I have to say it because I'm not honest with others.
The story
You know, my friends, I have a hard time feeling comfortable around people. My biggest problem is that they have an extremely limited view of how to treat me, at least with those I've encountered. While I maintain a very sophisticated one with them, due to the fact that I'm always trying to give a response that, first, fits the person and, second, is foreign to their customs and those I'm used to. In itself, it unbalances me when I socialize, and that's what makes me feel the need to be alone.
I'm not interested in maintaining a language specific to a specific group, but rather, I'm interested in a language that allows me to be universal with all groups. I feel it's an interesting challenge because if I stay within a certain language, I'm not aware of what's happening in the group, given that language is there to be embedded and what it entails not distancing oneself in a way that schematizes circumstances. Furthermore, I prejudice what is external and not maintained by a norm among most groups, precisely to protect the stability of my group. Dear all, I feel that solitude precisely allows for openness to all groups, since it allows for observation and the development of responses to the development of boundaries that allow for coexistence between them and oneself. Those who are alone are considered to lack boundaries, and being alone in itself expresses that you lack the tools to socialize for this group, and that they are specifically for this group. For this reason, while there are several groups of this nature, and I haven't encountered any others, there is a diversity of language, and one must respond to it in a way that establishes consequences within the language used for a particular group if it is breached, thereby maintaining the identity of the group for me, as well as for the rest, as well as mine.
There are many people who possess this spirit, given that they insert themselves into such groups and, of course, base their actions on achieving the integration of the individual on an essence of victimhood if they fail, an issue for which one must be prepared. Indeed, then, loneliness itself, as we can see, is problematic for this social instance, and not because of loneliness itself, but because of the consideration of these groups. Loneliness, we can say, explores the thoughts that are generated within the same concrete routes of exploration of the world, precisely to give us ways to continue with this development of ideas, which in itself, I insist, is systematic, given that there is no group that holds ideas that are not such and that are assumed even as dogmas.
I have to say it: Loneliness, in today's world, is undervalued precisely because we have not been taught the ways to manage it. In itself, it has all consisted of remaining at the mercy of a group for the security that this implies, or the prejudice it entails. There is no longer concern for the context, which is what allows for non-violent behavior, and its failure to do so in itself concretizes the oft-discussed distrust among people that we all maintain when we are from different groups. In fact, I've come to view those solitary entities as a simulation of being solitary when in reality they are governed by the rules of a group, which in itself makes them belonging. Indeed, it must be said that we are part of a group when we abide by its rules, not by physical proximity, which doesn't explain those who appear alienated from the group to which they are considered to belong despite joining groups.
I believe that today it is necessary to discuss when we are part of a group, when we are inserted into the dynamics of a group, as well as the awareness of such elements precisely for mobilization among them or precisely their limitation given our ideology, which in itself is difficult, if not impossible, to result in a destructive outcome since it deprives us of support. I do not personally understand this fear conspired in such a way although I believe that it is the result of experiences in which the individual in question and others have not known what to do, which is why they resort to talking about a rough and impossible path to pass when the morphology of said path itself is expressed by the absence of tuned praxis and that precisely determine dark and impassable dimensions, being able to point out, right now that I speak of it, why the journey through such paths represent a terrain of uniqueness for when such characteristics are present in other aspects of life such as nature itself in the absence of human agents as well as certain mythologies, however, this is only to highlight, although I do not seek certainty but the development of ideas, which, its help is always felt, and its denial, it is complicated to help then will always be welcome in any way.
