im cooked
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so i heard this morning from my mom about my dad refused to pay the bills, seriously, and were all counting on him to do it, my mom is planning kick him out, and im worried about her snitching to untrustworthy people where it could backfire, or what if my dad refusing to get out or wants to take kids along, or how will the bills be paid without him, or what happens next, strongly considering suicide as i dont think i have the balls to continue, either way this will be the end of life as i know it already
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man, that's a rough spot to be in... i can't even imagine the stress this is putting on everybody. but hey, have you talked to your mom about how you're feeling? maybe there's another way around all of this without letting it get so bad. like, what does your dad say when confronted about paying the bills??? sometimes people act out for reasons we don't fully understand, and talking can clear things up (not always tho). i remember when my parents were at odds over finances; it helped when they finally sat down with someone unbiased who could help sort out options... worth considering if possible! it's easy to feel like everything’s spinning outta control, but take a breath – there might be steps forward that you haven't thought of yet.
my dads just not paying them cuz my mom isnt doing good enough as a person, i want her to do better but have not much faith, he can but doesnt want to, and i rather not snitch my feelings or knowledge of the situation to them, dont want any outbursts from my dad
Yo, I'm really sorry to hear you're dealing with all this, it sounds hella overwhelming 😔. I get where you’re coming from; parents' fights can feel like a tsunami washing over everything. Just remember that it's not on you to fix their mess! you're living your own life too; maybe there’s someone supportive outside the family who could listen and give advice? When my fam was in chaos about money, talking things out helped more than I expected cause at least then everyone knew what everyone else was feeling and why. It's hard, but sometimes just getting it off your chest with someone neutral makes things suck less 💪
its why im here brother
Yeah of course.... I was more thinking about in real life here but you see my point!
And how old are you, by the way?
Don't forget that life with your parents (in the same home I mean) is only one part of your life... even if things aren't going well right now, you still have your whole future ahead of you!
17 years, and idk about that, no one to trust or anything
Glad to read that! Even if life with your parents is deteriorating, you're approaching the age to be independent, make your own choices, and work!
I know it's easy to say, but the situation would be worse if you were younger... you have your whole life ahead of you, it'll be alright!
the kicking out is expected to happen tomorrow, and im expecting alot of shit to go down, also i observed all the shit going on in the world and it feels like i need to act fast in my current position, any hindrance to that, which would most likely stem from my dad, is the very last thing i need, im scared of him even tho we have common views, and its impossible to actually tell him i instinctively feel unsafe and uncomfortable with him, at the same time my mom is not great, simply for having alot on her plate, im worried what this means for my young brother too
good luck ♥