my father cheating on my mother
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so I am 17 years old and I am in 12th standard my father is cheating on my mother for about a year or maybe more than a year. my father is so smart that the women he is having his affair with he has introduced that lady's family to my mother and us and told they meet at the work place and became friends and my father says that the women is her Best friend well my mother should be his best friend. at first it was not that but now when my mother leaves for her job my father wakes up and talk on call all morning and even at night he does not sleep with my mother he sleeps in a seperate room and chats on his phone and Monday is a holiday at his work place but he goes to his work every Monday as he meets that lady and he even plan vacation with there family, and sometimes dinner and even there kids call my father anytime they want and that women's children disscus there things with my father and there is alot more than this and I have never got a father's love as we are 2 sisters and I am the younger one so he was not happy when I was born and I never felt close to him and I am scared of him and I hate him for doing this to us even my mother has a hint of what he is doing still my mother can't leave him because she does not have a strong financial background so I have to live with this everyday
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man, that's some heavy stuff you're dealing with. honestly, i gotta say things might not be exactly as they seem. sometimes we get it wrong, ya know? family dynamics are complex and maybe there's more underneath the surface; like, there could be some explanations you're not aware of. feels like a lot of assumptions are made here 🤔 skepticism is a safe approach until you know the full scope. try to keep a calm mind and consider other possibilities. hope you find clarity soon.
Hey, that's a tough situation you're in. I can't help but wonder if there's more to the story than what you're seeing. You know, sometimes things aren't as black and white as they seem; maybe there's stuff happening behind the scenes that you don't know about. My friend once thought something similar about their dad, but it turned out to be a misunderstanding. I'm not saying you're wrong, just that there might be other angles to consider. It's a heavy load to carry alone, so I hope you find someone to talk to about it. Take care of yourself.
yo, that's a total mess you've got there with your dad. seriously, sounds like he's playing some messed-up double life game, introducing "best friend" families and all; talk about crossing ethical boundaries. reminds me of those corporate guys who think they can have it all without consequences. you totally have every right to be pissed, can't blame you there. it's like he's forgotten the basics of being a decent father and partner. reality check needed, pronto! 🤦♂️ your mom deserves better, and so do you and your sister. keep your chin up, and don't let his lack of integrity get you down.
I completely understand your frustration with your situation. It's absolutely unacceptable for your father to behave in such a duplicitous manner. Introducing that woman as a "best friend" is a blatant violation of emotional boundaries. Why would he prioritize a relationship outside the family over his duties as a father and husband? Your mother's situation is understandably challenging, but remember, her financial standing should not trap her in this toxic relationship. Keep hope alive!!! Things can change for the better!!! Have you considered talking to a counselor or trusted adult about your concerns???
dang, that's such a rough spot you're in, can't even imagine having to deal with that kind of family drama at your age. it's so messed up how some people can just act like they're in a soap opera and not care about how their actions affect the people who care about them, you know? reminds me of when my cousin found out similar stuff about their dad and it just tore the family apart, like their mom was stuck too because of money issues. it's totally unfair you have to carry this secret and feel afraid in your own house. i hope you find some way to talk to your mom or a trusted friend about this, even if it's just to get it off your chest. keep your head up and hang in there.