I do not like my sister

I have a twinsister and I really do not like her as a person. I will paint a situation of 5 years ago: she has a partner and 2 little girls. She is having an affair with a man that is also a friend. That man has a wife and a small child and they just had a baby. Both couples live in the same street. And the 2 couples are friends. I know people cheat. But the cheating went on while the wife of the man, she was cheating on, was pregnant and in labour. The idea the woman finds out her man is sleeping with my sister makes me feel so sad. You are full of hormones etc. Cheating is wrong. But I never imagined my sister has no respect for even a pregnant woman. She also visits this woman to see the baby and at night she is meeting her husband. This happend 5 years ago. Situation 5 years later: She now lives alone with her two children in a villa. My brother bought that house for her. He is making good money. The rest of my family have normal jobs btw. I am not from a rich family. She and her partner ended the relationship. My sister lives in a villa that is worth almost a millions euro's. Buying a house for your sister is insane. But a normal family house was not good enough? It is so insane. My brother and sister both live in another reality. I work with children and have a nice life. My sister also has a normal job. But because she was with a millionaire and because my rich brother bought a house for her. She also moves in the same 'rich people' circles. I find it really hard to relate to her at all. I do like her 2 children. They are reason I still see my twinsister. For the children.

Years ago I fainted and fell from a stairs during a social gathering. I woke up with people around me and the first thing I hear is my sister yelling at me: you have ruined my night! you did it on purpose! A complete insane reaction. I passed out and fell from the stairs to hurt my sister? From that moment on I started feeling unsafe around her. I was always walking on eggs because I was afraid of her. When I went to another country for 3 months to study. She started screaming at me the last minute before I had to leave for the gate at the airport. I do not even remember what she said anymore. I was young and very nervous. And at the most vulnerable moment she unleashed this rage against me. I was trembling in the gate. She is also always is screaming at staff in restaurants and hotels. if someone makes a human mistake, she will start screaming. She can not handle her emotions and needs to control everything. The thing is; if you meet her she is very open and nice, funny and good to be around with. But around people who are close to her she is just mean. I am sick of her. I do not want to be around her. She can get very irritated if someone is saying the wrong word or is looking the wrong way. From the outside people think my sister is so great and working hard. Doing her best in life. They always think we have this special bond because we are twins. She has not visited my house in 10 years. I live 80 miles away from her. I always went to her house. But the last years I stopped going to her house. Part because of the one way street. But mostly because of her nasty soul. She is very good at manipulating sitautions and playing the victim. I just can not handle her anymore. I just feel worthless when I am with her. I feel very small. She makes me insecure and nervous.

I wrote about a few situations. I could write a book. I just needed to release this anger and frustration. I am also not english speaking. Thank you for the chance of writing this this "letter".

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