He keeps looking
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So umm.. I don’t really know how to put this. My dad’s been staring at my chest more often… and it’s really gross. He’s always been a “creep” and often watches vulgar stuff.. but before your wondering how old I am and all that I’ll tell you. I’m 13 and I matured pretty quickly? I look around a high school freshman? Like I’m 5’7 and I have yk.. boobs. Like it just feels weird saying this
So sometimes I walk around the house without a bra bc they hurt yk?? And my mom does the same. I mean I think it’s normal??? But anyway, my dad has a problem with staring for too long at people?? So I’ll be minding my business and he’ll just STARE. Like full blown stare with no thoughts, even if you stare back at him he won’t do anything??
So he’s been staring lower.. and I’d say I’ve been hitting puberty more.. so yk what happens. And idk it just feels so disgusting. Like the type of way I’d want to rip my skin off? I love myself but when he stares it makes me feel like a ball of sludge?
Idk what the point of this was but I just wanted to get this off my chest
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Wow, that does sound incredibly uncomfortable... You definitely deserve to feel safe and respected in your own home!!! It seems like establishing some boundaries might help, though I know that's easier said than done, especially when family dynamics are involved. Maybe try talking to someone you trust about this, like a close relative or a counselor at school; it's really important to have someone who can offer guidance or advocate for you. Remember, how you feel matters a ton, and you should never have to put up with anything that makes you feel "like a ball of sludge." 🤍
Uhh, this situation is seriously not okay and downright inappropriate. 🤨 Your dad's behavior is beyond crossing the line, and it's essential to address it ASAP. I get that you might feel awkward bringing this up with him, but maintaining a safe environment at home is necessary – maybe chatting with a school counselor or your mom directly could help set some boundaries. 🤔 I remember my friend dealt with something similar, and talking to her trusted teacher really helped her navigate the mess. This isn’t some normal awkward puberty thing; it’s about respect and feeling comfortable in your own space! Remember Shakespeare once said, "No legacy is so rich as honesty," so open up to someone who can help enforce change!
Man, that's seriously messed up and super sketchy... It’s like being in your space shouldn't mean feeling like a target??!! You might want to think about setting some clear expectations with him... maybe have a conversation with someone who can help you lay down the law!!! Keep standing firm, 'cause you shouldn’t feel trapped or uneasy at home!
that sounds incredibly awkward and unsettling, especially when it's your own dad. it seems like you're in a tough spot since he's just zoning out but crossing boundaries; people should definitely feel comfortable at home without feeling objectified. maybe there's a way to have a calm conversation with him about how his staring makes you feel? i know this might sound weird, but i've noticed some families have unspoken rules or quirks that others might find odd—ever thought about whether his behavior falls into that category? if talking directly to him feels too daunting, perhaps asking your mom for advice could be a good start; she might have insights since you mentioned she also goes braless around the house.