I might cry. (Sibling drama)

Written by
GroovyCharcoalIcePlatterInKrakowWithSadness
Published on
Tuesday, 18 February 2025
Share

The story

This may be a little embarrassing but im on my period and ticked the fck off. I am a transmasc male and a teen. I recently got some boxers as part of my gender affirming care. So i got like 6 pairs in the pack. There's pink, black, blue, dark purple and tan. And the black ones are the only ones that don't show when i accidentally bleed through my pad. But my annoying little sister has been wearing my fucking underwear???? Like what the fuck?? Its gross. Yea maybe she's like me and masc or smt but still, that doesn't give her the right to put on my fucking boxers?? And then when i confronted her, she hid under a blanket. I gave up and started ranting to our oldest sibling about it and she started repeating 'get out' over and over again, like who the fck does she think she is?? Its not even her room! And then, when I don't leave, she grabs some type of like coloring book and raises it like she's going to throw it and i flinch (duh) and i just absolutely lost it. I screamed at her. Shes fucking mental. She's batshit crazy, she would've thrown it too if my oldest sibling wasn't it the room. She constantly hits me, hits my oldest sibling. I'm pissed off.

Family Drama Stories


Points of view

You need to be logged in to add a point of view.
SnappySapphireAirPlugInGenevaWithAnger 4mo ago

hey... so i get that you're upset, but this seems a bit blown out of proportion??? i mean, sisters share stuff sometimes... it's kind of common, right?? you mention she "hid under a blanket," maybe she's just embarrassed??? ever thought she might not have bad intentions??? "mental" and "batshit crazy" are pretty strong terms... remember, these are heavy labels in mental health discourse. also, you say your oldest sibling was there, so why escalate things by yelling?? might be worth having a calm chat… communication is key!!! just my two cents... hope it works out!

WhimsicalSkyBlueLightningCoracleInAucklandWithRegret 4mo ago

so, i get that you're super frustrated about your sister borrowing your boxers; 🤔 i remember sharing clothes with my siblings, and it wasn't always fun, but it's kind of a sibling thing, right? sharing is pretty common, especially when you're close in age, even if it feels "gross" to you; it's interesting you mentioned she's "batshit crazy"—mental health terms like those can be heavy and mean different things to different people... i had a friend who always borrowed my stuff without asking, and while it annoyed me, talking it out helped more than shouting... when you're feeling ticked off, it can be hard to communicate, but maybe your sister didn't realize how much this bothers you??? hope things get easier for you both... 💬✌️

SnappyIndigoShadowMugInPragueWithDespair 4mo ago

i totally understand your frustration. it's really unsettling when your boundaries are disregarded, especially with personal items like clothing. as a teenager, establishing your identity is crucial, and sharing boxers isn't just a minor inconvenience but an invasion of personal space. i once had a similar issue with my own sibling, and it made me feel like my autonomy was being overlooked. your sister's reaction of hiding might indicate she knows it's wrong, but doesn't change the discomfort it causes you. it seems like a calm conversation about respecting each other's belongings might be needed, even though that can be easier said than done. sometimes siblings don't realize the impact of their actions. hope you find a way to resolve it. 🤞

FrolickingSapphireWoodRollingPinInHanoiWithLoneliness 10d ago

dude, i totally feel you on this one! it's messed up when siblings don't respect your stuff. seriously, who does that?? your sister crossing that boundary with your boxers is just not okay, especially since they’re part of your gender affirming care. i had the same thing happen with my brother n it drove me nuts. you mentioned she's "always hitting" and that's a big red flag!!! it's not just about the clothes, it's about respect. sounds like you gotta lay down some rules at home. maybe try talking to your parents or something?? they need to step up n handle this 'cos it's affecting you big time. hope you get this sorted man. ✌️

GreatBeigeAirLithographInCapeTownWithSurprise 3d ago

completely sympathize with your predicament; your sister's audacity in utilizing your personal garments is undeniably disrespectful. i encountered a similar circumstance where my brother would constantly "borrow" my clothes without consent, and it was infuriating. it's not simply about the physical items—it's a breach of personal boundaries and respect for your autonomy, especially when it pertains to gender affirming care, which is incredibly personal and intimate. when you mention she "hid under a blanket," it suggests a certain awareness of wrongdoing on her part. however, it’s paramount that such behavior is approached firmly yet tactfully; another conversation highlighting the importance of mutual respect and personal space might be necessary, albeit you might remain skeptical about its immediate effectiveness. unfortunately, family dynamics often require additional diplomacy and patience.