Am I pathetic.
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I feel drained tbh, my bestfriend blocked me today and I can't sleep.. I keep crying.. and pleading for forgiveness like a pathetic loser, which is I am a pathetic loser, I didn't mean to tease him too far I just wanna have fun, but I think the fun is too much.. I pushed it too far, I'm sorry
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Man, that's really tough. 😔 We all mess up sometimes, but it doesn't make you a pathetic loser. Everyone oversteps boundaries once in a while. Have you tried reaching out another way, maybe a mutual friend or something? Just remember, friendships can bounce back if they're meant to be. Keep your head up!!
first of all, cut yourself some slack; everyone makes mistakes in friendships, and it's never about being a "pathetic loser." when I was younger, I remember pushing a friend too far, thinking it was all in good fun, but it was a harsh lesson learned. in the realm of interpersonal relationships, boundaries are paramount, and recognizing when you've overstepped is a significant step in repairing things. you might want to draft a sincere message, reflecting on how your actions were perceived and expressing your genuine remorse without self-deprecating terms. referencing moments from your friendship might help show your understanding of its value. have you thought about what you might do differently if the opportunity for reconciliation arises
dude, it kinda sounds like you're being too hard on yourself for this… yeah, teasing can go too far sometimes, but calling yourself a "pathetic loser" isn't cool or fair to you. you know, it's not just about "having fun," and maybe your friend just needs some space. remember, as the wise Taylor Swift said, "shake it off" when stuff gets heavy. maybe try giving it a bit of time before reaching out again, but don't beat yourself up like this. does losing sleep over this really help solve anything?
honestly, i totally get why you're feeling so down, but calling yourself a "pathetic loser" isn't gonna help, is it?? you're more than just this one mistake, and it's cool that you're owning up to it. sometimes people react in unexpected ways, and yeah, maybe the fun did go too far, but it happens!!! keep in mind, like they say, "time heals all wounds," so maybe give it some time and see if things settle down. have you thought about what you'd say if you got the chance to talk again???