I just can’t do it anymore.
The story
I am collapsing inward like a dying star but no one will see the implosion until the light dissipates.
If you were to ask me what kind of friend I was, I’d tell you I’m the compassionate one.
But if you were to ask me on a deeper level, I’d say not once have I ever felt genuinely wanted or seen. I’ve always felt like the pity friend that is just allowed to be there. Not the favorite or the least favorite, just forever existing in a state of mediocrity. Deep down I desperately wish to feel truly cared for and I don’t know how much longer I can exist feeling like this. But I absolutely refuse to let anyone I love feel the way that I do. I will fiercely care and love them even if it sacrifices my own peace.
I’m never wanted. Too much and simultaneously not enough. Desperately praying to be completely and irrevocably seen. I think the second I’d feel wanted, the world would pause, all emotions would break like a tidal wave as I feel the earth give way under my feet, grasping onto the wanton need, fearing it would turn and run. Just like everything and everyone has done to me. So I’ll sit. And I’ll stay. Waiting for that day if it were to ever come. Though I fear I’d wait so long death would meet me first. Perhaps that is the only time I’d be wanted. I’d grasp his outstretched skeleton hand and wander to the land of the dead. Perhaps that is when I’ll have peace.

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honestly, it sounds like ur going through a lot, but remember, life gets better. it might not feel that way now, but you’ve got to believe someone values you. try to focus on self-care and find joy in small things, y’know? life can surprise ya sometimes. 🤞
i totally hear you and relate so much to what you're saying!!!! it’s like constantly giving and not feeling reciprocated!!!! sometimes i feel like i'm just a background character in my own narrative; perpetually supporting but seldom acknowledged 🤷♂️. it's a frustrating paradox, isn't it??? feeling like you're simultaneously too much and yet not quite enough???? i've also felt that void, yearning for genuine connection and validation, while maintaining a façade of unwavering support; it's emotionally exhausting!!!!! but remember, self-awareness is key, and maybe prioritizing our own well-being could create a shift in how we're perceived. keep shining!!!!
kinda get where you're coming from, but isn't it a bit dramatic? feeling invisible sucks, but maybe the issue isn't with the people around you? the constant self-sacrifice isn't sustainable; sometimes it might be good to assess if it’s mostly in your own mind. life's not always about being the center of attention 😶🌫️ acknowledge your own worth, sure, but don't let it spiral into bitterness;
wow, that’s some heavy stuff. i get it, kind of feels like you're stuck in this endless loop of being there for others but feeling invisible yourself. reminds me of that saying, “the squeaky wheel gets the grease,” but sometimes you're just not squeaky enough, right? 🛠️ i've been there too; putting everyone first and wondering when someone’s gonna notice your own needs. it's like you're screaming into the void and hoping for an echo. sometimes people just wear these emotional blinders, and it's frustrating as hell. keep pushing through though, life's unpredictable and might just throw you a bone when you least expect it.
your narrative evokes a strong emotional response, yet perhaps it's slightly tilted towards exaggeration. although feeling unrecognized can be quite disheartening, it's essential to question whether this perception stems from external factors or an internal narrative that's been perpetuated. they say "the grass is always greener on the other side," but that often depends on how we nurture our own garden; fostering self-acknowledgment and seeking joy in solitary experiences might change the way you view your connections. life's unpredictability means that our feelings of invisibility can shift when least expected.
i feel ya, but maybe you're being a bit too harsh on yourself. sometimes it’s easy to get stuck in our own heads and think we’re not enough, but perception can be tricky. like, what if it’s not all doom and gloom and you're more valued than you realize? "not all who wander are lost," right? maybe it’s just about finding your own path and recognizing your worth, despite what it feels like now. sure, things might seem rough; focusing on self-improvement could help change the perspective 😊
i get where you're coming from, and it's a real struggle 😔. kinda feels like you're always the sidekick in someone else's story. that line about collapsing inward like a dying star really hits hard, because who hasn't felt like that at some point? "the struggle is real," as they say, but don't forget, sometimes it's about appreciating your own shine even if others don’t see it right away. just hang in there and maybe try to shift the focus a little to your own well-being. life's a crazy ride, man, and it's okay to put yourself first sometimes.
totally get what you're saying. sometimes it feels like no matter how much you give, it just doesn't come back your way. it's tough being the supportive one all the time and not feeling appreciated. personally, i've been through similar stuff, feeling like a spare part in friendships. even when you try to change things, it can feel like you're hitting a wall. but maybe there's a way to find peace by focusing on your own needs a bit more. it's not being selfish; it's just taking care of yourself. gotta look out for numero uno sometimes, right?
i really resonate with what you're expressing, and believe me, it's a tough gig to constantly be the one giving and not feeling that reciprocation. there's this saying, "even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise," and i think that fits here. i've been in a similar headspace before, where it felt like i was invisible despite my efforts. it's easy to feel like a benchwarmer in your own life, but sometimes, small shifts in perspective can help. focusing on self-care and remembering your value can change the narrative over time. keep your chin up, because things might just turn around when you least expect it. 🌟
honestly, this sounds too dramatic and self-pitying. do you really think nobody sees or cares? maybe it's time to look around instead of wallowing; i've felt invisible too, but sometimes it's just in our heads. as they say, "actions speak louder than words," so maybe it's about changing your own actions first. focus on what's within your control and stop waiting for others to validate you. everyone has their own struggles and people won't always be focused on you. 🤔
really feel where you're coming from, and honestly, it's like you're speaking my mind!!! being the compassionate one does get exhausting when it seems like nobody appreciates or even notices your efforts. i've had moments where i felt like a ghost in my own friendships, just floating around, going unnoticed. it can make you question your worth and wonder if anyone's actually seeing you for who you are??? it's tough, but sometimes voicing your feelings, even just a little bit, can start the change towards feeling more acknowledged. hang in there, because your presence does matter more than you might realize!!! 🙂
wow, it sounds like you're carrying a lot and it's totally understandable!!! feeling invisible while you’re being the supportive one really sucks!!! i get it, i've been there before - bending over backward for people and feeling like background noise in their lives. what you shared really resonates, like you're a constant presence but only seen when it's convenient for others. however, don't forget that your empathy and compassion are incredible strengths; someone will recognize and value them eventually. it's crucial to believe in yourself and remember that your worth isn't defined by others. hang in there because these feelings won't last forever!!!
i totally feel you on this!!! it's like you're pouring yourself into others with barely a drop coming back your way!!! reminds me of that phrase, "always the bridesmaid, never the bride," right? i've been there too, always feeling like a placeholder in people's lives. sometimes it just feels like you're screaming into the void, hoping someone will notice. but just know, you're not alone in this feeling. maybe it’s time to focus a bit on yourself and what makes you happy. you deserve more than being just the backup option!!!
hey, i get feeling down sometimes, but maybe you're being a bit hard on yourself. not everyone has to see the galaxy to know the stars are there 🌌. there was a time i thought nobody noticed me, but turns out, people cared in small ways. you mention feeling like a "pity friend," but maybe it’s just that others show care differently; it's worth considering. could be helpful to talk to those around you about how you feel. being upfront and honest might bring about the change you're looking for. life can be surprising, so hang in there and keep the convo open.