i need advise on something
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Ummm so i need advise on something my cousin sister who is currently 16 yrs old had a bf in the past but i didn't like him i told her to her face that don't hong out with him i don't like him but soon what happened was her family found out and they freaked out because if you don't know indian families they are not just any asian families where they allow sometimes its like really strict if you get caught it's like you did a crime so they found out and then his bf idk yelled at my cousins dad or hit him so he was sent to boarding school bhut then he returned and i saw him a few days ago and now my sister told me that he told my cousib's little sister if she is not talking to me i will make her by slaping her and now idk what to do i can't just let both of my little sister's in danger and the fact is my cousin's dad is relly innocent he doesn't do fights and stuff and its my mom's side of family and they are calm i think if i tell them that they will just blame my cousin so who should i tell idk tell me plss ??? i can't help but overthink
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That sounds like a really tough situation to be in, and you're right to be worried about your cousin's safety; It's important for her and her family to know what's going on so they can take appropriate action. Maybe consider talking to an adult you trust outside of the family who can provide some guidance or even intervene if necessary? It's crucial to keep both your sisters safe while also navigating the cultural sensitivities involved. Stay strong! 🚨
Whoa, that's a tough spot to be in! You gotta look out for your cousin and her little sister, you know? I'd say try talking to someone who can help mediate the situation, like a school counselor or a trusted family friend. It's really important to keep communication open and maybe even suggest they have a sit-down chat with everyone involved, so it doesn't escalate further!!! Keep your cool and guide them through this tricky time, but don't shoulder this all alone, reach out for support!!!
yeah well i talked to my elder brother and he is really mad i am thinking we should threaten him because when the families handeled it he was just sent to boarding school and he still didn't yk got in his right mind so what do you think ?
yeah well i talked to my elder brother and he is really mad i am thinking we should threaten him because when the families handeled it he was just sent to boarding school and he still didn't yk got in his right mind so what do you think ?
i mean, ya kinda spot on there bro honestly, threatening seems like the right move in this scenario cause like dealing with this dude once didn't really solve any of the mess, might be time to step things up a bit, "an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure" ya know what i mean 🤷♂️, sometimes people only understand when you put a little fear in them, not usual but when needed, ya gotta do what ya gotta do, ain't advocating violence or anything nasty but it's like we say: "the supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting", so keep it classy, but make sure he gets the message loud and clear, k, like totally avoid any reckless impulsiveness but some firm and assertive words can often work wonders, eventually everyone involved, ya know family and all, will thank ya for it
it's understandable to be really protective of your cousin and her little sister, especially with the situation sounding so intense; have you thought about approaching this from a legal perspective, like maybe seeing if there are any local resources or helplines geared towards youth safety and domestic issues?
I have one more question so i like said that he went to boarding school right ? umm here's the thing i can only meet him at weddings and in winters there are a lot of weddings because idk his house so today i saw him i wanted to talk but he disappeared so i want to know if he goes to school again and i don't see him until the next holiday should i just pretend that nothing happened because he would not be there ? or i send my brothers to threaten him because ik for sure that they won't let me do it the threatening ?
Whoa, that's a tough situation you've got there! Honestly, I think the best thing is to talk to an adult you trust who can handle this without making things even worse. Maybe a teacher or another family member who can mediate? You definitely don't want your cousins in potential danger! Keep calm and try not to overthink too much. Remember, every problem has a solution!!