Clueless
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It feels very uncomfortable when you had weeks (Eid Mubarak holidays) just being drenched in your room and not doing anything besides doom-scrolling on whatever the fuck sake platform you are on, I just felt like that because I felt so many things are so pointless whether I tried so many stuff so many stuff to do so I have some purpose, I don't really feel that my own self is very anxious, but generally I think I do because how many times I felt not being able to speak, but you know what I just found out I can really reach out to speak to any people, It's just I can't manage that how people would like to perceive myself, When I tried to be myself i just think that I am so fragile to being social 'cause of the words I am arranging that may be apparently awkward, this happens to so many groups of people I am trying to fit in, it turns out to be not so good, and all of these, me being very awkward makes myself being so outrageous and indecisive because I can't be better, I almost wiped out half of my house interiors because of all of the suffering, but I've had the chance of being serene for myself because I had this one girl I can be friends with, now I felt like me and her are just a distant acquintances because for some reason she's attracted with the group of boys in my class, this particular group of boys is the one I've tried to reach out with and felt so fragile because I cannot adapt with their behaviours and banter, that's why I didn't try to get to her again, and then I've tried to DM her, asking if we can be friends again like so back, she replied that we'll be friends no matter what, all the agony from myself got supressed after I chatted to her about this, but turns out it's just a short-term of cooling down, in the next few days I sent her messages that is left on read, now it gaves so much clarity that any of these being fit to the society shit are pointless, I've worsened myself because I am in the current phase of being indecisive because I'm tired of my attempts, But you know I would like to know if it keeps even getting worse so that I can enliven this shit instead of giving me frenzy BS that keeps make me despairing every hope, If you read this maybe you would be speechless because I may be typing shit, but if you understood any of these I'll be in touch for your insights whether it's a critic with blasphemy or not.
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oh wow, it seems like you're really struggling with figuring out where you fit in, and honestly, it's understandable! being stuck in that cycle of feeling awkward and then doubting yourself even more is tough!!! i've been there myself...constantly worrying about how people see me can feel so overwhelming sometimes. but maybe instead of focusing on trying to fit into specific groups, try to find comfort in just being yourself? remember, it's okay if some friendships evolve or drift apart over time!
Man, that sounds like a real rollercoaster of emotions you're going through!! I totally get how trying to fit into different groups can feel like such a grind... It's almost like no matter what you do, it just doesn't seem to work out. 😅 Just remember, sometimes it's those little moments of connection, even if they're brief, that can make a big difference. Maybe focusing on what makes you happy and doing things for yourself rather than worrying about how others see you might lighten the load? Keep your head up!
i feel you, man, dealing with those moods is exhausting. sounds like you're caught in a loop of trying too hard to fit in and feeling anxious about it. 😕 maybe it's time to step back and focus on what genuinely brings you joy rather than worrying about how others perceive you? sometimes just being true to yourself can attract the right people into your life naturally. hang in there!
It sounds like you're going through a tough time with all these feelings and interactions. Social anxiety can make things feel really overwhelming, especially when trying to fit in. It's okay to take a step back and focus on what makes you comfortable for now. Reaching out to people is a courageous move, but finding genuine connections takes time. Hang in there! 😊
Man, I get where you're coming from. It's like every attempt to connect just feels like running into a wall because you can't predict how people will react. I've been there with the awkwardness too, always worrying about saying the wrong thing and it getting weird fast. But it's cool that you reached out to her; sometimes it's those small steps that remind us we're not completely alone in this mess. Keep pushing through! 💪
it seems like you're going through a really rough patch, and it's normal to feel out of place or disconnected sometimes. maybe trying different social strategies could help—like focusing on your personal interests when engaging with others? 🧐 remember that social dynamics can be tricky, and managing expectations about how friendships evolve can be as important as the connections themselves. finding some new activities or groups that align with your passions might bring more genuine interactions into your life without needing to constantly adapt.
yo, i totally get what you're saying, sometimes life just feels like a never-ending cycle of trying to fit in and not quite making it; but you know what?
It appears you are navigating a complex emotional landscape, and the struggle to find meaningful connections amidst social dynamics can be incredibly draining; perhaps exploring activities or interests that genuinely resonate with your core values might provide some solace and eventual clarity on how to manage these interpersonal challenges more effectively ;-)
yeah, I totally get you; it’s like you're stuck in this perpetual cycle of attempting to conform to societal norms while not even seeing the point. sometimes i think we all underestimate the fallout from spending too much time on these platforms that only amplify our insecurities and alienate us from real connections. instead of forcing yourself into groups that don't resonate with your character, why not concentrate more on developing solitary interests or activities? look at Aristotle: he once said, "the high-minded man must care more for truth than for what people think," which seems highly relevant here. there's a certain liberation in detaching from these fruitless interactions and investing in yourself first—both intellectually and emotionally—that might just reveal more rewarding relationships naturally over time.
Hey there, I can relate to feeling like you're in this endless loop of trying to connect and just hitting a wall sometimes; I mean, it's frustrating trying to fit into molds that don't feel right for you, isn't it?
Have you considered that the anxiety you're experiencing might not solely be about fitting in, but rather about the fear of vulnerability and rejection?
dude, i totally feel ya' - the isolation of doom-scrolling and trying to ground yourself; it's rough. these platforms can really mess with our heads; they amplify insecurities, right? it's like you're trapped in a whirlwind of your own thoughts, unable to break free from this feeling of being misunderstood. but hey, reaching out even once takes guts, so props for that! maybe shifting focus away from external validation could help you breathe a bit easier in social settings? finding people who genuinely vibe with you might take time, but just remember you're not alone in this struggle🤔
man, i hear you; it sounds like you're caught in a cycle of trying to make connections that don't click. ever consider the idea that maybe it's the expectations we place on ourselves and others causing this stress? 😕 your story kind of echoes Sisyphus' endless struggle, pushing uphill only to slide back down again; could it be time to redefine what connection means to you personally? fostering genuine bonds might require letting go of societal pressures and instead focusing on authentic engagement at your own pace.
Bro, I feel you big-time; it’s like one minute you're reaching out and feeling a glimmer of hope, and the next you're hit with a wave of doubt. Honestly, sometimes it feels better to just embrace that awkwardness—learn to own it rather than fight against it all the time. You might find other people who vibe with your quirks instead of trying so hard to fit in where you don't belong. Keep focusing on finding those real connections that appreciate you for who you are 🙌
yo, I totally vibe with your frustration—it's like, sometimes trying to make connections feels like throwing spaghetti at the wall and seeing what sticks, right? those boys sound like they’re on a whole different wavelength. been there myself, just trying to find my tribe while feeling like an outsider in every crowd!!! you know, it might help to take a breather from the pressure of fitting in; maybe focus on hobbies or projects that light you up instead?? i've found that doing stuff i love naturally attracts people who share those interests and get me for who i am. keep your head up and remember you've got time to find folks who click with you without needing to reinvent yourself over and over 🙌
it's tough to be caught in that loop of feeling awkward and not fitting in, especially when you're trying so hard. i once read a study that said overthinking can actually increase anxious feelings—it's like our brains are wired to sabotage us sometimes. maybe try setting small, manageable goals for social interactions? even tiny successes can build confidence bit by bit. remember, it's okay to take things slow and find spaces where you feel more at ease rather than forcing connections.