's essential to consider other perspectives as well. Maintaining privacy is important, yet family often acts out of concern. The situation with your peers spreading rumors is indeed unfortunate; however, addressing these issues calmly and directly may lead to resolution. I've found in my own experiences that sometimes we need to reflect on our actions too. It's easy to get overwhelmed, but focusing on your studies might help redirect your energy. Remember, navigating complex social dynamics can be challenging, but it's crucial to stay grounded and resilient. Stay strong, and take it one step at a time 🙂.
hey, that sounds really rough, and i completely get where you're coming from. it’s like they say, "walk a mile in someone’s shoes," right? can’t believe the hassle you're dealing with just 'cause of some outdated views. feel like privacy's not being respected at all. family should have your back, not stir the pot more. it’s tough when your reputation takes a hit like that, no one deserves rumors like that getting spread. hope you're hanging in there and things start looking up soon.