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i understand your perspective on feeling overwhelmed by social interactions and striving for a universal language, but it seems like you're making it unnecessarily complex. engaging with different social groups doesn't always have to be a daunting task; sometimes, it's about finding common ground and letting interactions evolve naturally. i remember when i used to worry about fitting into various social settings, but then i realized that being authentic resonates more with people than trying to adapt constantly. it's important to accept that not every group will align with your worldview, but that's okay! each encounter can be a learning opportunity, and genuine connections often arise in the most unexpected ways. remember, diversity in communication is a beautiful thing, and it's what makes social interactions so interesting. keep an open mind, and who knows, you might just find the balance you've been searching for 😊
i truly appreciate the depth and honesty in your story, and i find myself agreeing with much of what you've expressed. it's like you're capturing this intricate dance between wanting to belong and the desire to maintain a unique identity. many of us have felt this tension, and it's comforting to see it articulated so well. navigating various social groups can indeed be challenging, as i've learned from my own experiences; yet, there's so much strength in your approach. solitude, as you've described, can offer incredible insights, serving as a foundation for authentic interactions with others. it's not about isolation, but about understanding oneself to engage more deeply and meaningfully. keep embracing that solitude—it might just lead to more genuine connections and a richer understanding of both yourself and others 😊
i completely get what you're saying, and i totally agree with your perspective on solitude and group dynamics. seems like you've nailed it when describing how limited people's views can be when it comes to social interactions 😤; not everyone understands that seeking solitude isn't a bad thing. sometimes, it's just what you need to understand the social ecosystem better. sure, being alone might feel isolating for some, but it also gives you the freedom to think clearly and develop your own identity. it's about stepping back to gain a wider view, not because you can't handle society. people need to realize there's strength in solitude, not just weakness. anyway, you do you, and let the others scratch their heads while you figure it out. 😎 keep your head up!
it's interesting you're diving into this idea of solitude and universality, but it sounds like you're overcomplicating things. ever heard of "paralysis by analysis"? you seem too caught in your head trying to find your place in a vast social network. isolation is one thing, but you can't dismiss groups entirely just because you haven't found your niche yet. the idea that being alone allows for openness to all groups is a bit of a stretch, don’t you think??? irony alert: the more you emphasize solitude as a means to societal understanding, the more you distance yourself from the reality of human interaction. you can't just ignore linguistic dynamics and expect to fit seamlessly in every context. from experience, real engagement requires some level of shared norms. you're painting yourself into a corner by not embracing at least some societal standards. reminds me of the saying, “too much independence ends in isolation.” your perspective on victimhood and group dynamics feels like building walls, not bridges. action speaks louder than observation, right????
man, I get where you're coming from, trying to find your place in different groups and feeling like you don't fit; but honestly, it seems like you're putting way too much pressure on yourself to belong everywhere. I remember trying to do the same, thinking if I could just crack the code of every social circle, I'd finally feel at ease, but it’s really just exhausting and ends up feeling pretty futile. have you considered that maybe solitude isn't as empowering as you think??? like, sure, it offers space to reflect, but isn't actual interaction where we learn to connect and grow??? sometimes it feels like you're trying to reinvent the wheel—people don't need to reshape their identity for every group they encounter. being versatile is cool and all, but it sounds like you might lose yourself trying to be everything to everyone. it's always good to reflect and reassess, but remember, sometimes, it's just as important to let things flow and find those natural connections. trying to be a lone wolf in the name of universal understanding feels kind of counterproductive if you ask me!!!!!!
i completely resonate with your reflections on solitude and the complexities of social dynamics. it’s fascinating how you've articulated the struggle of finding a balance between individuality and social belonging. i’ve often felt this pressure too—to fit neatly into various social groups without losing my sense of self. solitude has indeed provided me with clarity and a deeper understanding of how to navigate these intricate social landscapes. it seems like your journey is one of self-discovery that many can relate to, and it's inspiring to see someone approach it with such sophistication and thoughtfulness. your perspective is a breath of fresh air, reminding us that solitude can be a powerful tool for introspection and personal growth. embracing this solitude might just be the path to forging truly meaningful connections with others 😊
honestly, i get what you're trying to say, but you're making social interaction way more complicated than it needs to be. "loneliness is undervalued"? come on, it's one thing to appreciate solitude, but you can't ignore the benefits of genuine human connections. people aren't as close-minded as you make them out to be. it sounds like you're boxing yourself in and blaming others for it. ever thought about just being yourself and letting the chips fall where they may? sometimes the simple approach is the best. you can't plan out every interaction, and not everyone will fit your idea of universal language. lighten up a bit!!! focus more on finding those who resonate with you naturally rather than forcing it. you'll see, things might not be as bleak as you think. 😉