I just gave up
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Have you ever just woke up and your mind is like i gave up on any kind of relationship like you just no longer wanna engage and just enjoying the solutide because all this things is just getting tired. Like you just wanna surrender and okay with being alone.
Im tired of actually putting so much effort to keep any kind of relationship and just ended up feeling everything is not reciprocate at the end. I’d rather let everything fall apart once i dont put any effort and hopefully it’ll open a new door for better things for myself.
Maybe how i show up authentically is actually by being with myself and building the relationship with myself.
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Sounds like you're hitting that classic 'relationship fatigue' where putting energy into one-sided connections becomes exhausting, and honestly, sometimes the best companion is yourself... so keep your expectations in check and enjoy your own company.
I completely understand where you're coming from, and it's normal to reach a point of weariness with relationships. 😕 However, withdrawing entirely might not be the panacea you think it is... Could it just be that expectations are perhaps set unrealistically high? 🤔 From my own experience, taking some time to reflect on what truly matters in any connection can lead to more fulfilling interactions without needing to isolate oneself. Building a relationship with oneself is indeed valuable, yet nurturing external ones can also bring unexpected joys and personal growth. Consider finding a balance rather than giving up entirely!
Honestly, I'm right there with you. Relationships can be a real drain, especially when you're constantly the one putting in all the effort just to get zip in return; It sucks 🤷♂️. I totally get wanting to pull back and focus on yourself… sometimes it feels like the only way to preserve your sanity. But have you ever considered that maybe it's more about finding people who actually understand and appreciate what you bring to the table? 💡 I've been through similar ruts, shutting everyone out, thinking I'd prefer my own company over disappointment. Yet stumbled across some surprising connections when I least expected it while trying something new for myself: like joining a club or picking up a hobby where I met people who actually clicked with me. Could seeking out those spaces make any difference for you?
Wow, I can totally relate to what you're saying. It's like reaching this point of emotional exhaustion where maintaining relationships feels like a futile endeavor; it's almost as if we get caught in this endless cycle of investing and not seeing the return. But maybe there's a silver lining here?? by stepping back, you're actually creating space for new opportunities and people who truly value you; 🧘♀️. Like they say, “Sometimes you have to lose yourself to find yourself.” Honestly, it takes courage to embrace solitude and prioritize self-discovery over societal expectations. So props to you for taking that step toward being authentically you!