Hair stuff
The story
Hi. I know this is all my fault I'm completely aware. but I just wanna vent because it feels suffocating.
I was stupid enough to not brush my hair for 3 months. Just keeping it in a hood all winter because I was so tired I couldn't take care of myself
Now it's so matted I'm scared to see how bad it is.
I'm scared of how my dad will react if he knew, he told me if my hair was tangled again he wouldn't take me to the salon because I'm old now and he's right. Back when I got my hair tangled a lot and went to the salon to cut it, it was fine because I was just a child. But now I'm 17 years old. It'll just be embarrassing
I don't know what to do.
My dad took me out shopping a while ago he bought me a pretty dress and I'm happy and grateful but I didn't know how to express it so he had a argument with me
I didn't want to show him what the dress looked like on me, because it meant taking off my hood and showing him my tangled hair. He got angry and closed the door really loudly
I get his anger, I'm just venting. Not blaming anyone.
I'm the idiot here for never learning my lesson and letting my sadness take over my life
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Points of view
I get that you're feeling like this is all on you, but don't be so hard on yourself. Life can throw a lot at us, and it's not like there's a rulebook for how to balance everything perfectly. It's important to remember that hair can grow back and mats can be untangled. Maybe consider talking with your dad about how you really feel; it might be uncomfortable at first, but if he understands where you're coming from, he might surprise you by being supportive. Plus, there's a whole community online that's shared tips on getting through similar situations if you're looking for some practical advice.