My father calls me a WHORE

It's really troubling to read about the situation you're going through; it sounds incredibly distressing. Your father’s behavior is not only abusive but deeply damaging. No matter his role as a househusband, these actions are inexcusable and you deserve respect and safety above all else. It's baffling that someone could justify such behavior by their own domestic contributions. Have you considered reaching out to any support groups or local authorities for guidance? It might be worth exploring options to ensure you have the opportunity to focus on your education and mental peace without this kind of destructive environment hanging over you.

I'm really sorry to hear what you're going through; it sounds like an absolute nightmare 😞. Your father's actions are not justifiable by any means, regardless of his contributions at home. It’s heartbreaking that he uses such awful language towards you and your mom; no one should have to endure that kind of behavior. Growing up, I knew someone who went through a similar situation, and they found solace and support in friends and teachers outside the home; sometimes having even one person to talk to can make all the difference. Please do consider reaching out to someone who can help—whether it's a friend, relative, or professional. Take care of yourself 🤗

your father's conduct is reprehensible; no amount of domestic responsibility can excuse such toxic behavior...

yo that's super messed up what you're dealing with!! it's like the guy's doing some stuff right but then just turns around and says the worst possible things; it's whack! i know this might sound a bit random, but when my friend's older brother started acting out at home, she found some peace in keeping a journal about things that made her happy or plans for the future; it really helped her focus on something positive. maybe save up to move away and do your own thing?? remember there's light at the end of the tunnel!!!

This shouldn't be happening to you, bless your heart 🫂he sounds like the worst father for beating you, does your mom know about the physical abuse? You can also tell the police or get a lawyer, you would have to start recording and everything for them to believe you tho, you can even take pictures of the bruises you have, tho it's all up to you, you don't have to, which I would understand, it's quite a process.

I know it's hard hearing the man who's supposed to be your dad, cooks for you, took you to school, and all these memories; just calls you a whore and everything else. It's okay to cry about this, I think it would be weird not to, it's also confusing because your dad would be doing nice things things but then also call you not nice things so your emotions are valid.

I think you're on the right path tho, you'll be able to get out, I'm rooting for you and believe you'll be able to make it out, you'll heal better outside of a environment like that, stay strong! <3

I'm really sorry to hear you're in such a tough spot; it's genuinely painful to imagine enduring that kind of treatment from someone who should be your protector. It's clear your father's behavior is abusive and deeply harmful, and it's important for you to recognize that this situation isn't your fault in any way. Taking steps towards your own mental peace by considering leaving home for studies sounds like a wise decision if it feels safe and feasible for you, as independence could provide the reprieve and clarity you need right now; have you had a chance to discuss this with anyone else who might offer support?

man, that sounds so rough and i'm sorry you're dealing with this. 😟 it reminds me of a friend who had similar issues at home; he said finding someone outside his family to confide in really helped him get through those tough times; have you considered talking to a counselor or maybe a teacher you trust about what's going on? stay strong and keep thinking about those future plans—sounds like you've got some big dreams ahead!

Your situation sounds incredibly tough, and it takes a lot of courage to share what you're going through; I hope you can find a way to prioritize your safety and well-being.

I'm sorry you're going through this, it's truly appalling. 😡 Labels like "househusband" don't give him a license for cruelty. Honestly, it's revolting how some people wear a mask of normalcy while they’re the opposite behind closed doors. It sounds like you've already got tenacity and courage since you're planning to leave for your studies—good on you! Consider documenting everything and maybe seek legal advice; abuse is not to be tolerated. You've got more worth than his vile words will ever define!

Damn, that's a heavy load you're carrying. It's awful how your dad’s actions contradict his role at home; no amount of chores can justify his abuse. I had a neighbor who went through what you're dealing with and they found joining support groups really helpful—sometimes just being around people who've been through similar stuff helps you see things differently. Don’t let your father’s words define you or hold you back from pursuing a future where your dreams take center stage!

man, i’m really sorry to hear about what you’re going through; it’s tough to wrap my head around how someone can be decent in one aspect and so hurtful in others. sounds like your dad's got some deep issues and takes them out on the wrong people; it's not right at all. i've heard that sometimes when people are unhappy with their own lives, they lash out at others to feel a sense of control or power... doesn't make it okay though, ya know? anyway, i'm not sure if you've tried seeking support from online communities or forums where folks have gone through similar stuff; they could offer some solid advice or just be there to lend an ear when things get too much to handle. keep holding onto those dreams you mentioned—there’s a world of opportunity waiting for you once you're able to break free!

Whoa, what a tough situation you're in!! It's so unfair how you're being treated, especially by someone who's supposed to be caring and supportive. The duality of your dad's behavior—doing housework on one side and spewing such negativity on the other—is just plain wrong; I can't imagine how confusing that must be for you; Being called something demeaning, especially by a parent, is truly hurtful and abuse like this can leave scars both physically and emotionally.

It seems like you're trying to find a way out through education which is awesome because it sounds like it could really help break away from this toxic environment once you've gathered enough resources; Remember, you deserve respect and happiness far beyond the confines of your current home life! If there's any trusted adult or friend in your life you can safely reach out to about these circumstances, it might offer some relief or guidance during this time. Stay focused on your goals—you’ve got strength within that ridiculous words can't touch!!!

it's harsh when the person who's supposed to protect you turns around and makes life so unbearable 😞, you've got every right to feel upset about it.