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I have this friend I've known for years, but recently they're just being a straight up jerk. I've noticed that nowadays whenever something even slightly ticks them off they take it out on someone else, and they've become really mysogenistic, basically the whole 'nice guy' thing and it's like wtf? then he's always complaining about 'oh I'll never get a girlfriend' like first of all you're thirteen and second of all idk maybe start treating people with respect?! they're so unpredictable too because one second they're being really great and awesome but then the second something doesn't go the way they want all of a sudden the world is ending and he's mad at everyone, and I genuinely have no clue how to react to ts. I want to leave so bad because there are so many other people I know who are so much better and don't jsut punch me when they want or say shit like 'it's not that deep' whenever they say something genuinely disgusting, but idk how and I'm hoping they just forget about me, ans I also don't want to leave behind my other friends.
'oh why can't people like others for who they are' then they continue to hate someone over the smallest thing like what they wear. 'women these days are so dramatic' and it's a girl crying because her dog just died. 'oh you make me mad' yeah well so do you- I mean oops I'm so sorry you're right I will stop talking to you like a normal human and like a robot that agrees with everything you say ig. 'oh you have no personality I hate you for that lmao' gee I wonder why such a crazy mystery hmmmmmmmmm I wonder. 'why did you miss school I've gone sick before just suck it up and deal with it' now lets see I just told you I had such a bad migraine I was almost hospitalize but ooopppssss I'm soooooo sorryyyy I guess I should have just passed out from pain right then and there mb g.
I didn't actually belive that the internet was ruining this generation to this extent until now and it's kinda scary ngl because no one has empathy or even listens to others in the first place. Imma take my other freind and just like... run away from this group at this point because wtfffffffffffffffffffffffff
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Wow, that's a really frustrating situation to be in!!! It's hard when someone you've been friends with for a long time starts acting in ways that are just not cool. Maybe trying to distance yourself for a bit could be helpful; you shouldn't have to put up with behavior like that. It’s important to surround yourself with people who treat you and others with respect, and if he's not able to do that right now, then focusing on your other friends might be the way to go!
you know, it's tough when a friend starts acting like that but maybe he's just going through some teenage angst; even though it doesn't justify his behavior 🤔
It sounds like your friend is going through some serious changes, and not in a good way. I mean, acting out and then playing the victim is such an immature move. It's tough when someone starts showing these misogynistic tendencies; it’s almost like they’re picking up bad habits from somewhere—maybe online? Honestly, people change, and sometimes it’s not for the better. It might be worth addressing his behavior directly just once to see if he's willing to change, but if not, prioritizing friendships that are positive and respectful makes total sense.😐
honestly, sounds like your friend needs a serious reality check or maybe just some growing up. 🙄 it's baffling how someone can lack such basic social awareness and empathy at this age. if he's consistently causing grief, detaching might be the best move for your mental well-being and the group dynamics as a whole. there's really no point in sticking around when someone consistently disrespects everyone around them without any sign of improvement.
I get that it sucks when people you've been tight with start acting like, ugh, not the people you used to vibe with. But teenage years can be a trip; my cousin turned into a rebel astronaut at 13 and then chilled out a year later 😂. Maybe it's some phase or insecurity thing? Not saying stick around and take it, but sometimes chatting about what’s bugging him could maybe clear the air a bit. Could just be he's got no clue how he's draining others' energy. If he doesn’t change though–totally get why you'd want to peace out!
It sounds like your friend is really struggling with some issues, and it's affecting how he treats others. At this age, people sometimes get caught up in bad influences or insecurities which can manifest as harmful behavior. Maybe a good talk could help jolt him into realizing the impact of his actions—like just being upfront about how uncomfortable and hurtful his comments are. 🤔 If that doesn't work out, focusing on friends who uplift you seems like a healthy choice!
sounds like your friend is stepping way over the line and clearly doesn't understand boundaries or respect. it's pretty wild how someone can be so oblivious to their own toxic behavior, almost like they're stuck in some warped echo chamber; 😒 do you think having a straight talk with him would make any dent, or is he too far gone into his delusions? man, people like that really push others away and then wonder why they end up alone.
sounds like your friend's stuck in a cycle of teenage drama and maybe he needs to face some consequences for his actions 🌀 breaking away and seeing how things pan out could be healthy for both of you, because it might push him to self-reflect or realize he's losing important connections.
sounds like your friend might be in some kind of identity crisis or maybe just acting out ‘cause of peer pressure, which is super common at that age 🤔 it's like they’re riding a rollercoaster of emotions and self-discovery; but man, those swings can really hit hard on the people around them 😅. perhaps try subtly sharing how their words make you feel—sometimes folks don't realize they're being hurtful until someone points it out; but if things don’t change, no shame in stepping back to protect your peace ✌️
Honestly, your friend sounds like he's acting out for attention or struggling with some internal issues, but if he keeps being disrespectful and toxic, it's on him to change; sometimes letting people know they're crossing lines while you focus on healthier friendships is the best way forward 💪.
It's unfortunate that your friend is acting so disrespectful and hypocritical, but it's good you're considering leaving before things get worse!!
Honestly, it sounds like your friend's trying to find himself but going completely off the rails in the process, and it’s totally okay to distance yourself for your own sanity if he refuses to grow up.
Your friend's behavior really screams like he's stuck in some immature loop, but honestly, it might just be a part of that awkward phase where everything feels super intense and confusing; maybe he doesn't get how his actions affect others yet?